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Shewolf

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #240 on: 17 March 2016, 05:40:05 pm »
For me, sex in a relationship is on an equal footing...no power thing going on...but in sex work the client is the one calling all the shots every time, regardless of who he is and that's why I want a boyfriend again.

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trashbaby

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #241 on: 18 March 2016, 10:11:35 am »
Quote from: Riverprice on 16 March 2016, 03:18:32 pm
my relationship is this at the moment

(COmes home at 8 after a ?700 booking)
Heya sweetness! Just paid the wedding photographer and registrar cos i made a guy cum twice today and dressing up

*we high five*

Yes xxxxx

Relationship goals  ;D
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Lushblossom

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #242 on: 18 March 2016, 11:10:07 am »
Oddly enough escorting has made me never want a bloke ever again!  I feel I see enough men as it is lol.
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #243 on: 23 March 2016, 07:53:36 am »
Quote from: saturnspirit on 11 January 2016, 01:46:44 am
Quote from: Kendall on 05 January 2016, 04:21:37 pm
does anyone else just not class it as sex when you're working? if i ever think about the last time I had sex I never think of work

Its not sex to me. Its a paid service. I become a actress in a sense. Not the real me! Then switch off and go home and become me again!


This 100%, i even have a back-story, slightly different accent etc. It's like "i'm" not there.
I just started a new relationship and he has found out what I do. It's hard and I've barely worked- due to the guilt and not wanting to hurt him...x ???
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #244 on: 23 March 2016, 01:25:26 pm »
I've decided not to date for now and I'm happy being single. I do miss real intimacy sometimes but it's just not worth the hassle to me right now
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #245 on: 10 April 2016, 05:53:16 pm »
do any of you have boyfriends? or date? do they know what you do if they do does it make it harder?
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #246 on: 10 April 2016, 06:10:37 pm »
I'm married, he knows what I do cos I started sex work about 10 years into our relationship. He's fine with it. Just as I am fine for him to see prostitutes or watch cam ladies.
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #247 on: 10 April 2016, 06:17:19 pm »
I have a lovely boyfriend. He knew what i did before we got together and that definitely made it much easier, not harder. I couldn't handle lying all the time about my job, and why would I anyway?
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #248 on: 10 April 2016, 06:36:03 pm »
I am very happily married and escort; he's never been anything but supportive.  It's too easy to decide that 'nobody' can handle the job when clearly, the good ones can!  :-*
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #249 on: 10 April 2016, 08:15:26 pm »
My partner of 5 years is cool about it but my ex husband got stroppy now and then even though when we met he loved it, the novelty wore off I think. The right guy will support you and accept it x
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #250 on: 11 April 2016, 11:27:16 am »
Quote from: K47 on 23 March 2016, 01:25:26 pm
I've decided not to date for now and I'm happy being single. I do miss real intimacy sometimes but it's just not worth the hassle to me right now

I take this back, I am suddenly in a relationship now! Wasn't looking for anything but it just kindof happened. I told him about my job a few days after we first met. He is not ecstatic about it, but he accepts it. I don't know if it will last but pretty happy right now =)
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Lushblossom

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #251 on: 11 April 2016, 12:15:56 pm »
Enjoy it while it lasts K47!
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #252 on: 11 April 2016, 03:00:02 pm »
Usually they are ok with at the beginning until they get feelings.   Some take it seriously like not being all thiers being faithful.  Not that it is only an income.




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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #253 on: 11 April 2016, 03:28:11 pm »
I'm in a good relationship, been about 8years so far.
An open relationship can work well. Feel I can't expect my partner to be sexually faithful if I'm not (yes I know it's only work but I can't honestly say I don't enjoy it).
So he can play. We both set limits we're happy with.
Find providing a threesome now and then really keeps sweet.  ;)
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #254 on: 12 April 2016, 12:41:15 pm »
My bloke of nearly 2 years is cool about it. He knew what I did before we got together.The only thing that upsets him is when I have a day of idiots on the phone or if I get a horrible client.He knows it's a job for me at the moment and even when we move into together I will still do some bookings but probably not as many.We have already discussed that my bookings money will probably pay for our holidays etc while his wage will cover the day to day things,so I'll be semi retired! :D
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