Author Topic: Relationships whilst escorting? (Read 115414 times)

Wailing Banshee · « **Reply #225 on:** 11 January 2016, 12:56:09 pm »

Long term relationship with a married man. Best of both worlds, someone who dotes on me and offers 'real' sex and cuddles, emotional support and is cool re the job, but I don't have to live with him getting under my feet and if I wanted free to date other men (I don't much want to). He's not going to leave his wife and nor do I want him to. It works.

It's not always easy, but he is a damn sight nicer than a lot of my past boyfriends and ex husband and almost my longest relationship!

I'm not sure I could live with anyone these days, but never say never, you never know what/who is round the corner or what might change in life.

Nova · « **Reply #226 on:** 11 January 2016, 06:15:39 pm »

Quote from: Wailing Banshee on 11 January 2016, 12:56:09 pm

Long term relationship with a married man. Best of both worlds, someone who dotes on me and offers 'real' sex and cuddles, emotional support and is cool re the job, but I don't have to live with him getting under my feet and if I wanted free to date other men (I don't much want to). He's not going to leave his wife and nor do I want him to. It works.

It's not always easy, but he is a damn sight nicer than a lot of my past boyfriends and ex husband and almost my longest relationship!

I'm not sure I could live with anyone these days, but never say never, you never know what/who is round the corner or what might change in life.

I had a relationship like this in the past. It was a nice balance.

Shewolf · « **Reply #227 on:** 12 January 2016, 11:03:43 pm »

Quote from: Wailing Banshee on 11 January 2016, 12:56:09 pm

Long term relationship with a married man. Best of both worlds, someone who dotes on me and offers 'real' sex and cuddles, emotional support and is cool re the job, but I don't have to live with him getting under my feet and if I wanted free to date other men (I don't much want to). He's not going to leave his wife and nor do I want him to. It works.

It's not always easy, but he is a damn sight nicer than a lot of my past boyfriends and ex husband and almost my longest relationship!

I'm not sure I could live with anyone these days, but never say never, you never know what/who is round the corner or what might change in life.

I had a friend in your position. He ended up leaving his wife and they lived together in the end. But it went pear shaped and he went back to his wife. She always maintained that they should have kept things just the way you describe...'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' type of thing. You have to be quite strong mentally however. But I think this work makes you stronger.

KDB · « **Reply #228 on:** 13 January 2016, 09:38:33 pm »

I am married to my mister perfect who came along after I had decided that he didn't exist!

TheLittleMatchGirl · « **Reply #229 on:** 14 January 2016, 02:33:13 am »

Quote from: KDB on 13 January 2016, 09:38:33 pm

I am married to my mister perfect who came along after I had decided that he didn't exist!

Always seems to be the way!

KDB · « **Reply #230 on:** 14 January 2016, 11:33:32 am »

Definitely!

Only once we have released our manifestation to the Universe can they be realised, in my experience

foxy roxy · « **Reply #231 on:** 14 January 2016, 04:31:47 pm »

I also don't class work sex as sex, it's just work and I forget what happens by the time I get home.

Currently with someone, although he works away often I don't see him that much, (would love to see him more often), he's cool re my work.

I don't think I could live with a man again, but I also believe we should never say never when matters of the heart are concerned. Btw, 2 kids, both grown, 1 still at home.

kate_x · « **Reply #232 on:** 15 January 2016, 02:28:01 pm »

Quote from: The_Lynx on 05 January 2016, 03:35:33 pm

Quote from: Shewolf on 05 January 2016, 03:28:40 pm
I understand this perspective but, for me, this work makes me want a partner so I can experience sex with feelings again...so I can really enjoy it again x

One of the reasons why I enjoy being with my SO - sex at work makes me crave some 'real deal' at home, for the most part.

Completely agree with this. I so look forward to seeing my partner at the end of the week (we don't live together). I think it actually makes me appreciate what we do together even more as I'm wanting to be with him and choosing him (with feelings involved of course) rather than just having sex with whoever comes through the door! My work sex and private sex are and feel completely different.

Green Carnation · « **Reply #233 on:** 16 January 2016, 03:11:56 pm »

I have long term lovers, who I see when I choose to, they know about my job but we don't discuss it. I love them both but wouldn't want to be in a real relationship with either. Apart from having nice time together, they buy me gifts I couldn't afford, so it's a win win

Would see then regardless of the gifts, but it makes it even more ideal.

Vichyssoise · « **Reply #234 on:** 16 January 2016, 03:29:45 pm »

I am married to a very open minded man. He supports me fully, I couldn't do this job without him. We have five children between us and I'm a grandmother. He is not perfect, but neither am I, we are human and come with flaws. But we both accept each other's flaws.

playfulvictoria · « **Reply #235 on:** 17 January 2016, 05:37:06 pm »

Shewolf I agree with you 100 percent. ...I am really craving the same...sometimes I don't want someone to pay me to be with them ...I really love being in a relationship and feeling wanted and needed by a spouse...even if there is some drama that comes with it but I really like having sex I actually enjoy without being paid for it...of course I am new to this business for now so won't be looking for a relationship for awhIle but I think about it lots...how nice it would be to go on dates and cuddle and have passionate romantic sex 😉

Shewolf · « **Reply #236 on:** 17 January 2016, 06:22:42 pm »

Yep, if a client looks like he wants/makes moves towards a cuddle etc afterwards, I say I am going the loo and then start getting dressed! haha!

If I were with a man I loved, I am like a koala bear.

Riverprice · « **Reply #237 on:** 16 March 2016, 03:18:32 pm »

my relationship is this at the moment

(COmes home at 8 after a ?700 booking)
Heya sweetness! Just paid the wedding photographer and registrar cos i made a guy cum twice today and dressing up

*we high five*

Yes xxxxx

ana30 · « **Reply #238 on:** 17 March 2016, 01:48:59 am »

Quote from: Riverprice on 16 March 2016, 03:18:32 pm

my relationship is this at the moment

(COmes home at 8 after a ?700 booking)
Heya sweetness! Just paid the wedding photographer and registrar cos i made a guy cum twice today and dressing up

*we high five*

Yes xxxxx

You just became my favourite person of the day

MsDee · « **Reply #239 on:** 17 March 2016, 07:51:29 am »

I am married, but I do not go into details about work with my husband. He would prefer I gave it up as he is employed and able to support us without me needing to work but it is hard for me to give up my independence and asking hubby for money when i need it.

But he loves, supports and respects me and is leaving it up to me to give up when i am ready.

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