There's also the fact that many people don't want to post about their private lives and personal circumstances on a public message board, which is going to skew the answers.

If "Mr Perfect doesn't want a partner who works/has worked in the industry then he's not Mr perfect then (at least for me).

What she said. I wouldn't be involved with someone who was narrowminded and judgemental no matter what my job was .

Quote from: Jezabel on 05 January 2016, 11:55:02 am

Yup agree with last few posters.  I made a decision early on in my escorting career not to date. I'm also old enough to know...no such thing as Mr Perfect!

Nor Mrs perfect I am sure.

I have male friends, and one or two quite close. But I don't have sex with them even though I realise sometimes they would like to. I don't like having to switch between work sex and partner sex and remembering which I am supposed to be doing lol. I prefer work sex anyway, it's less complicated, and only if I retire will I change, and I've no plans for that to happen at least for a long time.

Absolutely I'm far from perfect.  I think what you say sums up partly why I wouldn't want a partner as well, I think it'd just mess with my head.  I feel even tho what I'm doing with clients is certainly less complex, however whilst doing it I'd be unable to give 100% to a partner.  Also like someone else said I wouldn't want someone judgemental...it'd take me a long time to trust someone enough to tell them so....for now I leave it.

But for those who manage both, good on you.

Quote from: roseanna on 05 January 2016, 02:01:59 pm

Quote from: Jezabel on 05 January 2016, 11:55:02 am

Yup agree with last few posters.  I made a decision early on in my escorting career not to date. I'm also old enough to know...no such thing as Mr Perfect!

Nor Mrs perfect I am sure.

I have male friends, and one or two quite close. But I don't have sex with them even though I realise sometimes they would like to. I don't like having to switch between work sex and partner sex and remembering which I am supposed to be doing lol. I prefer work sex anyway, it's less complicated, and only if I retire will I change, and I've no plans for that to happen at least for a long time.

Absolutely I'm far from perfect.  I think what you say sums up partly why I wouldn't want a partner as well, I think it'd just mess with my head.  I feel even tho what I'm doing with clients is certainly less complex, however whilst doing it I'd be unable to give 100% to a partner.  Also like someone else said I wouldn't want someone judgemental...it'd take me a long time to trust someone enough to tell them so....for now I leave it.

But for those who manage both, good on you.

Must be so nice though to have sex with a man I find attractive and whom I have loving feelings for once again. I miss that. Just to snuggle up with a man would be wonderful, someone whose body you love rather and eyes you can look into haha (as opposed to looking anywhere but at him haha)

Quote from: Jezabel on 05 January 2016, 02:51:13 pm

Quote from: roseanna on 05 January 2016, 02:01:59 pm

Quote from: Jezabel on 05 January 2016, 11:55:02 am

Yup agree with last few posters.  I made a decision early on in my escorting career not to date. I'm also old enough to know...no such thing as Mr Perfect!

Nor Mrs perfect I am sure.

I have male friends, and one or two quite close. But I don't have sex with them even though I realise sometimes they would like to. I don't like having to switch between work sex and partner sex and remembering which I am supposed to be doing lol. I prefer work sex anyway, it's less complicated, and only if I retire will I change, and I've no plans for that to happen at least for a long time.

Absolutely I'm far from perfect.  I think what you say sums up partly why I wouldn't want a partner as well, I think it'd just mess with my head.  I feel even tho what I'm doing with clients is certainly less complex, however whilst doing it I'd be unable to give 100% to a partner.  Also like someone else said I wouldn't want someone judgemental...it'd take me a long time to trust someone enough to tell them so....for now I leave it.

But for those who manage both, good on you.

Must be so nice though to have sex with a man I find attractive and whom I have loving feelings for once again. I miss that. Just to snuggle up with a man would be wonderful, someone whose body you love rather and eyes you can look into haha (as opposed to looking anywhere but at him haha)

I know I do miss that I must admit! But there's plenty I don't miss. ...

I'm the same as you Kendall 100%

Quote from: Jezabel on 05 January 2016, 02:51:13 pm

Quote from: roseanna on 05 January 2016, 02:01:59 pm

Quote from: Jezabel on 05 January 2016, 11:55:02 am

Yup agree with last few posters.  I made a decision early on in my escorting career not to date. I'm also old enough to know...no such thing as Mr Perfect!

Nor Mrs perfect I am sure.

I have male friends, and one or two quite close. But I don't have sex with them even though I realise sometimes they would like to. I don't like having to switch between work sex and partner sex and remembering which I am supposed to be doing lol. I prefer work sex anyway, it's less complicated, and only if I retire will I change, and I've no plans for that to happen at least for a long time.

Absolutely I'm far from perfect.  I think what you say sums up partly why I wouldn't want a partner as well, I think it'd just mess with my head.  I feel even tho what I'm doing with clients is certainly less complex, however whilst doing it I'd be unable to give 100% to a partner.  Also like someone else said I wouldn't want someone judgemental...it'd take me a long time to trust someone enough to tell them so....for now I leave it.

But for those who manage both, good on you.

Must be so nice though to have sex with a man I find attractive and whom I have loving feelings for once again. I miss that. Just to snuggle up with a man would be wonderful, someone whose body you love rather and eyes you can look into haha (as opposed to looking anywhere but at him haha)

Although this sounds good too!

does anyone else just not class it as sex when you're working? if i ever think about the last time I had sex I never think of work

i'm exactly the same.  when i worked in bars, i didnt see pouring a drink for a friend or bf as work, just as i see sex in relationships differently to work sex.

it is simply a job, and not to me, actual sex.  just another service industry job hehe

does anyone else just not class it as sex when you're working? if i ever think about the last time I had sex I never think of work

Its not sex to me. Its a paid service. I become a actress in a sense. Not the real me! Then switch off and go home and become me again!

Although i been out of a relationship for years, had a few flings for real sex/ making love. I am really picky on men. Theres got to be chemistry and genuine feelings, otherwise I may as well go to work!