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Lushblossom

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #195 on: 16 May 2015, 11:04:49 am »
I think the issue is many of us have different life experiences with men and can only talk from our own perspective.

What is true for one of us on here may not be true for someone else and whether we agree with our fellow escorts or not it is still interesting and valid to get different views on the subject of relationships.

Those of us who have found love through escorting are very lucky then as I certainly haven't.
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #196 on: 17 May 2015, 04:11:24 pm »
Quote from: roseanna on 15 May 2015, 05:35:40 pm
Quote from: Lushblossom on 15 May 2015, 02:02:26 pm
The trouble with single men is that the longer they have been single the more on the fence they are and evasive about dating skills.  So a man who has been on his own a long time may not keep in touch well in between dates.  Also the more mature they are the more set in their ways they are it would seem.  Guess it depends how old they actually are.

They feel hard work then - when they ignore you I mean.

Perhaps it is better to just date ones who can not only cope with our job but also to pitch for ones who have only been single say a year or two or a few years only.  Just thinking out loud here! :)

I agree. I think once they have been single for more than a couple of years they become a dead loss. I'm very suspicious of men who jump out of one relationship and straight into another, but when they have been on their own for a long time they become even more selfish and stuck in their ways.

I don't think 2 years is that long to be single for, better than being in a relationship because you don't want to be alone, I don't have any respect for people who can't be single (don't mean to offend anyone it's just how I feel about it)
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #197 on: 17 May 2015, 05:35:53 pm »
Quote from: TheLittleMatchGirl on 17 May 2015, 04:11:24 pm
Quote from: roseanna on 15 May 2015, 05:35:40 pm
Quote from: Lushblossom on 15 May 2015, 02:02:26 pm
The trouble with single men is that the longer they have been single the more on the fence they are and evasive about dating skills.  So a man who has been on his own a long time may not keep in touch well in between dates.  Also the more mature they are the more set in their ways they are it would seem.  Guess it depends how old they actually are.

They feel hard work then - when they ignore you I mean.

Perhaps it is better to just date ones who can not only cope with our job but also to pitch for ones who have only been single say a year or two or a few years only.  Just thinking out loud here! :)

I agree. I think once they have been single for more than a couple of years they become a dead loss. I'm very suspicious of men who jump out of one relationship and straight into another, but when they have been on their own for a long time they become even more selfish and stuck in their ways.

I don't think 2 years is that long to be single for, better than being in a relationship because you don't want to be alone, I don't have any respect for people who can't be single (don't mean to offend anyone it's just how I feel about it)

Little Match Girl-I totally agree with you. I wonder what they are scared of (themselves?) x
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #198 on: 18 May 2015, 06:06:55 am »
I used to be the type of person who was always in a relationship but over the past 10 y ears I have learned to be alone.

I feel much stronger for it but still would like a life companion but have it as an open relationship as I find it quite limiting to just sleep with the same partner for any length of time.  This does not mean I can't or wouldn't love them.  This is where escort work is giving me the freedom to have different men and continue to live my life......!


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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #199 on: 19 May 2015, 03:36:49 am »
Quote from: alice842 on 13 May 2015, 05:39:25 pm
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Fifi that's a great idea. Why has noone thought of that before?

Because it would be swarmed with guys pretending to be straight male escorts wanting free bookings.

ahhh didn't think of that haha!!
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #200 on: 05 January 2016, 05:28:35 am »
How many of you girls live in a traditional unit family kids hubby / boyfriend
Im married with kids but yes we are an odd couple
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« Reply #201 on: 05 January 2016, 08:48:15 am »
Quote from: nikyhall on 05 January 2016, 05:28:35 am
How many of you girls live in a traditional unit family kids hubby / boyfriend
Im married with kids but yes we are an odd couple

I have had a long period of living with a BF but no kids. We led quite a normal life and hardly discussed my work. But these days I don't feel inclined to become involved in another relationship that would involve unpaid sex. After a couple of brief flings I've made a conscious decision to exclude that until if/when I feel the need again, which at the moment I don't in the slightest.
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« Reply #202 on: 05 January 2016, 09:24:26 am »
Oh you wont say that when Mr Perfect comes along and ticks every box you ever made lol
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« Reply #203 on: 05 January 2016, 11:10:37 am »
Quote from: nikyhall on 05 January 2016, 09:24:26 am
Oh you wont say that when Mr Perfect comes along and ticks every box you ever made lol

But "Mr Perfect" may not want a partner who has worked in the sex industry.

Not everyone wants or needs a guy in their life to be happy. I certainly don't and feel the same as Roseanna.
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #204 on: 05 January 2016, 11:25:59 am »
I wouldn't want one either. Been there done that, I love being single too much to give it up for any man.
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #205 on: 05 January 2016, 11:36:51 am »
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 05 January 2016, 11:10:37 am
Quote from: nikyhall on 05 January 2016, 09:24:26 am
Oh you wont say that when Mr Perfect comes along and ticks every box you ever made lol

But "Mr Perfect" may not want a partner who has worked in the sex industry.

Not everyone wants or needs a guy in their life to be happy. I certainly don't and feel the same as Roseanna.

If "Mr Perfect doesn't want a partner who works/has worked in the industry then he's not Mr perfect then (at least for me).

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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #206 on: 05 January 2016, 11:46:28 am »
Quote from: Ana30 on 05 January 2016, 11:36:51 am
Quote from: Lady_Lust_XXX on 05 January 2016, 11:10:37 am
Quote from: nikyhall on 05 January 2016, 09:24:26 am
Oh you wont say that when Mr Perfect comes along and ticks every box you ever made lol

But "Mr Perfect" may not want a partner who has worked in the sex industry.

Not everyone wants or needs a guy in their life to be happy. I certainly don't and feel the same as Roseanna.

If "Mr Perfect doesn't want a partner who works/has worked in the industry then he's not Mr perfect then (at least for me).

 ;)

Exactly Ana. As far as I'm concerned there is no Mr Perfect. Everyone has their flaws, even us (but that's our secret) 😀
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« Reply #207 on: 05 January 2016, 11:55:02 am »
Yup agree with last few posters.  I made a decision early on in my escorting career not to date. I'm also old enough to know...no such thing as Mr Perfect!
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« Reply #208 on: 05 January 2016, 12:11:55 pm »
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Re: Relationships whilst escorting?
« Reply #209 on: 05 January 2016, 12:55:51 pm »
Another person with a long-term partner checking in. No kids though, and no plans for ever having any.
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