I know deep down that I'd not be ok with a partner being fine with me being a prostitute whilst together. Not saying anyone else should feel that way, It's just not right for me

Quote from: TheLittleMatchGirl on 04 May 2015, 09:46:16 am

I know deep down that I'd not be ok with a partner being fine with me being a prostitute whilst together. Not saying anyone else should feel that way, It's just not right for me

Yes I am aware this is how some women feel.

For me I feel the same as I did before I was a prostitute, in fact even more so. I'm still a person with very similar desires and needs, which includes a close personal relationship. I find that because of the increased financial independence and my physical desires being more than met, that I can make much better partner choices - ones not clouded by lust or money worries which I had prior to sex work.

Don't get me wrong I want a partner, I'm still the same girl who wants to be in love/be loved, but a man that's fine with me doing this while with him isn't a man I want

Quote from: TheLittleMatchGirl on 04 May 2015, 09:46:16 am

I know deep down that I'd not be ok with a partner being fine with me being a prostitute whilst together. Not saying anyone else should feel that way, It's just not right for me

Yes I am aware this is how some women feel.

For me I feel the same as I did before I was a prostitute, in fact even more so. I'm still a person with very similar desires and needs, which includes a close personal relationship. I find that because of the increased financial independence and my physical desires being more than met, that I can make much better partner choices - ones not clouded by lust or money worries which I had prior to sex work.

Mirror, I feel exactly the same. Doing sex work enables me to not 'need' men anymore like I used to. That makes me much happier. I am more likely now not to put up with any crap off them. I feel more at peace and secure. I have had a client recently who said he wanted a 'relationship'. We had grown close. When I put him on the spot in relation to what this 'relationship' would look like, he basically outlined we would continue as we are (he wasn't ready for me to come to his home) but maybe going away together etc...in other words, he wanted more sex and not to pay me.

hahahahaha yeah RIGHT! I kicked him into touch straight away. So that is my experience of a client wanting to develop a 'relationship'. No thanks! x

Mirror and Fluffy Bunny - where did you both meet your men?

Just to give me an idea.

As my friend is too much of a monk for me - I was dating him recently but he does not communicate well in between dates and I was feeling ignored so I stopped it.  He is also worked up about sex i.e. does not give it (he was always like this, it isn't just because of our job as he can cope with that) ...  I will keep him on as a friend instead.

There must be one decent man out there for me there really must be!

I met my partner through the industry after years of being single, I am not going to lie I was skeptical about it all, did he just want to date me for free sex the usual, but he took his time, was patient and still is and we are today celebrating our anniversary.  So all I can say is a good man will prove to you that he wants to be with you.

Quote from: TheLittleMatchGirl on 09 May 2015, 11:50:47 pm

Sounds like he was married Shewolf

Or is still wanting it not 'in' his life.

The person I formed a relationship with was married, but they had an open marriage. His wife was in another relationship,and they had agreed the marriage was over. I was always welcome at their house, but for many reasons it was me keeping the distance!

No he is a widower and has been for a few years. He just wouldn't admit he hasn't moved on. He wants to keep seeing me in the same way but no money so that we can 'get to know each other'. My response to that is that he can sit on his own dick x

Quote from: Mirror on 10 May 2015, 09:04:47 am

Quote from: TheLittleMatchGirl on 09 May 2015, 11:50:47 pm

Sounds like he was married Shewolf

Or is still wanting it not 'in' his life.

The person I formed a relationship with was married, but they had an open marriage. His wife was in another relationship,and they had agreed the marriage was over. I was always welcome at their house, but for many reasons it was me keeping the distance!

No he is a widower and has been for a few years. He just wouldn't admit he hasn't moved on. He wants to keep seeing me in the same way but no money so that we can 'get to know each other'. My response to that is that he can sit on his own dick x

I'm always suspicious about things like that, saying his wife's dead but you can't come to his house. Probably just me though! Anyway sounds like you're best off out of that either way

My mother asked me yesterday "you haven't had a boyfriend in a while, aren't you lonely?"

She has no idea what I do, so I simply said no.

Before escorting I always craved for a loving relationship with Mr Right. Then Mr Right came into my life and turned into Mr Wrong, I think it's safe to say that he scarred me a little.

Now I am very happy escorting because it fulfils my sexual cravings and dampens my idealistic view that Mr Right is out there, all the while, earning me a nice little package. And besides, by the time I finish work for the day, the last thing I want to do is be near a man, let alone have sex!!