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Author Topic: Punters who turn up and change their mind when in your incall flat  (Read 1450 times)

TrueVoice

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Dear all,
I hope you are all well.
This week I had 2 punters who came but when in the flat, change their mind.
First one,said he was very nervous and gave me £10 and left.
Second one today, said he was cold and left.
I have a cctv in my tv so may be the view of the entrance door of my building scare them off when they come in .

Not sure as I rarely have this happen but 2 in the same week seems a lot for me.
I would like to share your views and experience.
Many thanks.

saltysweet

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Re: Punters who turn up and change their mind when in your incall flat
« Reply #1 on: 27 April 2021, 09:35:19 pm »
I like your set up! I'm glad they know they're on vid for safety's sake.
Could be bog standard, 'look and go'. It happens.

I've worked years in premises with obvious CCTV at the front door and inside the corridor and no one seemed bothered or mentioned it as a reason to do a runner. Ones who got cold feet were 'players' who fancied a nose around.
« Last Edit: 27 April 2021, 09:38:50 pm by saltysweet »

Zinzi

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Re: Punters who turn up and change their mind when in your incall flat
« Reply #2 on: 28 April 2021, 01:39:39 am »
It’s happened to me & some other girlfriends too, try not to take it personally. Some guys genuinely do it for their own weird amusement. I think after a while you learn even just through a phone all who is legit & those who are fantasy bookers. But every now and then one slips through  ::) ::) x

Maz

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Re: Punters who turn up and change their mind when in your incall flat
« Reply #3 on: 28 April 2021, 02:31:05 am »
I had one I agreed to accommodate at the last minute and first thing in the morning. Then when he got here he used the 'called into work' excuse. Just stood at the bottom of the stairs fiddling with his phone while I'm waiting to show him upstairs.  >:(

He did ask if he could come back later which I didn't believe so I dismissed him and told him never to book me again.

I couldn't be sure but think he was someone I previously saw via agency and if it was him, it was a rather awkward booking so maybe he recognised me.

Perhaps it's just an odd coincidence that you've had two in.the same week. The first guy may well have just been too nervous. There must be loads of incall venues that have cctv about. Especially if it's in a block of flats.



TantricTease

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Re: Punters who turn up and change their mind when in your incall flat
« Reply #4 on: 28 April 2021, 06:54:40 am »
I had one I agreed to accommodate at the last minute and first thing in the morning. Then when he got here he used the 'called into work' excuse. Just stood at the bottom of the stairs fiddling with his phone while I'm waiting to show him upstairs.  >:(

He did ask if he could come back later which I didn't believe so I dismissed him and told him never to book me again.

I couldn't be sure but think he was someone I previously saw via agency and if it was him, it was a rather awkward booking so maybe he recognised me.

Perhaps it's just an odd coincidence that you've had two in.the same week. The first guy may well have just been too nervous. There must be loads of incall venues that have cctv about. Especially if it's in a block of flats.



I always worry that if they leave and then try and pop back, it’s because they have scoped your place out to make sure you are alone and I would get paranoid and just wouldn’t let him back in, I know this may sound silly to some but I cannot help think this.

OP it’s part and parcel of the job unfortunately, and it happens to us all so please don’t worry about it, you cannot please all of the men all of the time.  Here’s hoping he was a wanker anyway and you dodged a bullet, that’s the way I see it anyway.😃

Escortx

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Re: Punters who turn up and change their mind when in your incall flat
« Reply #5 on: 28 April 2021, 08:25:48 am »
Once I had two walk outs in a day. Now I can't remember the last time it happened since then last summer

Petlover29

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Re: Punters who turn up and change their mind when in your incall flat
« Reply #6 on: 28 April 2021, 09:20:16 am »


When I toured Glasgow many years back  I had 2 Asian men walk out on me.. one after another, . first one walked in and started sweating.. he made the excuse the cleaners was outside and he wanted to leave.. then the one straight after him come to the room for his booking  he walked in looking all flustered gave me a kiss on the cheek and starting saying  how my 30 mins was to expensive and would I do 15 mins.. I don’t do 15 mins so I showed him the door.. when I think back now I think they was both friends and just come to have a perv off the new girl in town.. very sad to be going round viewing escorts for the fun of it..

Years ago I wasn’t aware of this helpful site or C.E.. So I use to book anyone in and hope for the best.. now  I’m extra careful and screen everyone it has helped me so much..