Had to look up limerence, He is definitely filling his time and lack of excitement in his life with reading my profile feedback and then pulling me up on it. I've had experience with a stalker and clients turning nasty if they feel I'm not giving them attention and very often these types play nice guy until.they turn and it's scary.

I'm going to stop seeing him, He is almost 70 and you'd think older men wouldn't act silly.

Adding to this, here are gallant ways regulars asked me for unpaid labour, i.e. spending time with them (sometimes in exchange for a warm meal, a warm beverage or for nothing at all):

🤡: "I could treat you for lunch."
🤡: "I'm short on time. Coffee?"
🤡: "If you want to meet in real life, don't be shy and get in touch."

The one recently I have stopped seeing asked me 'Is there anything I can do just for you for ten minutes'. He used to visit 20 mins for £60. Guess he waS hoping for £60 half an hour!!

Deluded.

So many go like this slowly. Just isn't worth it!

This can be very difficult, is he otherwise absolutely fine - time keeping, correct money, not pushing boundaries, discretion etc ?

I find that once the dread sets in at the thought of a booking with them it's time to sack them off if you can manage without their money.
I've never regretted not seeing them once I've made the break.