Author Topic: Regulars wanting special treatment or thinking they are special. (Read 6575 times)

MissElvira · « **on:** 17 January 2024, 09:28:22 pm »

I just wish good regulars that book often would not start to imagine that the girlfriend experience is real. I've got one at the moment who keeps pushing to get a lingerie picture with my face, Which I've refused. He got all weird texting me that he thought he was not just a client but more, He then said he was reading the feedback I have given others on AW and today even quoted one. Feels like a jealous boyfriend obsessing about past lovers and comparing.

This actually gets me angry and turned off seeing regulars when they start to act like its a relationship because they book me for 2 or 3 hours, I have chosen to only have to deal with men by the hour or two and no relationships in my own personal life.

I'm thinking of not seeing him anymore, Just not feeling comfortable and can see this guy getting more demanding and needy and he keeps getting weird over the fact ither clients give me orgasms or so i say lol.

And I've told him off a few times to and I'm very blunt with clients if they start texting me in a rude or demanding way.

Anybody else who offer Girlfriend experience find that clients start to actually believe its real ? Would only doing 1 hour bookings solve this problem?

Mirror · « **Reply #1 on:** 17 January 2024, 09:57:33 pm »

Quote from: MissElvira on 17 January 2024, 09:28:22 pm

I just wish good regulars that book often would not start to imagine that the girlfriend experience is real. I've got one at the moment who keeps pushing to get a lingerie picture with my face, Which I've refused. He got all weird texting me that he thought he was not just a client but more, He then said he was reading the feedback I have given others on AW and today even quoted one. Feels like a jealous boyfriend obsessing about past lovers and comparing.

This actually gets me angry and turned off seeing regulars when they start to act like its a relationship because they book me for 2 or 3 hours, I have chosen to only have to deal with men by the hour or two and no relationships in my own personal life.

I'm thinking of not seeing him anymore, Just not feeling comfortable and can see this guy getting more demanding and needy and he keeps getting weird over the fact ither clients give me orgasms or so i say lol.

And I've told him off a few times to and I'm very blunt with clients if they start texting me in a rude or demanding way.

Anybody else who offer Girlfriend experience find that clients start to actually believe its real ? Would only doing 1 hour bookings solve this problem?

My experiences of this sort of behaviour were from regulars who book 1 hour, the majority of my longer bookings have not been a problem. What I found is it's the person not the duration, often starts early on, creeps up and needs acting on now before it takes any more energy from you or he does something really awful (one filmed me without permission then turned it on me). I would be very clear - what you do with other clients is none of his business, you won't be able to offer him bookings if he carries on doing xyz.

Deuxmoi · « **Reply #2 on:** 17 January 2024, 11:25:02 pm »

It sounds like hes suffering from limerence, you wont be the firet or last who has to deal with him being an energy vampire. Id get rid of him,not all money is good money

MissElvira · « **Reply #3 on:** 18 January 2024, 11:10:29 am »

Had to look up limerence, He is definitely filling his time and lack of excitement in his life with reading my profile feedback and then pulling me up on it. I've had experience with a stalker and clients turning nasty if they feel I'm not giving them attention and very often these types play nice guy until.they turn and it's scary.

I'm going to stop seeing him, He is almost 70 and you'd think older men wouldn't act silly.

Lushblossom · « **Reply #4 on:** 18 January 2024, 11:13:15 am »

I get bored with regulars. I can cope if they are every few months though.

A client lives literally in the neighbouring road but I have blocked him. He thinks I am available whenever he fancies lol. I doubt I will bump into him as am not into pubs.

Caligirl · « **Reply #5 on:** 18 January 2024, 11:31:45 am »

Yes this is something I get every now and then. I’m not opposed to just blocking them, they don’t deserve careful words and babying, we provide service only! I’ve always said I want to be something in between gfe and pse, because like you said gfe becomes real for some men. Also I found that they start playing mind games which I will not tolerate. This job hardens you up which can only be a good thing when setting boundaries. I had one who asked me out for dinner and acting like a child when I declined, booking and then cancelling last minute. Why dont they understand that many of us have families and partners, this is just a job! As above, I prefer regulars every couple of months or so, if someone messages me with the intention of coming every week or so I don’t even book them (I find such messages are red flag or tw anyway)

fallen angel · « **Reply #6 on:** 18 January 2024, 12:25:54 pm »

I've had a cple like this.
They just became a total pain in the ass in the end, changing booking times and cancelling last min with pathetic excuses so I stopped seeing them. Best decision for my mental health.
The worst one used to message and ask if I was available at X time, usually a few hours away, if I said yes, I'll book you in, he'd then say ok I'll let you know if I can make it at like an hour before the time he'd asked about!? ... WTF use is that to me

totally pointless! and it didn't matter how many times I told him I don't work like that he continued to do it, just a form of boundary pushing to make him feel like he had control.
So I'd advise get rid, they never get better, only worse.

Deuxmoi · « **Reply #7 on:** 18 January 2024, 05:34:11 pm »

Quote from: MissElvira on 18 January 2024, 11:10:29 am

Had to look up limerence, He is definitely filling his time and lack of excitement in his life with reading my profile feedback and then pulling me up on it. I've had experience with a stalker and clients turning nasty if they feel I'm not giving them attention and very often these types play nice guy until.they turn and it's scary.

I'm going to stop seeing him, He is almost 70 and you'd think older men wouldn't act silly.

Whatever feeling he was getting from seeing you or anyone is probably what he never got from his parents. Hopefully he will get the message and leave you alone!

pinkpineapple · « **Reply #8 on:** 18 January 2024, 07:27:13 pm »

Yes, I've had a few like this and sadly in the end have stopped seeing them.
They became very needy/jealous and self-entitled, it was quite unsettling actually. All of them were over the age of 50, fully grown men - no excuse for that sort of childish nonsense!

englishrebecca121 · « **Reply #9 on:** 19 January 2024, 10:57:25 am »

As someone who is called rebeccagfe I get this a lot . My new years resolution last year was to cut all bad regulars off and so I did and it’s been bliss .

Of course they still try . Make comments on Twitter etc but I just don’t reply .

They had many warnings before I did this

Best move I ever did

LittleMinx2 · « **Reply #10 on:** 19 January 2024, 11:05:25 am »

Luckily most of my regulars have been fine, but if anyone gets too much I straight up just tell them I'm married. I only give my number out to clients I know won't be an issue/demanding and that see me alot. Must admit that I treat my 3 biggest clients special, but they spend alot of money on me and take me on holiday ect.

Mirror · « **Reply #11 on:** 19 January 2024, 07:36:56 pm »

Quote from: LittleMinx2 on 19 January 2024, 11:05:25 am

Luckily most of my regulars have been fine, but if anyone gets too much I straight up just tell them I'm married. I only give my number out to clients I know won't be an issue/demanding and that see me alot. Must admit that I treat my 3 biggest clients special, but they spend alot of money on me and take me on holiday ect.

I have been single, committed, married having this knowledge doesn't seem to have put clients of asking or trying for 'dates' or off the clock time.
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MissElvira · « **Reply #12 on:** 19 January 2024, 08:16:18 pm »

Quote from: Caligirl on 18 January 2024, 11:31:45 am

Yes this is something I get every now and then. I’m not opposed to just blocking them, they don’t deserve careful words and babying, we provide service only! I’ve always said I want to be something in between gfe and pse, because like you said gfe becomes real for some men. Also I found that they start playing mind games which I will not tolerate. This job hardens you up which can only be a good thing when setting boundaries. I had one who asked me out for dinner and acting like a child when I declined, booking and then cancelling last minute. Why dont they understand that many of us have families and partners, this is just a job! As above, I prefer regulars every couple of months or so, if someone messages me with the intention of coming every week or so I don’t even book them (I find such messages are red flag or tw anyway)

I get it often with regulars asking me to go for coffee, I have in my own personal life zero interest wasting my personal free time on any men or dates. Have had the mind games and the last minute cancellation, I only want contact to arrange a booking.

Mirror · « **Reply #13 on:** 19 January 2024, 08:53:26 pm »

Quote from: MissElvira on 19 January 2024, 08:16:18 pm

I get it often with regulars asking me to go for coffee, I have in my own personal life zero interest wasting my personal free time on any men or dates. Have had the mind games and the last minute cancellation, I only want contact to arrange a booking.

Even when single I had plenty of things I wanted to do in my spare time, seeing family, hobbies, studies, eating, sleeping, as well as admin and enquiries to answer still do.

9024xx · « **Reply #14 on:** 20 January 2024, 10:10:28 pm »

I've just had to dump a client (I've seen him for 2 years) because of this. His constant jealousy about me seeing other guys and his manipulative nature. Making me feel guilty for doing my job!!! He's a knob - shame it took me so long to sack him off!!

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