I know I posted about this before, but I have a regular who I'm seeing at the minute (it's a bit complex as he's more of a sugar daddy, but my friend who was in the escorting business has said to treat him the same as a client).

This guy is safe and doesnt push things regarding BB, but my God does he take the piss. My client base has diminished and I'm not getting much work in the sauna, so feel like I have to make do with him until things pick up.

He had an incall the other night at mine. Because he is only willing to give ?500 a month cash allowance (SD thing), but wants weekly meets), I have fairly set the standards that it would be ?125 per meet, and that would be for an hour (the same as what I charge for normal clients for an hours incall). All I can say was, he was a total nightmare. He turned up way too early when I hadnt even got the room prepared (said 7pm, he turned up at half six). He thinks that my flat is my mates flat, as if he had any inclination it was mine and I lived alone, he would push boundaries.

My friend (one in the escort business) agreed she would ring to let me know when time was up at 8pm that night so he would stick to the time, else he wouldnt leave! He was like a bloody piranha trying to bite my lips off and nearly bit my clit off! I told him nicely and he seemed to respect this. Did some oral and then he wanted to come on me, so I let him. I just wanted 10 or so minutes to get my breath back.... and no sooner had he come, he wanted to do it again. Sex was sore and I was drier than a prehistoric dinosaur bone because it was such a turn off.

I was so relieved when my mate rung. He wants to see me again and said he had a "nice time other than the 'interruption"...

I need to keep him on as a client for the meantime until my client base picks up but he's a real nightmare. Says he's some well paid businessman on ?500,000 a year, yet only able to give ?500 a month and wants more and more of my time. He really makes me work for my money, he is hard work.

My mate says she is going to try and help me set up a dominatrix site of my own and get some more indie work in with the escorting to help so I wont have to do this, but how can I get him to stick to his time without her ringing? He is a real pisstaker and really demanding.

I always tried to get others to change if I was uncomfortable until realizing that by changing my action, will get others to respond differently. How about if you laid the boundaries before meeting and if he doesn't obey them. You have two choices

1. To stop the contact
2. To carry on with him knowing that his rude.

Only he will change if wants to but no one can change others. That's why the change doesn't always last in people before reverting back.

I myself always will stop further contact if made to feel uncomfortable after that booking. Also they get not good skills on purpose if so lol.

Drop him, NOW... I had a regular who would push boundaries like this, continually phoning and texting and pushing the length of times of visits. I stopped answering his texts and calls and would set a strict time limit but it really made no difference, boundary pushers don't really respect any boundaries, or you.
?500  a month isn't nearly enough for what he's expecing, it's actually quite insulting. I'm sure the amount of time and energy you spend on this guy could be better put to use finding another regular who will totally respect you and pay a decent rate.
Always remember you are providing a service, they are not ''doing us a favour'', and you're worth every pound you charge. If they don't like it they can lump it, plenty of fish in the sea.
Good luck
RachelRx

i would rather see 5 different guys than one piss taker...

This x 100!

Independent work always seems like a big deal from the outside, but as soon as you start you realise how simple it is. There's a lot of info on the main site (http://saafe.info) about it, as well as here on the forum. The most important things are having a safety buddy to check in with at the start and end of each appointment, and having a simple but effective booking + checking (if outcall) + confirmation procedure to avoid having your time wasted by numpties. Everything else you can do at home in your pants (website and/or AW profile, first set of photos if you don't have pro pics, blogging, advertising on listings sites, etc).

Then I can tell this idiot to go do one

Glad to hear it. And although I'm obviously no fan of agencies, if one is well-run and provides a safe place for women to work from (will you be alone in this flat?) with absolutely zero piss-taking from the owners then it can sometimes be fine. Feel free to still get yourself your own safety buddy, though (you know I'll never shut up about that!).

Good luck

No worries Violette, will def be dropping him; started work for an agency and bookings coming in so that twat can go do one.

He seriously has a screw loose; I said I felt very violated when he was trying to push for two hours in the next meet. Firmly said he would have to pay more. Then his loopy reply came of "But I thought you liked me"...

Personally, I am more attracted to my toilet brush than him.......

Violette- you honestly wont believe this, but he IS married!! 

That's exactly what I would say; that the married ones need to get back to little wifey and therefore have less time. Know what this moron does though? Tell his wife he is going out for a long drink after work to get away with it. Bloody bastard!

Last time he was round, he pissed me off so much that when he was on top of me and stuck his tongue in my mouth, I was so angry that I nearly bit it off, and then deliberately dug and scratched my nails on him to piss him off.

I have had two bookings this week from the agency and earnt loads. I have been able to show that I am reliable and follow the rules, so because they get bonuses from getting me work, they are trying to get me loads, and only take 20% per booking, so for an hour, I still get ?120, but without all the hassle of this twat!