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sassy

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Nightmare client wants overnight booking! Help
« on: 28 November 2012, 11:00:41 am »
I feel bad calling him a nightmare. He's ok - I suppose. He always buys me flowers when we meet and other little gifts and he's pretty much a gentleman. However. . He is really hard work. He's quite demanding sometimes, obviously he is paying me so I try to accommodate as much as I can. we go to this posh spa and wants me to play with him in the pool. I feel abit uncomfortable with this. There are cameras and usually lots of people around. If we got caught we'd get kicked out. He moans when I ask to go for a quick cigarette (I don't have many when with clients) and I can't even go to the toilet in peace. He talks to me through the door! Also I find him very unattractive. Kissing him makes me want to vomit. God I sound so awful but I can't help how I feel. Any tips how how I can make this go fast whilst ensuring he has a good time? I'm meeting him at 6.00 tonight. Please note I don't usually smoke around clients but when doing an over night I have too. Sometimes I ask to go for a fag just as an excuse to have a breather but he follows me!!
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Re: Nightmare client wants overnight booking! Help
« Reply #1 on: 28 November 2012, 11:11:04 am »
Some guys arenot worth seeing for ANY amount of money.  IMHO this guy falls into this category.

I would not see him for any amount of money.  My sanity is worth more than that too.
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Re: Nightmare client wants overnight booking! Help
« Reply #2 on: 28 November 2012, 11:19:13 am »
Tell him you are having a long shower lock the door and just sit for a while, i have done this plenty of times just for a bit a peace lol.

I have also booked massages so I can get away for half hour / an hour. While in the pool I try to be around as many people as possible so no hanky panky can take place. Or just simply tell him - hes not paying you to fuck in public!

Tell him not to trouble himself about keeping you company while your having a cig and you need to make a quick private phone call.

I get my over night client rather drunk (naughty me) so hes passed out by 10 pm lol then the nights my own!
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Dani

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Re: Nightmare client wants overnight booking! Help
« Reply #3 on: 28 November 2012, 12:58:26 pm »
If a client tries talking to me whilst I was in the bathroom having a pee, he would not see me for the rest of the night as I am bladder shy.  Seriously though, do not spend the night with this guy.  If kissing him makes you want to vomit, let him find another girl who does not feel this way.  It is unfair on you and on him.
The fact he knows you are a smoker yet expects you to go all night without one is mad.  Although if you do it should be a few puffs and straight back in as after all it is his paid for time.  ON an overnight you cannot ask for time for yourself unless you knock abit off what he is paying you.  You can for longer periods but then it is expected.  Some clients are physically demanding and it is up to us to decide if they are worth what they pay us and if not then it is best to send them on their way.

You dont want to spend time with him, that much is obvious from your post, so no amount of money is worth making yourself feel this way.  Cancel the booking and spend the night relaxing and pampering yourself.
By cancelling it gives you the phew I dont have to see him factor and also means he can spend his hard earned money on someone who does appreciate him as many girls will as we all have different tastes and what one woman dislikes another will really like
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Re: Nightmare client wants overnight booking! Help
« Reply #4 on: 28 November 2012, 02:45:52 pm »
Quote from: sassy on 28 November 2012, 11:00:41 am
I feel bad calling him a nightmare. He's ok - I suppose. He always buys me flowers when we meet and other little gifts and he's pretty much a gentleman. However. . He is really hard work. He's quite demanding sometimes, obviously he is paying me so I try to accommodate as much as I can. we go to this posh spa and wants me to play with him in the pool. I feel abit uncomfortable with this. There are cameras and usually lots of people around. If we got caught we'd get kicked out. He moans when I ask to go for a quick cigarette (I don't have many when with clients) and I can't even go to the toilet in peace. He talks to me through the door! Also I find him very unattractive. Kissing him makes me want to vomit. God I sound so awful but I can't help how I feel. Any tips how how I can make this go fast whilst ensuring he has a good time? I'm meeting him at 6.00 tonight. Please note I don't usually smoke around clients but when doing an over night I have too. Sometimes I ask to go for a fag just as an excuse to have a breather but he follows me!!

When I was a heavy smoker while escorting, have never had a ciggy as find this rude. Especially if they paid for time, on the exception that they wanted to spark up offering me a cigarette. Now several months later am free of smoke feeling much better now. Some clients don't smoke so would have a problem with it as they're not paying for your own habits... Think of it like that when they moan might help you get an understanding of thier groans. Being with a guy making you repulse is unfair to him totally. After all it would be better to stick to those where you enjoy yourself the client will know and feel much happier. Body language can be read, some clients do very well. See... I always go through with a booking with a clear mind and what is sexy to me regardless of looks is if they respect me. Cause a fit guy with a six pack doesn't mean that 100% of them will respect. Talking through experience here some may be able to relate to. It's all about evaluating the true values here. Asking yourself what really is important while escorting setting aside personal life?. Because I wouldn't date the clients at all, but will definitely show them a more than good time. Once this decision's reached. You will then be able to move forward with your dilemma.
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Re: Nightmare client wants overnight booking! Help
« Reply #5 on: 28 November 2012, 07:43:53 pm »
sorry but if you feel that he is hard in few hour, during an overnight it wont go faster :(

have had a few like that myself, and even that i try to keep talking...in my mind i still know that i will have to kiss/give oral/ have sex etc and that makes it feel like days and not hours  ;(

i am trying my best to avoid all the clients that i have met and didnt "enjoy" very much. it helps a lot to keep happy.

good luck and if you find a way to make hours go faster please let us know  ;D
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Re: Nightmare client wants overnight booking! Help
« Reply #6 on: 28 November 2012, 08:11:50 pm »
It's difficult sometimes when you've met them already, you know they're not gonna hurt you, they pay well, but something about them makes your skin crawl, and you just feel a bit disgusted with yourself after.  ;D

I wouldn't normally talk to a client when going for a pee, only one who is into WS do I speak to, and he watched me on the toilet! Just ignore him or turn the tap on/sing while you're having a wee.

Disagree that you shouldn't be allowed 'breaks' when with a client for a long booking too. I don't smoke, but if I did, I think it'd be ok to have a break for one. :)

It's after 6 now, did you do the booking, and how did it go?
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