He's pushing boundaries with you Bunny, he fancies you and thinks you will like him enough to see him for free.
Just tell him you don't mix business with pleasure and whatever you do don't give out any private info to him about you.     

I would tell him you do not wish to have a relationship with him.

You may offend him, you may lose his business, but you may not. Either way it's the only way to make things clear and resolve the issue. The long term benefit is peace of mind.

It's a 6 week/month obsession.
I agree with the girls.
Some clients brains don't process hints.
They only understand direct language...if you're lucky.

Or you be super-professional and keep repeating
you're happy to spend social time, shopping,
eating, etc at 900 pounds half day (4 hrs) and
1500 pounds full day. Cash upfront.
That's a fair fee for a social companion/escort.
See what he says lol

But if you leave it to escalate, then it could get far worse if you do get to a point where it is causing you a problem.

So far I've not have any serious reactions by employing a truthful approach.

Yes like you I was scared, but I told the guy(s) that the were affecting me and stressing me out. With that approach they can't really argue because they profess to care.

Only stalker I ever had was someone I saw for a very short booking once, he then harassed me by telephone for 3 years and continues to do so 6 years on even after warnings from the police via contact with other ladies. Flipping scary.

Good security awareness is also essential in this job.

Possibly a stupid question, can you not block this persons number Mirror

He no longer contacts me directly - he contacts other ladies with messages 'for me' which they then pass on our of curiosity and concern. When he was contacting me directly I didn't have a block facility on my phone (6 years ago he started, I got the blocker 4 years ago).

When he was in touch he'd constantly change his phone number, if there was no response from me he started emailing firstly directly then by AW.

It was when he said he'd be changing his number and booking me without me knowing it was him, that that police stepped in. As my first line says it's not stopped him letting me know he's out there.

Hi ladies,
I have a regular who always books me when im in his area, but lately he has become abit of a nuisance, he keeps asking for my personal number, real name, and even suggesting that me and him should be a couple, he has stated several times that we should meet up and get to know each other on a personal basis, I politely say that I dont mix business with pleasure but he dosent seem to be getting the hint, I find it weird how he would think I would go out my way to see him when he lives 3 hours from me free of charge!  Is it best that I just stop seeing him?

I guess it has been said... Best to stop seeing him!

IMHO, it depends how he is approaching the subject.

If he is a nice friendly guy who is just chancing his arm a bit and being a bit too pushy, I'd just tell him politely but firmly that it would be unprofessional for you to do that and you prefer to keep work and personal life seperate, but that you'd be happy to do XYZ with him at your social rate.

If, however, you think he's pushing too hard, is at risk of getting sinister with it or is making you uncomfortable to the point that it's not worth the fee from him each time, I'd find a nice, polite and non offensive way of stopping seeing him.  Keep it as nice as possible though.

At the end of the day, it's all about how you feel.  I probably wouldn't lose a regular just over him asking, but you know how uncomfortable all this is making you.  If it's at the point where the discomfort of this isn't worth the fee, then you stop seeing him.