PS very glad you have very few cancellations Kylie, I find cancellations and timing alterations extremely draining and stressful. Constant juggling, reconfirming, screening another person, then they can't make it............then I have weeks where it's all extremely reliable types who book, confirm and turn up.

Yeah, well I'm quite selective about who I see also, being I don't see many clients anyway. I like to know a little about them before we meet. For example rough age, nationality, what they are looking for etc. This is good to find out more when corresponding through emails. I will never just see anyone that rings and asks for an appointment without going through my booking procedure. I don't feel I lose any money like this and am very happy

Quote from: MissKylie on 19 July 2014, 07:20:48 pm

Yeah, well I'm quite selective about who I see also, being I don't see many clients anyway. I like to know a little about them before we meet. For example rough age, nationality, what they are looking for etc. This is good to find out more when corresponding through emails. I will never just see anyone that rings and asks for an appointment without going through my booking procedure. I don't feel I lose any money like this and am very happy

Kylie, everybody here is selective about who they see for the sake of their sanity if no other reason .

I take lots of bookings by email, just not via Adultwork. Plenty of people want to correspond this way before booking advance appointments because it gives them something concrete to refer back to; not everybody is confident on the phone or finds it easy to remember details from a quick conversation when they're nervous. This doesn't mean that either the email conversation or the booking needs to be conducted via a third party site, does it?

Quote from: MissKylie on 19 July 2014, 07:23:48 pm

No offence but I don't know how it was 'lucky' that they were NOT traceable?

Rosa didn't say they weren't traceable. She said she didn't have to have the police rooting about amongst her Adultwork account (her credit history, other bookings, private emails from other punters) in order to do so, because her attacker didn't use it.

Similarly, and to follow your logic, what use is an IP address if it comes from a 24 hour internet cafe in Streatham?

Quote from: MissKylie on 19 July 2014, 07:38:49 pm

As long as the lady is happy with the way she does things and is SAFE then that's all that matters. I know how I do things isn't for everyone.

I quite agree, and ditto the way I do things! I think the main concern is that you seem to put a lot of faith in something which cannot possibly protect you, and that's really what people are trying to point out .

Quote from: MissKylie on 19 July 2014, 07:35:58 pm

Quote from: amy on 19 July 2014, 07:27:12 pm

Quote from: MissKylie on 19 July 2014, 07:23:48 pm

No offence but I don't know how it was 'lucky' that they were NOT traceable?

Rosa didn't say they weren't traceable. She said she didn't have to have the police rooting about amongst her Adultwork account (her credit history, other bookings, private emails from other punters) in order to do so, because her attacker didn't use it.

How would of he been traceable any other way? Especially if he used an unregistered sim? If you declare to HMRC I don't really see the problem.

Yes indeed he was traceable even through his supposedly 'untraceable' unregistered SIM. Even unregistered there's still info that can be provided by the network provider that can lead to further evidence.

IP addresses can also be inaccurate, and 'untraceable' and I would suspect extracting an IP address from AW for an account he might close down(so emails then no longer have a name on them) is probably a bit more difficult than going to a phone network provider and asking for data.

My concerns were that the police would/could accidentally make changes to my account, or delete emails I'd not yet read. I don't trust people not to make mistakes and where it concerns my business I am very protective and careful.

Have you also thought about police computers creating alias's if they are looking at his (or anyone else they are looking at for investigation purposes) account from the same pc/police IP address?Or you showing up as accessing from somewhere strange?AW not believing it's the police thinking you are doing something strange?AW have a bit of a record for axing profiles first then answering questions later.

And yes I do declare my income to HMRC - this was something that helped the police build a solid case.