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mySecret

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red flag or not !?
« on: 21 April 2019, 12:48:03 pm »
Hi, i am trying to be more open, less screening! did too much in the past!
so now i am taking last minute and no feedback.
Just got a potential one, maybe i lost him.
he called and i told him how to pay the deposit which it is by amazon voucher, he suggested why by bank account?
and i explained everything. i said ok for 3pm, after 5min i changed my mind...why he want to pay by transfer and not by voucher. maybe it was a genuine suggestion but make me think it. he was 28y old. btw deposit is very low.

paranoid? LOL
i am worrying too much? you would do the same so refuse his booking?
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saltysweet

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Re: red flag or not !?
« Reply #1 on: 21 April 2019, 12:55:04 pm »
They want what's easy for them because they know best. If you're gut says 'no', go with it.
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Re: red flag or not !?
« Reply #2 on: 21 April 2019, 01:03:20 pm »
Personally I don't see a problem with them wanting to pay by bank transfer. It's probably just easier for them. The only reason why amazon voucher might be preferable for them is as it's more anonymous.
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mySecret

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Re: red flag or not !?
« Reply #3 on: 21 April 2019, 01:15:35 pm »
it is endless...
as i think that my gut say not too much! btw i lost him...go forward! but i won t give them my bank account.
yes, maybe there is not risk, i am not used to it.
try to be in peace anyway with myself if my gut said not maybe she is right! why them do just what i ask? i mean if my booking procedure is x, do x and you get the booking. so simple. make me crazy with myself that more then to be upset with them. try to be more open but i need to deal with my gut and instinctive protection.
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Re: red flag or not !?
« Reply #4 on: 21 April 2019, 02:21:24 pm »
Do you ask them to buy an Amazon gift card at the shops, or ask them for an email voucher?

Maybe he didn't want it showing on his Amazon purchase history. The trouble is, if you make a new account, you can't buy gift vouchers with it until you've ordered some physical goods. (I think to prevent money laundering.)
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Re: red flag or not !?
« Reply #5 on: 21 April 2019, 03:20:43 pm »
Hi Vc,
just sending them a link which it is on my own website. i do not care if they buy to the shop or online. there are anonymous options as well. like top up on my mobile which could buy everywhere. paying by bank account is less discreet for them and for me is not necessary and i won t give them my bank details. maybe it is easier for them, but lol (should be easy for me too) i give them 4options and ohhhhh if they don t like or try to change it make me crazy. now i am not a clinic, but if you book for a treatment you pay as the clinic want not way around. it is for my safety, not just a principle. maybe he was genuine but not experimented enough with escorts or women in general.
usually my clients do what i ask and then they do what they want in the booking. (with limits).

i am not in everyday risk things, avoid as much as i can to risk bad experience.
after read some topics here about robbery...happy to act like this.
thank you! better paranoid maybe!
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Re: red flag or not !?
« Reply #6 on: 21 April 2019, 04:36:55 pm »
For new client deposits (and also if anyone else wants to pay this way) I provide 2 method bank account or Amazon, if they can't do that I cannot accept the payment.
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