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lady c

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initial thoughts on this guy
« on: 27 November 2013, 03:35:39 pm »
Just had this client on phone he spoke far too much and I could not get a word in, finally he took breath and I said I don't need your life story for a booking and he said "I totally respect what you girls do and why" thats good then i said speak soon byeee.

I know its nothing major but I have never had anyone say that I mean why say it.

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Re: initial thoughts on this guy
« Reply #1 on: 27 November 2013, 04:09:45 pm »
Maybe he was nervous or just very friendly? I have had a few guys phone where I cant get a word in but it really is not a concern to me at all infact it helps put me at ease if someone is friendly and chatty.

As far as his comment about having respect and understanding what us ladies do and why, he probably just means that he understands that the majority of us do this job to either get through studies, provide for children or trying to set ourselves up for our not so distant future. The fact he respects what we do is a good thing cause it tells me that he also respects what I offer and wouldn't try to take the piss.

I could be completely wrong as you never know until you meet the person but a guy like this wouldn't put me off or worry me.

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Re: initial thoughts on this guy
« Reply #2 on: 27 November 2013, 05:08:21 pm »
LC, I would have done exactly as you did.

He says he respects what escorts do ............ But I would be waiting for the patronising punch line and wouldn't have given him the chance either.

I don't think you have missed out on anything major, I think I would have found him boring as fk if I had taken a booking.  I can't be assed with ditherers and that what he sounds likes to me. << where is the yawning emoticon when you want it? >>
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Re: initial thoughts on this guy
« Reply #3 on: 27 November 2013, 05:38:04 pm »
I don't see a big deal to be honest. I can imagine me saying some dumb sh*t like that in nervousness and I am an escort myself.

Some people just jibber jabber especially when anxious - I should know ::)
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Re: initial thoughts on this guy
« Reply #4 on: 28 November 2013, 08:57:57 am »
I agree, sounds nervous or wants you to know a little about him in the hope you will feel more comfortable. They know as well as we do that there are nasty sorts out there and maybe he just wants to put your mind at rest in the only way he can think of. You just have to let them say their little piece and then take the booking, its doesn't hurt unless they are going into rambling mode which they can when very nervous?bless em x