I got the info hes been out at some brodel, and been ina a hotel for 2 days etc,
we haven't talk yet.
But know after realizing what hes done,
He doesn't know i work occasionally as a courtesan.
Its my secret.
its difficult rite?
How would you girls Work about this situation?
What would you do,
I feel much sorrow inside cause the situation with him of betrayal,
Well... Basically you've been cheating on him all this time (sleeping with other people and lying about it is called cheating in my dictionary). And the guy ran to a bordello for a couple of days and you feel completely outraged. So In your mind "it's OK if YOU cheat but it's not OK if HE does it". Double standards anyone? That's not very fair don't you think?
He's not letting you make a living and he's not helping financially on top of it. My honest opinion: This is the perfect excuse to get rid of him cause he's not bringing much happiness to your life from the sound of it.You cannot afford having him living with you cause you can't do your escorting work. The other option is kick him out of the house and tell him that -for now- you want to live by yourself as the relationship is not working like you would like. Go back to your escort job, make money again and keep him at distance. That. or find a civvie job, Let him live with you and tell him that either he splits the bills 50-50 or "hasta luego"
Dear Ana,
Thank you for your reply.
On your first part about the cheating.
That's why after we moved togheter , never been working again,
and working as a civilian, but not earning almost nuthing, compared as companion job.
But now after this incident, i will do the job this Saturday, as he didn't appeared not even called,
i think he must be very ashamed on what hes done,
cause he broke our terms, and promises.
We definitely need to do some therapy togheter, to sort out our things, that has been troubling.
And yes the easiest way would be kicked him out , i know you are rite,
but i really L him.. i think he does with me too,
hes a man, very confused at the moment, i don't wanna excuse him
i know what hes done,
before telling him me.
i want to be with him, but cannot accept this behaviours, as soon as we have a problem, discussion, or in-satisfaction from me to him, or viceverse.
On the night job i told you for me to do...
i was wondering, if you girls when having Boyf, and you have to work at nite, what you do?
i don't wanna lie
but this is what brings me more money, and to be honest this job, makes me feel alive, and
wanted, and i can earn much more money in less time, than what i can earn in a whole month working long hrs, and getting home dead.
But as one of the girls said, i don't wanna say this
case being blackmailed later u know
or in some discussion he could shout and say you are a hooker, why i cant fuck hooker too,
it has to be a very equilibrating man to share that
and i don't think hes in that position now...
what do u think
this is a small city...
i used to work with foreign that come to the country