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ChloeClouds

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Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« on: 14 April 2019, 08:23:31 pm »
My number one motivation in this job is money. Do men think we do it for anything but this? Or am I alone in this thought? Don't get me wrong I love sex but I wouldn't call myself a nymphomaniac thinking about it 24/7 dying to jump on my next client.. The one and ONLY reason I escort is the money, I know I'm good at sex so I use that to my advantage. I just get the feeling from some men that they think we're all nymphomaniacs. I guess that's part of the fantasy for them and obviously we have to act like we are... But really, I wish they saw us in a more realistic light! Just needed a little rant   ;D


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« Last Edit: 14 April 2019, 08:25:49 pm by amy »
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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #1 on: 14 April 2019, 08:34:51 pm »
You don’t have to act like you are if you are uncomfortable with it - I don’t. If you offer PSE I can see why guys might link the two.

But I just offer sensual GFE and make it clear there ain’t gonna be no wham bam.  If they don’t like it they can take a hike.  I’m just not cool with pretending to be a nympho.

There are plenty of guys who won’t expect this.  In part it also depends what the  tone of your website/profile/social media is, because there will be expectations from the way you advertise.

So its up to you really, if you don’t encourage it, or make it clear it’s not on offer, then you shouldn’t get that type of clientele.

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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #2 on: 14 April 2019, 08:58:20 pm »
I am pretty jokey with the sex, as I find it all a bit amusing, and I think I attract like-minded clients. I don't experience the nympho thing. ???
Why do you think they treat you like that?
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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #3 on: 14 April 2019, 09:06:46 pm »
Maybe I exaggerated a little (just the odd client) I don't market myself as PSE and my profile description is tame compared to others I've seen.. I think the main thing I'm asking is if anyone would be doing this job if it wasn't for the money, freedom of working hours etc.. X
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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #4 on: 14 April 2019, 09:07:16 pm »
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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #5 on: 14 April 2019, 09:29:49 pm »
Yes. I always wanted to do this and I love this job! lol  ;D
I'm hugely entertained that anyone wants to pay me cash to touch their edibles. It's a constant ego boost. ;D

Chloe, You're right you can get the odd one that likes to impose their fantasies. I'm not vocal so I ignore them or act a bit stupid like I don't understand what they're on about.
« Last Edit: 14 April 2019, 09:32:23 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #6 on: 14 April 2019, 10:50:36 pm »
I will bring clients down to earth if they ask me about my supposed rampantness, I've also been known to explain porn is acting when told the 'young women are enjoying that act, can't get enough cock. '

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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #7 on: 14 April 2019, 10:55:43 pm »
You don’t have to act like you are if you are uncomfortable with it - I don’t. If you offer PSE I can see why guys might link the two.

But I just offer sensual GFE and make it clear there ain’t gonna be no wham bam.  If they don’t like it they can take a hike.  I’m just not cool with pretending to be a nympho.

There are plenty of guys who won’t expect this.  In part it also depends what the  tone of your website/profile/social media is, because there will be expectations from the way you advertise.

So its up to you really, if you don’t encourage it, or make it clear it’s not on offer, then you shouldn’t get that type of clientele.

Agree with that!

Of course we do it for the money and we must remember that men and women are different in oh so may ways.
They think about sex most of the time, and we think about new shoes, handbags, new bills to pay and chocolate amongst other yummy things.
Even, when I am having sex am thinking about something nicer to do. ;D

You will always get sex addicts that think we are just like them. Don't try to think about it too much!
And you will always get the ones that question why we do what we do. They want to hear - ooh, I just love sex so much I just cannot stop thinking about it, while we have in our new handbag, a big bar of chocolate and the latest bills to pay......

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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #8 on: 14 April 2019, 11:13:23 pm »
Right? The whole time I'm thinking ~
That new episode of Hoarders is on tonight, oooh!
Dammit, I need a haircut.
Shoot, I should run out & get some cigarettes.
Wonder if should knock off early tonight?
I'm still mad at Mycheal for forgetting my birthday. We're friends on Facebook so I know it came over on  his timeline.
Really need to do laundry, been procrastinating on that.
Ugh, this nightstand is dustier than I thought. Whoops.
Etc etc lol.
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

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Re: Rant - Punters thinking We Are Nymphomaniacs 24/7?
« Reply #9 on: 14 April 2019, 11:44:54 pm »
I have a client who usually asks have I had any cock today before him or am I expecting more cocks later today. Sometimes I am honest and sometimes not depending on my mood but I know he loves thinking I want and get lots of sex every day.

I feed his fantasy as it makes him happy. Other clients do not want to think that I have been anywhere near another cock before them or have others due after them and I can mostly tell which men like which fantasy even if they do not verbalise it.

If I am asked directly do I love cock and am I a nympho or whatever other words they use then they get the answer they hope to hear.  :)  The reality is I do enjoy lots of sex and on most days but gawd if I don't get any I am perfectly happy to do something else. This of course is because I know I will be getting some cock before long. If none was on the horizon it may be a different matter.  ;D