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cindydoll

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quick question
« on: 07 July 2013, 10:33:55 pm »
so I just went independent..have literally been on aw for about 15 mins and have 7 messages from the same guy already. question: is it always like this?! or have i just been 'lucky' enough to attract a very keen guy early on?  :o
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Re: quick question
« Reply #1 on: 07 July 2013, 11:13:44 pm »
Does he want to make a booking or not? Well it depends on what questions he is asking but if he hasnt made a booking after 7 emails I wouldnt respond to him any more. Some guys love endless emails, they must find it entertaining. Remember you are running a business not a social club xxx
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cindydoll

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Re: quick question
« Reply #2 on: 07 July 2013, 11:20:54 pm »
yeah he wants to make a booking but i just think its weird that he messaged 7 times before I'd even checked my mail..ive replied now and hes sent me another 3 messages before i got round to reading his first reply  ??? ??? seems a bit extreme.. xx
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Re: quick question
« Reply #3 on: 07 July 2013, 11:50:10 pm »
Always listen to your instinct/intuition as its going to be one of your best tools to use as an independent. If it doesn't feel right it ususally isn't. It doesn't take 10 emails to make a booking.

Make it clear to him (politely but firmly) that he is to make a booking and don't communicate with him until he does and only to confirm things like address ect.

 But saying that all that should be discussed before the booking anyway. That's what you both should be discussing?
Dint answer any personal questions, dint give away your address, dint give him anything to latch on to you.
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Re: quick question
« Reply #4 on: 08 July 2013, 02:13:59 am »
Quote from: cindydoll on 07 July 2013, 10:33:55 pm
so I just went independent..have literally been on aw for about 15 mins and have 7 messages from the same guy already. question: is it always like this?! or have i just been 'lucky' enough to attract a very keen guy early on?  :o

He's a newbie hunter, very/too keen to shag the brand new prossies. You'll most likely get lots of these for a while, it's quite a good learning curve for you to realise who's genuine, who's not, and who's just trying to take advantage.

As to this guy? Tread carefully. He's very excited to see you as you're new, which could possibly mean he would like to push your boundaries. My gut feeling says block and/or ignore this one.
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Re: quick question
« Reply #5 on: 08 July 2013, 09:48:50 am »
Quote from: cindydoll on 07 July 2013, 10:33:55 pm
so I just went independent..have literally been on aw for about 15 mins and have 7 messages from the same guy already. question: is it always like this?! or have i just been 'lucky' enough to attract a very keen guy early on?  :o

There is a function guys can use on AW that alerts them of newbies to the site and you get hundreds of fantasists who take pleasure in pestering newbies with emails and giving them false hope.  Ill not tell you what I call them, but they are not nice guys.

Like someone said, use your instinct to sort out false from the true, through time it will become more obvious within a matter of seconds.

I received over 400 emails in the first few days when I started and I don't know if any of them really turned into a booking. ::)

Just be careful Cindy.
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Re: quick question
« Reply #6 on: 08 July 2013, 10:47:17 am »
thanks guys  :) i wasn't taking it very seriously because, well, it just seemed odd. i'm not going to do anything thats going to make me uncomfortable or put me in the slightest bit of danger...womens intuition at its best!
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Re: quick question
« Reply #7 on: 08 July 2013, 12:30:08 pm »
Hello,

I've noticed in the beginning more e-mails were necessary to take a booking because I wasn't covering (preventing?) all the questions customers could have.
Now I can do it easily with two or three mails (first contact included).

What I discovered helpful to explain and check :
- How you like your bookings to be
- A bit about you when your working (calm, soft, joyfull, chatty...)
- Price confirmation for the lenght of booking he's choosen
- Make sure he's not looking for something you don't like to do
- And so on...

All in a nice way trying not to be to formal (big turn off for them). It's the same way on phone.


Enjoy and don't forget to follow your instinct!

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Re: quick question
« Reply #8 on: 08 July 2013, 03:34:54 pm »
Quote from: cindydoll on 07 July 2013, 10:33:55 pm
so I just went independent..have literally been on aw for about 15 mins and have 7 messages from the same guy already. question: is it always like this?! or have i just been 'lucky' enough to attract a very keen guy early on?  :o
He sounds like a time waster when they email several times without getting to the point.
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