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samcas

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #165 on: 13 August 2017, 03:33:24 pm »
My anal service seems to be getting me more business - 2 yesterday and 2 today. Using a butt plug in preparation certainly changed things from discomfort to what I can actually call mild pleasure (done at the right pace I think it could bring on a decent climax for me - I got very close on the last one!).
Sorry if this is TMI but I still get traces of poo on the condom when they pull-out (clients dont complain - but there is a slight smell at the end and it stains bedding if you are not careful). I did anal douche (2 rinses each time with warm water) about an hour before each appointment..... before I put my butt plug in. How much rinsing and douching is needed to get clean and should I be trying to do nearer to the start of the appointment. I'm not consitipated and regular (I poop twice a day like clockwork). My friend who also escorts says a double squirt douche gets her squeeky clean - am I doing something wrong??????? Am I using too much lube??

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #166 on: 13 August 2017, 10:55:08 pm »
A slight trace of poop is the price of admission with anal. It's your anus! That you shit out of! Unless you want to take a porn star 3hr enema before every anal booking then yeah there's gonna be a bit!
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #167 on: 14 August 2017, 01:39:51 am »
I'll preface this by saying I've only done anal a handful of times, with a partner, but I found that it was pretty random as to how clean it would be. Sometimes I was worried it was a bit too soon after a bowel movement and yet there was no mess on him or the bed; otherwise I thought it would be fine and there was a bit of staining (I haven't been brave enough to try douching yet...)

I doubt lube is the problem. Perhaps watch the timings if you're very regular and/or up the amount of fibre in your diet so there's less matter 'hanging around'?
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #168 on: 14 August 2017, 12:58:59 pm »
Quote from: samcas on 13 August 2017, 03:33:24 pm
My anal service seems to be getting me more business - 2 yesterday and 2 today. Using a butt plug in preparation certainly changed things from discomfort to what I can actually call mild pleasure (done at the right pace I think it could bring on a decent climax for me - I got very close on the last one!).
Sorry if this is TMI but I still get traces of poo on the condom when they pull-out (clients dont complain - but there is a slight smell at the end and it stains bedding if you are not careful). I did anal douche (2 rinses each time with warm water) about an hour before each appointment..... before I put my butt plug in. How much rinsing and douching is needed to get clean and should I be trying to do nearer to the start of the appointment. I'm not consitipated and regular (I poop twice a day like clockwork). My friend who also escorts says a double squirt douche gets her squeeky clean - am I doing something wrong??????? Am I using too much lube??

Sammy

Everyone is different, sometimes it just takes two pumps of the douche for me to be clean, sometimes 10 or more. I douche till the water runs clear, or if it's not happening, just text the client and say anal is a no go zone.

I douche at least an hour before a client arrives, do a check 30 minutes before, and one 15 before. Sometimes douching can encourage movement.

Post, I keep the guy close, grab a couple of tissues, hand down, disconnect, unglove and bin. If something has happened I can then hide the evidence before they even see it.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #169 on: 10 December 2017, 10:32:21 pm »
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« Last Edit: 09 February 2022, 07:10:31 pm by Quinn »
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #170 on: 11 December 2017, 08:01:55 am »
Ouch ...  no I will give it a miss as I'm occasionally asked by clients during their visit .
I don't even like them rimming .. I had surgery some years back to repair a tear so noo way !!!
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #171 on: 11 December 2017, 09:50:22 am »
To allow easy entry you have to be properly dilated. Either a good partner who works things open with fingers maybe over 20 to 30 minutes - so unlikely with a punter.
Best approach for SW is to use butt plugs (yes plural) - work up to one that is approx the size of a cock and have it in for a good 30 mins before the booking. The resulting gape will last 30 to 40 minutes after you take it out. A warm douche can help get the first small one in.

If you get a good comfortable plug set, you can have the large size in place when the punter arrives and even sit down (slowly!) with it in. Then you can make a quick visit to the bathroom at the start to pull it out - I usually do this between taking the cash and getting started.

Having made it sound easy, I have never solved the poo appearance problem. At the moment, I'm not offering anal intercourse (too many clients wanted it and I was doing it too much for comfort) but I do offer an anal toy show (dildo with flared base) - a black dildo hides any stain. I stlll use a douche and multiple butt plugs to prep.

Try the multiple butt plugs on your own and experiment with penetration with a big vibe or dildo - but be careful not to lose it. For safety sake always use a flared base to if a client is controlling it.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #172 on: 11 December 2017, 10:59:59 pm »
Quote from: samcas on 11 December 2017, 09:50:22 am
To allow easy entry you have to be properly dilated. Either a good partner who works things open with fingers maybe over 20 to 30 minutes - so unlikely with a punter.
Best approach for SW is to use butt plugs (yes plural) - work up to one that is approx the size of a cock and have it in for a good 30 mins before the booking. The resulting gape will last 30 to 40 minutes after you take it out. A warm douche can help get the first small one in.

If you get a good comfortable plug set, you can have the large size in place when the punter arrives and even sit down (slowly!) with it in. Then you can make a quick visit to the bathroom at the start to pull it out - I usually do this between taking the cash and getting started.

I've been having anal sex (paid and unpaid) for pretty much as long as I've been having sex, and I've never had to resort to this. I would say making sure they're hard enough is half the battle, but angle is important too - doggy is easiest to start with as you can tell them to stay still while you guide them straight in and go slow. If they try to push forward you can just move away from them and tell them to stop until you've got going, and if there's a big height difference they can always stand at the side of the bed or something :).

The main problem I find is with the few who like to pull it all the way out and then try to bash it straight back in again. It's annoying with vaginal sex but with anal once it's in, it needs to stay in.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #173 on: 12 December 2017, 09:04:23 am »
Quote from: Quinn on 10 December 2017, 10:32:21 pm
I've started offering anal to clients and although I enjoy it, I struggle to actually get the cock inside me most of the time!

I use loads of lube and warm myself up with a butt plug first. I know that with anal a penis needs to be harder than you would need it to be with vaginal, but I seem to struggle with most clients.

Any tips?


Anal is my USP and it?s pretty much standard with most my bookings. Guys usually get softer coming up to when it?s time for anal as they get over excited and nervous, especially if it?s their first time. I try and switch to anal from vaginal as soon as I can as I know timing can be an issue. It comes with practice I guess! I find it better being ontop as I can guide him in without too much pain for me. I keep the lube handy on the bed and while he is still in me vaginally and I have the lube in hand for the switch. Personally once they are in and I?ve guided them painlessly they can then get creative with positions  ;D
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #174 on: 15 December 2017, 05:16:44 am »
Love anal but sometimes it hurts at first and other times it can feel like taking a backwards shit. I don't think it's bought me anymore work in than anyone else though TBH.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #175 on: 27 January 2018, 07:51:55 pm »
I enjoy anal. I douche myself before hand and use lube and prefer performing it doggy style.
I do charge extra for it and list it as extra on my AW profile. it is very common request.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #176 on: 19 March 2018, 12:22:04 pm »
I do enjoy anal in my personal life thinking of charging extra for it , what concerns me is we know we don't get gentle punters sometimes they think they can just ram it in and go hard straight off just wondering what you girls think ?
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #177 on: 19 March 2018, 12:50:40 pm »
I'm also thinking of offering it as an extra to some of my regulars.
I think I'd be concerned about them not listening to instructions, ie, go slowly, stop when I say etc but it f it didn't go ahead through their  own stupidity, would you feel obliged to refund the extra charge?
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #178 on: 19 March 2018, 01:29:20 pm »
Quote from: loubyloo on 19 March 2018, 12:50:40 pm
I'm also thinking of offering it as an extra to some of my regulars.
I think I'd be concerned about them not listening to instructions, ie, go slowly, stop when I say etc but it f it didn't go ahead through their  own stupidity, would you feel obliged to refund the extra charge?

If they had some anal but had to stop because they were being rough not listening I wouldn't give any money back if nothing had happened but I didn't want to offer it to them I would give the money back.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #179 on: 19 March 2018, 04:00:45 pm »
Tbh it's no different really  than if they're being rough at any other time. If you stop the service after earning them then it's their own fault! I'm not offering it at the moment but I'm going to be A LOT more selective with who I offer it to (mostly based on size) than I was before. Tbh most guys want you to guide them in and you could start off on top then you're in control
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