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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #120 on: 22 January 2016, 05:44:16 pm »
well it makes sense from your point of view ... on this occasion i was advising people that are not used to anal sex to use lidocaine as a way to facilitate it  ...

not saying there is a specific problem, it gets sore when you get fucked a lot ... as you mentioned it happens to your vagina too ... but if i'm touring (which means making an investment) and i have to take a day off every time i have a good day its not going to be very profitable ... isn't life about making efforts to reach golds and all that

Not if it means you irrevocably damage a delicate area of your body.  We all know the vagina stretches and lubricates naturally, the anus does not

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« Reply #121 on: 22 January 2016, 07:47:09 pm »
well it makes sense from your point of view ... on this occasion i was advising people that are not used to anal sex to use lidocaine as a way to facilitate it  ...

not saying there is a specific problem, it gets sore when you get fucked a lot ... as you mentioned it happens to your vagina too ... but if i'm touring (which means making an investment) and i have to take a day off every time i have a good day its not going to be very profitable ... isn't life about making efforts to reach golds and all that

Not if it means you irrevocably damage a delicate area of your body.  We all know the vagina stretches and lubricates naturally, the anus does not

Actually, the anus DOES lubricate. Certainly, mine does get extremely wet.

I don't offer anal as a service but I do practise it in my private life and I love how wet I get. I don't advocate numbing any part of the anatomy to facilitate sex however as this is harmful.

I have lignocaine gel which medics use for vaginal and anal examination (from a previous minor condition) but it never worked and I can't see how any gel could lessen the pain of any unwanted anal intrusion.

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #122 on: 23 January 2016, 12:35:12 am »
well it makes sense from your point of view ... on this occasion i was advising people that are not used to anal sex to use lidocaine as a way to facilitate it  ...

not saying there is a specific problem, it gets sore when you get fucked a lot ... as you mentioned it happens to your vagina too ... but if i'm touring (which means making an investment) and i have to take a day off every time i have a good day its not going to be very profitable ... isn't life about making efforts to reach golds and all that
No life is about being healthy and happy it's not about forcing yourself through bookings when your body is telling you to have a rest and you then having  to numb parts of yourself to get through it.Longterm if you keep doing something that is actually painful it will prevent you working full stop so better to have a break from it and if you are sore don't offer it until the area is feeling better.You don't need to do anal at all to be busy but if you do offer it same as any service you don't need to over do it to make a decent amount of cash.
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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #123 on: 30 January 2016, 12:21:06 am »
Okay ladies....so I've had so many men wanting to stick things in my ass...fingers and penis of course haha and lick around it
now I have only done anal on a couple occasions in my life when I was super wasted anyway I really want to try to be comfortable with it and I know it would increase my business but....how do you girls do it??? My biggest fear is them sticking their fingers or dick inside and it coming out brown grosse...do you girls just not eat like ...ever??? I eat regularly so I'm sure there's always something in there most times ...I don't know please tell me how you girls do it :)

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« Reply #124 on: 30 January 2016, 01:00:37 am »
I used to offer it, but have recently decided to keep it for certain previous clients and personal life only. The problem is some men are absolute idiots, they try to ram it in without easing it in first or they want to pay twenty extra (or expect free because of course we all love it so much constantly 😏) then want fuck ass for the full half hour! 
The other thing I worry about is the extra risk of the condom failing and its increased risk in that area.

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« Reply #125 on: 30 January 2016, 03:13:29 am »
I just don't offer it. Fingering is ok but that's as far as it goes.
I'll only do it with regular clients who really want it and I feel comfortable doing it with. Because if he's big and hurts me then I'll never see him again and they know this.

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« Reply #126 on: 30 January 2016, 03:20:28 am »
The problem is some men are absolute idiots, they try to ram it in without easing it in first

Don't initiate anal in doggy position - I always start with me on top, thus setting the pace of entry.

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« Reply #127 on: 30 January 2016, 03:27:25 am »
I won't do anal with me on top at all - I find doggy far easier and more comfortable. I've had a couple try to suddenly thrust upwards really hard in cowgirl and it's far easier for me to move forwards out of the way in doggy in somebody's a bit over keen :).

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« Reply #128 on: 30 January 2016, 03:13:36 pm »
I really want to try to be comfortable with it and I know it would increase my business but....how do you girls do it??? My biggest fear is them sticking their fingers or dick inside and it coming out brown grosse...do you girls just not eat like ...ever??? I eat regularly so I'm sure there's always something in there most times ...I don't know please tell me how you girls do it :)

Hi Victoria, try not to worry too much. (TMI warning!)

The rectum (the inside bum!) is just a passageway. Poop is kept in the bowel, which is much higher up and won't be disturbed by anal sex. If you are a normal healthy person eating three meals a day then your inside bum will be naturally clean :) and there won't be any brown stuff on the condom when it comes out.

You don't have to eat super-healthy to achieve this - a normal diet is fine. However anal sex without douching is best avoided if you've had a very heavy meal that day, or have any kind of tummy trouble (including IBS).

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #129 on: 30 January 2016, 08:41:07 pm »
The best way I have found to do it is in missionary position. I just lift my bum slightly, the angle feels better and I can put the penis in at my pace. I absolutely have to be in control of the penis as one false move and I get the water infection below.

I personally don't allow fingers anywhere near my bum as my vagina just loves getting infections, and having a finger up my bum almost guarantees me an e coli water infection, which Is a pain in the bum (pardon the pun). I rarely get symptoms of a water infection (unless its cystitis of course, nasty one that is) so I can only tell by the smell of my urine and if I leave it too long it will give me thrush and or BV. The next problem is, e coli takes different antibiotics to normal water infections and it doesn't show up on the dip test so they have to send it to the lab to grow it, which never used to be a problem as they would dip my wee, if an infection showed up they would give me the usual antibiotic, if it didn't, they would give me the other antibiotic and just send off my wee for clarification. Now, they no longer hold the e coli antibiotic (cut backs) so they have to send off my wee and then order it in when they got the results, which means that its an extra visit and by that time ive probably got thrush and or BV as well, and they are harsh to have as you probably know, plus I get thrush with the antibiotics again :FF

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« Reply #130 on: 02 February 2016, 03:24:58 pm »
I offer anal and love the feel of it. I prefer it to normal fucking as my poor pussy gets sore quick because of the condoms and also, if i'm not turned on and wet, the guys wont know. Plus anal is usually doggy style, which means I dont need to look at the client.  It keep my income constant when I'm on my period, as I have 2 other holes  :P

Anal definitely feels better with practice

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #131 on: 01 April 2017, 11:46:05 pm »
Hi ladies. I would really appreciate some insight from the SAAFE hive mind about anal. I realise some of the answers may be a little sensitive, so please feel free to PM instead if you don't feel comfortable sharing everything.

1. Those of you who offer anal in potentially every/all bookings (i.e. you don't need to prepare especially, don't charge extra for it and the client isn't hung like a horse), roughly what percentage of clients want anal?

2. As it's so much tighter, do you have more problems with condoms slipping off or breaking during anal compared with vaginal intercourse?

3. Aside from the obvious soreness, if you have anal regularly (let's say up to five times per week), do you have any side-effects?

4. Any of you who've been doing it for yonks, did you find it got easier/more comfortable over time (in terms of months/years, not days)?

5. If you don't prepare specifically in terms of eating, douching and so on, do you find it's normally OK re. 'shitastrophes'? Or is it something you really need to prep heavily for?

6. Finally, and I realise this is subjective, but do you ever think there's any differences in personality/behaviour/attitude in clients who only want anal, or who are very interested in it, versus those who only want oral or vaginal sex? (I hope that makes sense...)

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #132 on: 02 April 2017, 12:09:48 am »
Merged with the main thread and I'll do my best with the rest :)

1. Those of you who offer anal in potentially every/all bookings (i.e. you don't need to prepare especially, don't charge extra for it and the client isn't hung like a horse), roughly what percentage of clients want anal?
It depends - overall probably around 10-15%, but I can go for a couple of weeks or more without being asked and then have it three times in the same day.

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2. As it's so much tighter, do you have more problems with condoms slipping off or breaking during anal compared with vaginal intercourse?
I've never once had a condom break during anal, whether at work or not. I suspect we tend to pay more attention to having adequate lube when doing it, and condoms don't tend to slip off because they have to be harder for anal than is necessary for vaginal sex or it won't go in in the first place

3. Aside from the obvious soreness, if you have anal regularly (let's say up to five times per week), do you have any side-effects?
None whatsoever, and I don't find I get any more sore than I do with vaginal sex. If I'm sore it's because somebody's been rough or clumsy, or I'm overdoing it.

4. Any of you who've been doing it for yonks, did you find it got easier/more comfortable over time (in terms of months/years, not days)?
I never found it particularly uncomfortable provided they follow the protocol and start slowly/patiently, but then I've been doing it almost thirty years and I can't remember much that far back :)

5. If you don't prepare specifically in terms of eating, douching and so on, do you find it's normally OK re. 'shitastrophes'? Or is it something you really need to prep heavily for?
I douche before bookings with anal and how much/many times depends on the time of day - if you know your body you have a reasonable idea of what's going on. If it's later in the day I can not bother but I prefer to anyway. But there will very occasionally be accidents (if not shitastrophies ;D) even though I can't remember the last time and I've thankfully never had any real disasters.

6. Finally, and I realise this is subjective, but do you ever think there's any differences in personality/behaviour/attitude in clients who only want anal, or who are very interested in it, versus those who only want oral or vaginal sex? (I hope that makes sense...)
I've never found that any more than I've found any common/shared traits between punters who like a particular service? I'm not sure I really understand the question though - is there an answer you're expecting and if so what is it?

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Re: Questions about anal?
« Reply #133 on: 02 April 2017, 01:01:14 am »
Actually, the anus DOES lubricate. Certainly, mine does get extremely wet.

I realise the above poster is no longer a member and that post was aaaaages ago but I'd love to hear others' experience on this point.

I don't offer anal with clients but have enjoyed it in my private sex life but the only time my rectum gets "wet" is when I've got diarrhoea!
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« Reply #134 on: 02 April 2017, 01:25:21 am »
I realise the above poster is no longer a member and that post was aaaaages ago but I'd love to hear others' experience on this point.

I don't offer anal with clients but have enjoyed it in my private sex life but the only time my rectum gets "wet" is when I've got diarrhoea!

I need to use Lube for ease and to protect the condom from splitting, maybe a little wet it gets as notice it gets more comfortable as time goes on. I think it is like how a pussy gets wet from arousal the anus is the same. Anal is my favourite.