Lots of people don't offer it, and lots of clients don't want it.

This, plus the fact that you're not happy doing it would show = stick to your boundaries.

just my 2 cents but I would say only do things you are comfortable with and not because you think lots of other ladies may offer it.   and clients will sense that you are not into it and could end up written in a possible review.   I dont offer anal and my business is just fine.  start as you mean to go on you are in control not the clients. xx

I also don't provide anal as a service - tried it once or twice before and it's just HORRIBLE for me, although I know there are women out there who enjoy it a lot. It's just not something that does it for me either mentally or physically. Might as well stick a willy in someone's ear, frankly.

It's never affected my business, except that in the brief time I tried offering A-levels for clients I ended up meeting a couple who I didn't get on with at all, which is unusual for me. Not a big enough sample to say "anal-seeking clients are meanies!" but, for me, it just wasn't the right direction in terms of getting nicer clients. Even if I didn't find it uncomfortable, I would only offer it to very regular clients (e.g. once I'd had a chance to suss their attitude - and their size!) because it's a slightly more risky service in terms of abrasion to a sensitive area etc.

I've had a similar experience to the OP and also Emily in that Anal just isn't for me.

One thing I've noticed is that some clients may try and 'convert' you, convince you you've not been doing it right because all women they've had sex with 'love it'. Oldest line in the book paid for or not .

You will get those who'll offer crazy money, or just a bit extra for you to provide it but they usually either are getting off on talking about it and aren't bookers, or simply think cash is the only reason you are withholding.

It simply makes me feel ill, as if I've had a bad curry during and afterwards unless he's been super careful and built up slowly then there's pain for days. I have no need to make myself feel that horrible in order to make a good living, with plenty of happy clients so just will not do it. In my personal life it's also a no go because feeling horrible withstanding it doesn't get me going in the slightest (although until I had exhausted trying it to see if I could get used to it I was turned on by the idea but that's passed now!).

I also have an aversion to strap ons, I just don't like poo. I will offer prostrate massage, condom on finger which really turns some men on and have used small vibrators and toys on clients who are scrupulous with their hygiene(which also means making sure they are clean in this area).

You will get clients who'll say it's a deal breaker, but just as many are horrified at the thought of it.

I'll not forget the day when I was told vaseline is the best lubricant for anal

In your case, don't. As others have said, if you're bleeding that's definitely a clear signal that you shouldn't do it. As a male escort if I didn't offer it, I'd get a lot less business. I eliminate any risk of mess by using an anal douche before. The water also seems to get my ass warmed up/ in the right shape to be able to take small to average sized guys. With bigger guys I usually make a token effort then make my excuses and switch to oral and or hand job. I recommend silicone based oil as it's condom safe, lasts longer and feels nicer. I find water based lubes feel kind of cold and sloppy compared to silicone ones, which feel warm and smooth. Also, I recommend rinsing your anal douche with a tiny bit of dettol then lots of hot water after use. And if you find you're getting gassy after using it regularly that's probably from washing away the beneficial bacteria. Try probiotics, these help.

There will always be clients who will tell you that if you dont offer it then you will lose soooo much money.  Personally i would rather lose their money than spend a week in agonising pain.  I tried it a few times with my partner just to see if I could offer it for work and found that there is no way in hell I can.
Funnily enough even those that ring and ask still book when I say no.  It has never affected my business as I offer a GFE which anal is not part of anyway

Thanks all Guess I was just just stressing as there seems to be a lot of anal obsessed marketing.

I'm do enjoy the sensation of having a vibrating toy used on the area just nothing inserted, regardless of the discomfort and ocassional bleeding it causes it always makes me feel like I need a No2 lol and its impossible to feel sexy while feeling like that. However I do love performing anal on men with a strap on or other toys I had an ex who loved this and he was a great teacher when it came to stimulating guys in this way and the power trip of doing it on a man is a great turn on.

Thank you all for putting my mind at rest lol sometimes there were so many I love anal adverts I began thinking I was the only person whose boat it doesn't float lol xxx