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Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« on: 07 August 2015, 10:42:08 pm »
 
I * usually * have 3-6 booking a day on the average and  one of them (well, most days)  is bound to be a walkout  ::)
 I mean, they  use various reasons like '' thought you were more like brunet'' even tough I use word ''blonde'' as a part of my AW nickname ...
I answer the door wearing the very same dress like in my AW amateur pictures and look just like my pics- most  guys are like '' WOW you look much better than the pics!"
I mean, I don't mind it too much if I'm doing my incall day ( which means sat in my flat all day and don't have to travel)  but otherwise.. really pisses me off..

Any advise or other observations.

Thanks xx


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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #1 on: 07 August 2015, 10:54:52 pm »

I * usually * have 3-6 booking a day on the average and  one of them (well, most days)  is bound to be a walkout  ::)
 I mean, they  use various reasons like '' thought you were more like brunet'' even tough I use word ''blonde'' as a part of my AW nickname ...
I answer the door wearing the very same dress like in my AW amateur pictures and look just like my pics- most  guys are like '' WOW you look much better than the pics!"
I mean, I don't mind it too much if I'm doing my incall day ( which means sat in my flat all day and don't have to travel)  but otherwise.. really pisses me off..

Any advise or other observations.

Thanks xx


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No, that's not the norm. I've had a few here and there. A friend of mine has only ever had one.

If you're getting a lot of them I think there are a few possibilities.

1. You're attracting or not screening out goofy time wasters who just want to have a look at you. I think these are probably pretty rare but maybe they're out there if you don't screen them out by having good instincts.

2. You don't look exactly like your photos. If your photos depict someone noticeably younger or thinner than the reality, then you will get some walk-outs. But one a day still seems excessive.

3. There is something about your incall premises that they don't like. If you have a dirty or messy flat that may make some men scarper.

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #2 on: 07 August 2015, 10:59:54 pm »
I've only ever had one outside Ireland (where I'd expect at least one in every visit, although I still never got that many), and he didn't explain himself so not very helpful.

I agree with Fab on the screening; it's not normal and I think you're maybe not spotting them on the phone. Could it be your incall though - is there anybody there (even next door) making a lot of noise, or pets that might be bothering them?

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #3 on: 07 August 2015, 11:03:05 pm »
 
 ::) have like lots of amateur pics  which aren't exactly flattering so I don't really know ..

Well, I am exaggerating a bit perhaps , it's like 1-2 a week or a few days, still worrying though ...
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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #4 on: 08 August 2015, 08:30:00 pm »
If your pics aren't flattering you would think they'd be pleasantly surprised seeing you "in the flesh", and if they didn't like the pics
they wouldn't book you in the first place..
That's still quite a lot, 2-3 a week, I've only ever had one (touch wood), and that was because I had the wrong football team on the
wall lol  ;) (Glasgow  ::))
I would ask them why if it keeps happening, I know that might not be the easiest thing to ask, but I'm sure it isn't you personally or they wouldn't book you in the first place, so maybe like the other girls said, the premises?
Maybe ask them if they've got any preferences for you to wear something specific?
Unless you've just been really, really unlucky and just had an abnormal amount of arseholes  ;)
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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #5 on: 08 August 2015, 08:33:11 pm »
Sounds a bit too high...
Horrific amateur pics would keep them away surely?
But they are turning up right?

How do you screen them on the phone?

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #6 on: 08 August 2015, 08:39:08 pm »
That's what I didn't understand cheesypeas, it's obviously not the pics or they wouldn't book, so it must be something when they're
turning up..
Foxy Lady, I would ask them, there's got to be a reason, and it must be really pissing you off, it's the only way to find out..
They'll probably come up with all sorts of excuses, but you might get ONE honest answer, if you ask them the right way.. Maybe..
If you're comfortable with that.. Sorry, I just can't think of an another solution and I just don't understand why you'd be getting such
a high volume of walkouts..
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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #7 on: 08 August 2015, 11:32:41 pm »
Hi,
 It *can* possibly be my screening as people who book on AW following the whole ''booking request ''procedure and properly familiarise   themselves with my profile- never had any sort of problem with them..
So perhaps these other guys who book over the phone just don't  bother to read my profile and look at all the pics
I have tried asking people as to why they feel the need to act this way they would usually say ''babe, sorry for wasting your time '' ...

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #8 on: 09 August 2015, 12:10:33 am »
I had one recently where a guy questioned my ethnic background!  I found it highly offensive as I am completely honest about my ethnic background on my profile. 


My last walk out was in April.  I don't think they should be happening weekly but it's bound to happen occasionally.  It's impossible to be everyone's type and if you don't show your face there will always be one fussy guy who changes his mind. 
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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #9 on: 09 August 2015, 12:12:28 am »
It's pretty rare that they'll tell you why. I had one guy say that it was because I didn't look like my photos (back when I had glossy pro shots). I had another guy say that it was because I was "much too tall" but if that was even the truth I figured he was the idiot as my profile is very clear about my height.

I have done everything I can to prevent any disappointment on their parts but I still get a walkout every two or three months or so.

I've had others say that they just felt too guilty or whatever. It does make me paranoid but I know that I look exactly like my photos (they show my face and my body and are never more than a couple of months old), my flat/venues are always clean and pleasant, and I am friendly and pleasant when I answer the door. Perhaps they're just not ready for all 6-foot-plus-in-heels of me towering over them.

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #10 on: 09 August 2015, 12:14:24 am »
 ... It has just happened now.. this guy (noticeably quite drunk  and I did notice it when  spoke to him  on the phone ) just walked in, turned around without saying a word and walked out ...

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #11 on: 09 August 2015, 12:16:08 am »
I'm sorry that has just happened to you - it's an awful feeling. :(

I'm not normally one to advocate being a glutton for punishment, but maybe if you asked them via a text very nicely what was wrong they'd be more likely to tell you?

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #12 on: 09 August 2015, 12:28:03 am »

Just send him an  extra polite message asking  why he felt the need to behave the way he did and got this reply (quotation )
  ''Puncture!!''
So don't know what to make of it, it's completely inadequate and probably  just a piss take. ..  ::)

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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #13 on: 09 August 2015, 12:54:28 am »
I'd be shouting after them "should have gone to specsavers" rofl.
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Re: Question about walkouts [was: is it normal at all?]
« Reply #14 on: 09 August 2015, 02:32:23 am »
I agree that's peculiar. To be honest I've put on weight and gone up a dress size (in comparison to my agency pics which I can't change freely myself) and have never had such a response. Sounds a bit ott. Maybe take more recent pics ?
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