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NorthernIrishNatalie

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #15 on: 08 December 2011, 12:14:42 am »
Quote from: improbablecats on 07 December 2011, 11:40:55 pm

Natalie, just on the point of putting it on while 'soft' ... I'm fairly certain that the condom is not meant to go on until there's an erection, or it might not quite be on right. Still, if it works for you then carry on.


Yeah that's what we were taught in Sex Education at school and what alot of non-escorts believe but if you use your mouth there is no air left in the condom so the chances of it splitting are greatly reduced. When you get the hang of it all you'll probably find it easier.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #16 on: 08 December 2011, 08:41:54 am »
It also says so on the manufacturer's instructions, but hey!  ;D
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #17 on: 08 December 2011, 09:49:24 am »
Yeah it does but they don't put 20 of the things on each and every day.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #18 on: 08 December 2011, 12:53:08 pm »
I can put them on with my mouth when they're still fairly soft, although I wouldn't normally unless we were having real problems getting anywhere. If you hold it firmly with your mouth and then roll the condom down with your hand and keep hold of the base (and I keep going until it's hard, or it doesn't stay on) it works fine. If I get a really leaky one  :-X it's going on straight away too (I don't offer OWO either, which does make it easier).

I don't tend to let clients put them on because I like to feel secure knowing it's done properly - many punters have very little recent experience of applying condoms and the married ones often haven't done it for years and haven't got a clue. Some of the techniques I've seen would make your hair stand on end (although I've heard of ladies who are just as bad); the ones who hook all their fingers inside the thing, yank and stretch it outwards and snap it on like a swimming hat would be a prime example *shudders*.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #19 on: 08 December 2011, 02:16:28 pm »
Amy I totally agree with your technique. That's how I do it and I have never had a problem. It is more hygienic, safer and means we can get down to the fun stuff sooner without him asking "are ya gonna keep playing with it or stick it in yer mouth luv". Lol.
 Oh dear I have witnessed these wankers, sorry "yankers" too Lol. It definately comes with practise being able to perfect putting one on so effortlessly that the daft sod hasn't even realised he's been enjoying OW for the last 5 minutes.
 As for the married men, yes I agree, they are clueless when it comes to putting on a condom properly. Infact almost all my non-working shags have been clueless about how to do it properly and it slightly annoys me when they insist on putting it on. They always give me the odd look when I use my mouth, one ex in amazment exclaimed "my God you done that just like a hooker would". *Ensued further probing questions from said ex bf*. :D
 Natalie Xx
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #20 on: 08 December 2011, 02:19:40 pm »
Quote from: NorthernIrishNatalie on 08 December 2011, 02:16:28 pm
one ex in amazment exclaimed "my God you done that just like a hooker would". *Ensued further probing questions from said ex bf*. :D

Did you ask some probing questions back? :)
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #21 on: 08 December 2011, 03:03:36 pm »
Quote from: xw5 on 08 December 2011, 02:19:40 pm
Quote from: NorthernIrishNatalie on 08 December 2011, 02:16:28 pm
one ex in amazment exclaimed "my God you done that just like a hooker would". *Ensued further probing questions from said ex bf*. :D

Did you ask some probing questions back? :)

 ;D ;D
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #22 on: 08 December 2011, 03:06:12 pm »
I find it easier to put the condom on with my mouth.  When it's soft it can make them get hard quite quickly. I've never offered OWO so use this 90% of the time. They like it, they think it's a little trick we do!!

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #23 on: 08 December 2011, 03:07:02 pm »
Quote from: xw5 on 08 December 2011, 02:19:40 pm
Quote from: NorthernIrishNatalie on 08 December 2011, 02:16:28 pm
one ex in amazment exclaimed "my God you done that just like a hooker would". *Ensued further probing questions from said ex bf*. :D

Did you ask some probing questions back? :)

Haha I did indeed. The reply was "well ya know ya see these things on tv don't ya". Hhhmmm a likely story Lol.
 Natalie Xx
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #24 on: 09 December 2011, 07:11:16 am »
Off-topic posts removed. Jokes and humour are fine but all posts in this section need to be relevant to the original issue or query. Also, let's insult neither men nor feminists, eh? :)

Please PM me or any mod if you want to make further comments that are not relevant to the OP.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #25 on: 09 December 2011, 11:42:18 am »
EmilyJones there was no harm meant by my blase comments. Some people are just (continuously) overly sensitive and critical of whatever I write and like I said it was not meant to cause offence and actually if I remember correctly it was very lighthearted and 'tounge in cheek'.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #26 on: 09 December 2011, 12:01:24 pm »
Quote from: EmilyJones on 09 December 2011, 07:11:16 am
Please PM me or any mod if you want to make further comments that are not relevant to the OP.

As above. Back on topic please.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #27 on: 12 December 2011, 01:01:44 pm »
Quote from: amy on 08 December 2011, 12:53:08 pm
I can put them on with my mouth when they're still fairly soft, although I wouldn't normally unless we were having real problems getting anywhere. If you hold it firmly with your mouth and then roll the condom down with your hand and keep hold of the base (and I keep going until it's hard, or it doesn't stay on) it works fine. If I get a really leaky one  :-X it's going on straight away too (I don't offer OWO either, which does make it easier).
I do OWO at discression, but I'm the same if they are leaky.
and to quote Bette Porter...

I had a lovely old gent last week.
Oodles of precum from a totally flaccid willy.
Before I blew him I went to the bathroom to wash my hands and open the condom.
I never explain why I'm leaving the client, I just do it.
And I've never been asked where I'm going or what I'm doing.
It's my body and health, after all.
{which would be my explanation, if asked!}
Anyway, condom on, and he gets hard and I play/blow him.
And the inside of the condom goes pink in colour!
I've had that once before, a burst capillary in a clients willy.
- He had been rather "enthusiastic" on himself the previous evening.

Anyway Mr Old client had used some sharp scissors on his pubes
just before visiting me. And the scissor had nicked his end.
Lots of blood but a tissue had stopped the bleeding
so he thought he was 'good to go'  ::)
Anyway, that was rather yukky.
Precum and blood.  :-X
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #28 on: 15 December 2011, 10:30:23 am »
Hi ladies,

From an advisory perspective we would suggest the following :
Get the condom on as SOON as the penis becomes erect, as it states it the manufacturers instructions of use.
If you put the condom on correctly: squeeze the tip, place on the head of the penis and roll down (fingers behind the rim of the condom and push down towards the base of the penis) then you should not have any pre-cum on your hands, or on the outside of the condom. 
You could always use 'surgical' gloves to avoid getting any pre-cum on your hands if you need to get the client erect, then remove once the penis is erect and the condom is on: very clinical, some clients might love it, some might hate it - you will know best.   
Additionally a little reminder that if you are putting the condom on with your mouth, make sure you do not have any lipgloss, lipbalm or lipstick on as these are often oil based products that can weaken the condom causing it to split in action.

Keep safe ladies  :)
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #29 on: 15 December 2011, 02:31:07 pm »
In terms of precum on the hands, would wet wipes be enough? I always keep some by my bed.
  And in terms of putting on the condom, I can put it on with my mouth but I prefer using my hands.  I only use my mouth if I feel in the mood to, if I want to show off or if they ask me too, which they do from time to time.
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