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Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« on: 06 December 2011, 07:28:06 pm »
Hi everyone ...

I did a search, and found lots of useful things about managing the 'precum-on-the-hands then putting a condom on' situation. Trouble is, the place I work in does not have an ensuite, so i cannot pop out to wash my hands. I've been doing the clean-hand, dirty-hand thing for manual stimulation, but I've found it nearly impossible to get a condom on with one hand. Surely you need one hand to squeeze the top and the other to roll it down? Any tips? I'm really worried that I'm putting myself at risk by not managing to avoid contaminating the outside of the condom.

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #1 on: 06 December 2011, 09:36:02 pm »
Any way that you can just stop and use some wipes on your hands? That's what I would do, under the pretence that I can't get a good grip to get the *necessary* unwrapped and in place...


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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #2 on: 06 December 2011, 09:43:06 pm »
Thanks, Cat.

Is that sufficient? I mean, if I use antibacterial wipes that sorts anything bacterial but what about anything viral? I know viruses don't survive as long as bacteria outside the body but they do persist for a few minutes at least.

Complexities.

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #3 on: 06 December 2011, 09:46:09 pm »
Thanks, Cat.

Is that sufficient? I mean, if I use antibacterial wipes that sorts anything bacterial but what about anything viral? I know viruses don't survive as long as bacteria outside the body but they do persist for a few minutes at least.

Complexities.


Hmmm. I see what you mean. I'm interested in other replies too. :)


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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #4 on: 06 December 2011, 10:11:24 pm »
I'm no sure what else you CAN do Cats, given that you don't have an en suite.
My solution is to ask the guy to put the condom on, that solves the issue nicely for me!

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #5 on: 06 December 2011, 10:30:31 pm »
I just don't trust them enough to let them DIY.  If you let them put it on themselves, the next thing you know, it's come off on the "outward journey", so to speak, and you may not notice til it's too late.

I think there's too much risk with that.  You don;t have to be obvious about using a wipe, and it's a better safer method.

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #6 on: 06 December 2011, 10:55:02 pm »
Hmm, if a wipe of the hands didn't work, condoms would be a lot less effective. Outside of this context, how many people even wipe their hands?
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #7 on: 07 December 2011, 05:24:36 am »
I just don't trust them enough to let them DIY.  If you let them put it on themselves, the next thing you know, it's come off on the "outward journey", so to speak, and you may not notice til it's too late.

That really doesn't follow. Generally speaking they are much better at putting them on than I. Also I don't think its fair to lump all guys together like that as 'potential sneaky barebackers'.  Obviously I can only speak for myself but  guys I see would no more sneak a condom off than walk down the street naked, the health implications being too obvious to note again here.

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #8 on: 07 December 2011, 12:33:34 pm »
I really don't see the point in letting the guy put it on. I prefer to have controll of when the condom goes on and I think asking/telling the guy to do it would be a tad weird, like a nurse asking the patient to sanitize their own skin before injecting their inoculation.
 The guy putting it on is the least hygienic as he won't wipe his hands and will have his bacteria from his dick all over them and will be touching you with them.
 I am extremely fussy about hygiene and would never let pre cum etc touch me. I hold the base of their cock, soft or hard and use my mouth to put the condom on. This ensures there is no air and it's fully down, plus it can be done when the guy is soft and it will get him hard.
 I keep hand gels and sprays etc by the bed so if I was in any doubt I'd use them and I'd ask the client to use them before we started.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #9 on: 07 December 2011, 12:56:16 pm »
This is something that has bothered me too.  I use the clean hand dirty hand technique too, but as you say Cats it's difficult to put a condom on with one hand.  Sadly I'm nowhere near skilled enough to try and put a condom on with my mouth, and it was embarressing for me the last/first time I did. I don't want the guy to think I'm useless . 
I've never even thought about the guy putting the condom on.  So maybe I should try that, as I always find it ruins the moment when you're reaching over the bed to try and wipe your hands with wipes or anti bacterial cleaner.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #10 on: 07 December 2011, 02:41:25 pm »
I've never got pre-cum on my hands putting a willy hat on. Or at least I don't think I have, I use my dettol wipes anyways afterwards to just get the sperm killer off my hands.

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #11 on: 07 December 2011, 02:42:52 pm »
I don't think anyone has the monopoly on hygeine here.  I would think it very odd for an escort NOT to be hygenic given the job we do. My condoms go on usually WELL before pre-cum as I only do protected oral.  I always watch the guy do it too (wipes available too)
I'm not going to judge anyone here -  each to their own I do what works for me.  I just don't see the point in shouting the loudest about it - thats just part of our job to look after our own hygeine/sexual health.  That is all we can do.

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #12 on: 07 December 2011, 02:46:45 pm »
Ah yer thats why I don't get pre-cum every where cause I don't offer owo so no juices are flowing before the willy hat goes on! ;)

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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #13 on: 07 December 2011, 02:49:58 pm »
I have the monopoly on hygiene given that I have severe OCD! Lol.
   Some guys pre cum like mad before you even get near them. I have one client we call Slimy Dick as the stuff pours from him on his way to bloody meet us Lol.
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Re: Putting condoms on, avoiding precum
« Reply #14 on: 07 December 2011, 11:40:55 pm »
Thanks for all the replies.

I don't offer OWO, but I find that if I manually stimulate it tends to result in precum. Solutions: 1) try not to be so good at handjobs  ;D or 2) condom on earlier. Today when I was working I tried to move the condom moment forward a bit. Some guys really seem to dislike this though.

Natalie, just on the point of putting it on while 'soft' ... I'm fairly certain that the condom is not meant to go on until there's an erection, or it might not quite be on right. Still, if it works for you then carry on.

I think I am going to try and put the condom on a bit earlier, and if there are any doubts about whether it might be on my hands I'll use the 'oh god, my hands are just too slippery to open this condom packet, ahaha ... " excuse mentioned above!