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EvaBeeva

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Re: Services at discretion
« Reply #15 on: 06 December 2011, 11:55:50 am »
Do they not listen to their GFs?

That is something I wonder about clients for many reasons.
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« Reply #16 on: 06 December 2011, 05:07:00 pm »
I think far too many men think a quick rinse of their dick is all it takes whereas the truth is that their entire undercarriage needs soap and hot water applied and massaged in and rinsed thoroughly off, especially if they are on the hairy side. Do they not listen to their GFs? Are they bone idle? Do they assume that because we're WGs we have no standards and will accept anything???
If we are brutally honest,
the majority of such men have never actually had a girlfriend.  :-\

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« Reply #17 on: 06 December 2011, 06:04:30 pm »
If someone is lacking on the hygiene side, then a tactful steer towards the bathroom is easy. I did once encounter a client for whom one shower wasn't enough, and it was clear he almost definitely didn't wash/change his clothes very often.

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Re: Services at discretion
« Reply #18 on: 06 December 2011, 07:02:47 pm »
I just don't understand why no-one tells them, even if they don't have girlfriends. Someone should say something!  :-X

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« Reply #19 on: 06 December 2011, 08:28:54 pm »
If someone is lacking on the hygiene side, then a tactful steer towards the bathroom is easy. I did once encounter a client for whom one shower wasn't enough, and it was clear he almost definitely didn't wash/change his clothes very often.

I recently had a guy not manage to wash himself very well in the shower (he was kind of a "if I don't have my fingers or penis inside you and my mouth glued to a nipple then I'm WASTING MY TIME HERE!" sort of guy, actually - and while I really don't mind an energetic booking, the ones where you just get frantically 'done over' by a man on a mission are not my favourite!) and all I had to say to get him to re-wash his willy was, "I'm really sorry but it smells a bit odd down here, do you mind if I do covered oral...?" He literally LEPT back into the shower almost before I'd finished my sentence. No hard feelings or bad mood or anything. Oral was still a bit tricky cos once your stomach's been turned it's impossible to un-turn, but meh. At least there were no arguments or anything. A polite question/instruction works wonders indeed.

(Ironically, with this guy, at the start of the booking when I'd left him to get showered etc and said my usual "see you in a couple of minutes!" - he replied, "Oh, I'll only need one, actually" to which I'd laughed uncertainly because that's a slightly terrifying joke and I wasn't even sure that he was joking about not knowing how to was his own bits and pieces. And it turned out he definitely wasn't!)
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« Reply #20 on: 06 December 2011, 10:44:15 pm »
Honestly, some of them genuinely don't realise they've got a personal hygiene issue, and that's precisely WHY they don't, and have never had, a GF.
I find, that a few words of instruction, and a smile work wonders.

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« Reply #21 on: 06 December 2011, 10:48:14 pm »
Oh, and I also find that "at discretion" tends to be read as "take it for granted", so I don't offer, and they're very pleasantly surprised when/if they get "special treatment.

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« Reply #22 on: 07 December 2011, 12:47:09 am »
when I'd left him to get showered etc and said my usual "see you in a couple of minutes!" - he replied, "Oh, I'll only need one, actually"

Does anyone else get annoyed when clients barely spend 2 minutes in the shower before the booking - and then spend 30 minutes using time and all the hot water after.?

Its like they're saying 'She'll accept anything because she's a dirty whore' followed by 'I must scrub all the germs and filth off' after. Its SO annoying when I'm scrupulously, fanatically clean and obsessive about safe sex and being tested at the Clinic.

Ok I'm probably being over sensitive, but, sometimes, grrrrrrr!

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Re: Services at discretion
« Reply #23 on: 07 December 2011, 06:49:08 am »
Totally
You are not alone on that one.
A real bug bear with me TBH.

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« Reply #24 on: 10 December 2011, 08:22:51 am »
I always advise girl that work for me that ro, kissing and owo, cim and alevel are at their own personal discretion. Most of them offer to  most clients but I would be highly miffed if I had found one that had felt she "had" to give someone something just because its on her list of services. Discretion must be used sometimes and unfortunatley some guys simply must be refused uncovered services for the good of the whole industry. All it takes is one guy/girl to start of an epidemic as a lot of things have no symptoms for a few weeks, lord knows how many guys a girl will have seen by the time she realises that something is amiss possibly and the same for the guys. If a man does not have the respect to keep himself clean or arrive with a healthy willy/mouth and clean fingers/nails then why should he recieve and possibly infect. It is a girls right to refuse, hopefully not having to very often but still.... I always tell them to consider their next client, both their health and their reputations. Perhaps a man refused will learn a lesson no one else has taught him and wash the willy next time.

Saying that from personal experience most guys do tend to be clean thankfully.
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Re: Services at discretion
« Reply #25 on: 15 December 2011, 02:16:49 pm »
I get clients who call up and ask 'do you do owo/french kissing/etc?' I usually answer 'at discretion, yes.' I find the statement gives me the freedom to refuse the service if the guy is filthy, unhygienic, under the influence of drugs, etc. I don't like to promise a service before  I have met the guy, if that makes sense?

I agree with this. It's generally my stance as well.
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« Reply #26 on: 15 December 2011, 02:19:01 pm »
when I'd left him to get showered etc and said my usual "see you in a couple of minutes!" - he replied, "Oh, I'll only need one, actually"

Does anyone else get annoyed when clients barely spend 2 minutes in the shower before the booking - and then spend 30 minutes using time and all the hot water after.?

Its like they're saying 'She'll accept anything because she's a dirty whore' followed by 'I must scrub all the germs and filth off' after. Its SO annoying when I'm scrupulously, fanatically clean and obsessive about safe sex and being tested at the Clinic.

Ok I'm probably being over sensitive, but, sometimes, grrrrrrr!

R xx

I find that if they are asked to clean themselves they do it quickly because in their eyes the quicker they wash the sooner they can get down to making whoopie.
   That's probably one of the reasons anyway.
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