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orchidperfume

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put off by the phone voice
« on: 28 May 2012, 07:01:38 pm »
I would like to ask of any ladies have recieved calls from men and not liked the tone or the attitude in which they speak to you, not involving insults,abuse or silly questions,
I got a call today but didnt like the sound of the man, he said,
*you free*? in an abrupt tone, i tried to keep him on the line for longer just to see if he mellowed out abit but he didnt, i ended the call saying i would call him back if i was free, he made a big sigh !
I dont wish to book with him.
Orchid .
Im sure if guys dont like the sound of my voice they also may not book either, I  do try to sound appealing when i answer the phone.

I knew my gut instinct was right , he has sent many texts saying i kept him waiting over 2 hrs but i didnt as i said if i was free id call back. Im glad i didnt book with him.  I even suggested he book another escort instead as i have a 2 hr outcall with a regular which i will take. He didnt like this at all.  ,,,,
« Last Edit: 28 May 2012, 07:32:55 pm by orchidperfume »

TeenKylie

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #1 on: 28 May 2012, 07:10:31 pm »
All the time! I won't take booking based on the way some men speak to me, I won't even entertain the 'you free' calls. These men turn out to be timewasters most of the time anyway and why would I want to see someone who clearly does not have any respect for me? He can take his money elsewhere.

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #2 on: 28 May 2012, 07:12:51 pm »
Depending on just how much the caller 'annoys/irritates me' I have a different way of dealing with them.

1. Hung up without saying anything.
2. Tell them I'm not willing to give them a booking.
3. Tell them I'm fully booked until .................................
4. Let them twaddle on while the phone lies at the side of me

If a guy cant show respect when enquiring then he sure as fk aint gonna show any during booking so there is no way he is going to get a booking

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casey_kisses

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #3 on: 28 May 2012, 07:15:02 pm »
Yeah it totally matters how a man addresses me and the tone in which he talks to me when he is making an appointment, It's for me one of the first indicators as to whether he is a timewaster/dangerous a potential client.

Furthermore, the guy's tone and attitude is an indication of how they are going to be in a real life, so if I even get the slightest whiff that they are a little bit off I say 'thanks but no thanks'!

Also one of my pet hates is rudeness, and I have a particularly low tolerance for it, so I really try and screen out these kind of men before I see them as clients.
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Emma_GFE

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #4 on: 28 May 2012, 07:55:54 pm »
Im sure if guys dont like the sound of my voice they also may not book either

Exactly!
I have turnt down bookings because of the way I have been spoken to within reason.

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #5 on: 28 May 2012, 08:29:03 pm »
I once went ahead and met a client whose tone I didn't like that much on the phone and guess what - he was a pr*ck in real life too!  I have since gone with my gut instincts and "spidey sense" every time since then, even if I am being a little paranoid.  Its just not worth it! xx

TeenKylie

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #6 on: 28 May 2012, 08:39:23 pm »
I once went ahead and met a client whose tone I didn't like that much on the phone and guess what - he was a pr*ck in real life too!  I have since gone with my gut instincts and "spidey sense" every time since then, even if I am being a little paranoid.  Its just not worth it! xx
The same thing happened to me and I actually asked him to leave and gave him his money back. Never again.

danae

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #7 on: 28 May 2012, 08:48:46 pm »
I once went ahead and met a client whose tone I didn't like that much on the phone and guess what - he was a pr*ck in real life too!  I have since gone with my gut instincts and "spidey sense" every time since then, even if I am being a little paranoid.  Its just not worth it! xx

It?s amazing how well this job hones your ?spidey senses?

Every now and then, I?ll speak to someone who on the face of it is perfectly normally ? not rude, abusive or disrespectful ? but just some of the questions they ask or how they ask them can be enough for me to refuse a booking. I can?t always pinpoint what is that a guy does that makes me unwilling to see him but rarely am I wrong about any doubts.

On the odd occasion when I?ve doubted myself or thought ?stop being so harsh, he?s probably just nervous and will be fine in person? my initial impression has always turned out to be correct.

The worst callers are those who don?t even bother to start with a hello and just bark ?details?!? Sheesh!!!

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #8 on: 29 May 2012, 01:04:04 pm »
Like someone else said, I give people a few seconds to see if they were unintentionally rude due to nerves.  If they continue to be abrupt and I am uncomfortable with their tone, I stay polite and tell them I am not available.  No further discussion.  In my private life, I used to be an argumentative soandso but ?at work? I am super polite. It works for me as I seldom get timewasters and had very few unpleasant encounters. I found by not reacting or rising to any red flags with unpleasant guys, I?ve taken the wind out of their sails and they seem to move on really quickly. I don?t give them any reaction and they seem to get bored with me very quickly.  As others said, I have a zero tolerance for genuinely rude callers and politely tell them I am booked up for a long time. I just don?t take their issues or attitude on board.  Actually, I started treating people the same way in my private life and really cut down on strife and have fewer people take the piss. Escorting has over the last 7 years really boosted my confidence and helped me to deal better with people overall.  It really is a good training for anyone looking to set up a business as I developed a much better no nonsense attitude.   

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Re: put off by the phone voice
« Reply #9 on: 29 May 2012, 03:21:30 pm »
The sulky attitude over the phone is what I dislike. I will tell them I am not available. Manners cost nothing I have done nothing to them as far as I am aware of (or have I?) so they can take their piss poor attitude and do one, I will try and talk to them to see how the conversation progress but if the voice is flat, dull and sullen its not going to work. Whatever is griping them I don't want them bringing it to my door. I don't lay with pigs.
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