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stvn

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« on: 30 December 2008, 11:11:05 pm »
hiya im new to this but sometime you have to learn the hard way and for me it has been as joined with few different escorts company but didnt go to plan and but doestnt put me off still wanting to be a male escort in glasgow and never knew about this site and been all over the net trying to find some where and dont know how to trust and know that its not the best of time with christmas,new year and the credit crunch but stiill not putting me off ia any one has any help would like to hear from you and happy new year

UrbaneAspects

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Re: new to this
« Reply #1 on: 31 December 2008, 12:15:58 am »
lets lay it on the line. Are you gay or straight? that determines what type of advice we could give.

lexienight

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« Reply #2 on: 31 December 2008, 12:42:59 am »
Yeah, we need to know if your gay or straight so we can decide whether your just experiancing the newbie slow start or if your flogging a dead horse... not literally obviously, we dont condone animal abuse around here. 

Also, could you pop a bit of punctuation in to your post.... i was out of breath reading it hahaha.

welcome by the way (ladies i hope you are all just on holiday... we are starting to be outnumbered by the boys)

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« Reply #3 on: 31 December 2008, 02:34:10 am »
we are starting to be outnumbered by the boys)

Yea...there's alot of us  :D  at one point we took over an entire thread! (thats not our intention).

Anyway, Im sure this guy wants an answer pronto. So, since you havent told us your sexuality, I'll say it like this. Gay male escorts are in demand. Not as much as women though (probably because only a certain percentage (I think its 25%) of males are gay/bi) No, you cant get away with not having sex. If you're not gay, then I wouldnt recommend being a gay escort. Because youre gonna need to have sex, suck a dick..or get yours done.

If you're straight...well I dont know because Im not straight. From what I read, the market is small. Someone (women) elaborate for me...
« Last Edit: 31 December 2008, 02:41:12 am by JoeyR »

lexienight

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« Reply #4 on: 31 December 2008, 03:03:22 am »
I dont know about the gay market for men (or the straight one for that matter) but i dont really get the gay escort market in the UK.

What i mean is, single or attached ALL of my gay mates seem to get shit loads of sex whether its from clubs or cottaging or online meeting or drinking in a straight bar and picking up a 'straight' man thats just curious so i dont quite get the gay market for escorts (and not all of my gay mates are even attractive!!).  it just seems really easy to get laid for free as a gay man in this country.  Maybe (keep in mind i have no fricking idea what im talking about, im just throwing out an idea here) maybe there is more of a market if you offer something a little less vanilla than the sort of sex you would usually pick up in a bar so if you offered a bit of kink on your website/profile that was a little more easy to ask an escort than a normal pick up it might catch the eye of clients.

If you are straight though, well your going to have to offer something really special to get a womans attention.  Its not about how big your cock is or even if you think your great in bed.  Id imagine a woman paying for an escort would want to be completley romanced and almost swept off her feet.  I would put my neck on the line and say that a straight guys web site and the literature would have to be much better than any WG's because we aren't as much about the shag as we are about the experiance and the site would be the big sell.

Good luck either way.... Im glad I'm a WG not a WB, seems like more hard work gay or straight!

lexienight

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« Reply #5 on: 31 December 2008, 03:05:54 am »
we are starting to be outnumbered by the boys)

Yea...there's alot of us  :D  at one point we took over an entire thread! (thats not our intention).


It was a thread that was more boy related though so you can all be forgiven. 

UrbaneAspects

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« Reply #6 on: 31 December 2008, 03:10:46 am »
it just seems really easy to get laid for free as a gay man in this country. 

yea if they like clubbing and getting drunk off their asses! Most of my clients prefer not to engage in that type of behavior every weekend!  ::)

Yes, everyone believes gay sex is easy to find and that "why would I pay when I can get for free?" Bullshit. (Im not getting on you Lexie, but I've been told this and you're right). No its not as easy. There's been many times I wanted a hot guy right that moment, and didnt end up getting one. Most of the people I meet look nothing like myself. Meaning...that what are the chances of a 40's something guy going home with a 20's something stud at the end of the night? Miniscule! Not that the 40's something guy isnt attractive because I have meet PLENTY of attractive 40's something clients. But, the fact is, most gay guys are pretentious and play games just like everyone else, and its just so much easier to find someone who's working to do the job. No strings attached.


stvn

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Re: new to this
« Reply #7 on: 31 December 2008, 09:53:31 am »
sorry never got back to you last night and im straight guy in glasgow and thanks for the help
« Last Edit: 31 December 2008, 10:27:18 am by stvn »

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« Reply #8 on: 31 December 2008, 11:31:39 am »
Hi Stvn

*sighs* have a read of this. And don't get your hopes up too much I'm afraid  :(

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=290.0

xxx


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« Reply #9 on: 04 January 2009, 12:58:52 pm »
In the UK at least, agism is rife in the gay scene. A lot of young guys won't shag older guys no matter how sexy they are. Also it's one thing being able to find sex (which I do think is easy, god knows I have been a slapper in the past!), but as Joey says, it's another to be able to find sex with a really hot young guy when you might be a little plain or a little older. A lot of guys also want intimacy, like the kissing and cuddling and the tenderness you get from a boyfriend. This is obviously something you can't pick up in Kings Cross toilets ;)
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ray487

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Re: new to this
« Reply #10 on: 04 January 2009, 10:20:42 pm »
so how do i become an escort i am new to this and what site is the best as i do not want to get riped off or scamedplease anyone help

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« Reply #11 on: 05 January 2009, 12:30:52 am »
so how do i become an escort i am new to this and what site is the best as i do not want to get riped off or scamedplease anyone help

Are you gay?
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
"if" - Rudyard Kipling

ray487

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Re: new to this
« Reply #12 on: 05 January 2009, 12:19:31 pm »
i am a bi male

lexienight

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« Reply #13 on: 05 January 2009, 07:40:57 pm »
Then just have a really good read through the site and all your questions will be answered.  And dont give anyone any money up front and you wont get scammed.

Good luck.