Author Topic: Punter yelled at me in the street (Read 5466 times)

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #15 on:** 07 August 2016, 08:43:09 am »

I think he will have come across to everyone who heard him (not sure if they were with you as a group or just random onlookers) that he's a total wingnut, I mean who the hell shouts "I WANT TO DRINK YOUR PISS!" in the street unless either very drunk, high, or seriously mentally unbalanced?

I would not message him as it would probably just let him know he had got to you. Silence is the way to go. And block him, if you haven't already.

MsDee · « **Reply #16 on:** 07 August 2016, 09:19:21 am »

I would just ignore and continue walking.

ChloeClouds · « **Reply #17 on:** 07 August 2016, 09:21:04 am »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 07 August 2016, 08:43:09 am

I think he will have come across to everyone who heard him (not sure if they were with you as a group or just random onlookers) that he's a total wingnut, I mean who the hell shouts "I WANT TO DRINK YOUR PISS!" in the street unless either very drunk, high, or seriously mentally unbalanced?

I would not message him as it would probably just let him know he had got to you. Silence is the way to go. And block him, if you haven't already.

I agree with this completely! Out of the two of you the one that people are going to look at in the street is him, he's stood there shouting about how he likes to drink piss

Not really the norm, I bet people just presumed he was off his head... I wouldn't think to much into it. As everyones said here, the best thing you can do is just walk on by and ignore as if you don't have a clue.

trashbaby · « **Reply #18 on:** 07 August 2016, 11:04:55 am »

Really not enjoying the ableist language in this thread, guys. There's already a lot of stigma around mental illness. This guy clearly is a complete arsehole but can we please not keep saying hes a 'lunatic' and 'mentally unbalanced', many (many, many) of us are what people would call 'mentally unbalanced' but that doesn't mean we would go around abusing people in the street.

LadyOfTheNight · « **Reply #19 on:** 07 August 2016, 11:17:42 am »

Quote from: trashbaby on 07 August 2016, 11:04:55 am

Really not enjoying the ableist language in this thread, guys. There's already a lot of stigma around mental illness. This guy clearly is a complete arsehole but can we please not keep saying hes a 'lunatic' and 'mentally unbalanced', many (many, many) of us are what people would call 'mentally unbalanced' but that doesn't mean we would go around abusing people in the street.

+1 he's an indiscreet dickhead but that's something else altogether.

Block immediately!

The_Lynx · « **Reply #20 on:** 07 August 2016, 11:40:16 am »

Quote from: trashbaby on 07 August 2016, 11:04:55 am

Really not enjoying the ableist language in this thread, guys. There's already a lot of stigma around mental illness. This guy clearly is a complete arsehole but can we please not keep saying hes a 'lunatic' and 'mentally unbalanced', many (many, many) of us are what people would call 'mentally unbalanced' but that doesn't mean we would go around abusing people in the street.

Thirded. It gets pretty tiresome to have everything questionable filed under either "mental illness" or "personality disorder".

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #21 on:** 07 August 2016, 11:54:32 am »

Apologies for any offense caused. Out of interest what would you prefer people use as a phrase when referring to someone acting like this?

I have mental health problems, BTW, as do several close members of my family. We tend to refer to ourselves as "mentalists" But I recognise reclaiming language isn't everyone's cup of tea.

amy · « **Reply #22 on:** 07 August 2016, 12:01:29 pm »

Does anybody actually think this is in any way useful to the OP?

Take it to PM, please. If it wasn't important enough to use the report button, it's not important enough to derail a thread with.

Une_Grande_Horizontale · « **Reply #23 on:** 07 August 2016, 01:59:01 pm »

I would say ignoring him and not initiating any conversation would be best. You said you live in a central part of town, so you can bump into him again. Maybe if you deny any occurrence of the event, he will start believing that he spoke to the wrong person? Otherwise, if you write to him and acknowledge what happened, he'll know it's you, and he'll know he upset you, so he might try again in the future.

Jill · « **Reply #24 on:** 07 August 2016, 03:24:40 pm »

Small consolation I know but at least the stupid man does not have the OP's address. It could have been so much worse.
A client I used to see once passed me in the train station and I hoped he would just nod a smile and move on. No, he decided it was a good time to stop and tell me he was thinking of booking me again soon. I don't think anyone heard but he should not have done that.
I decided he was too indiscreet and avoided booking him for months then he disappeared, probably gave up on me thank goodness.

To be abused like the op in the street must have been so humiliating whether she was alone or not. I would not name the man as mental or anything like that but a word I happily use is scum.

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #25 on:** 07 August 2016, 03:39:26 pm »

Some times men don't think or care for others. It was uncalled for. The client needs to lean the discreet code. Maybe publish a book?. They need educating. But escorting attracts a few loud mouths. They will do whatever regardless.

barbie88 · « **Reply #26 on:** 07 August 2016, 04:18:46 pm »

Hi Hun I had this happen to me a few years ago while I was walking threw the busy city I lived in . I stopped to talk to this lady I bumped into and this guy was hanging around staring at me then when I said good bye he followed me threw the city abit then said excuse me been trying to book you do you anal ? well I could of died I kept walking and he went away . He then sent me a text saying some thing like was nice to see you earlier but do you do anal . I blocker him I was so annoyed he clearly didn't care bout the word discrete .

I really wouldn't get into any conversation with him Hun just block him . I know it's awful and you don't know where to turn to but I really think you should just block him Hun and chin up .

Esme1994 · « **Reply #27 on:** 07 August 2016, 07:59:50 pm »

I think don't give him any response, that's what he wants. Just block and ignore. Hopefully you won't see him again.

newbieNW · « **Reply #28 on:** 07 August 2016, 08:38:25 pm »

My greatest fear is to be recognized at public places, supermarket, shops, at civvie work. If OP lives in a small place, you are likely to be noticed due to the size but if you live in a big place and this happened, it's a sheer bad luck! That's one of the reasons why I dislike seeing punters from nearby. If they took dislike of you...they know where to find you.. This guy didn't but he managed to spot you in the street

still pretty dire.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #29 on:** 07 August 2016, 09:30:40 pm »

I've seen a few clients out in public and they have all been discreet as have I, one guy as sitting with his wife in the same pub as me, he looked nervous for some reason! X

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