I live very central in my town and I was walking along, near where I live, when some guy stopped and yelled "I know you! From Adultwork! Im the guy who wanted to come over and drink your piss!" - then he walked off.
Im so angry I can't think straight. I know who he is and I refused bookings with him because I don't do 15 minute bookings. He seemed weird in the street, and now Im fuming. I'm not scared, but I don't ever want him to talk to me again on AW or if he sees ne around. I can't believe he thought it was acceptable. It was in front of a big group of people as well.
Do I message him and tell him?
I don;'t want any responses of "what a dick" or whatever. I know he's an asshole and it's shitty. I just want advice, do I email him and tell him it's unacceptable? Men have recognized me before but had the manners to say nothing and just email me instead saying "Saw you in so and so today" - which is invasive but harmless. I am fuming. What do I say?

I have no doubt that he knows that was unacceptable behaviour. I should imagine it's his way of getting revenge on being 'rejected'. I think he would take great pleasure in getting a response from you, especially knowing that he has pissed you off! My advice is to block him on AW.

I'd just block and ignore any contact that he makes.

I'm pretty sure he knows what he did was out of order.Best thing you can do now is to not give him the response he is probably hoping for which is knowing that he upset you.That's what he did this for in the first place.

Definitely this, but I also know stuff like this can be very frightening, as well as disappointing. He's also just outed himself.

That's not the point, punters shouldn't shout out to us in the street jut as we shouldn't at punters if we see them.

I agree but isn't this an example of how it's best to keep anonymous on AW. It's not worth being recognised by knob heads like him x

I agree but isn't this an example of how it's best to keep anonymous on AW. It's not worth being recognised by knob heads like him x

No, it isn't. Turning the blame on the OP because somebody who's obviously not right in the head behaves in such an appalling manner isn't appropriate or helpful in the slightest.

People who are that obsessed with your Adultwork profile will recognise you whether you show your face or not, and nobody else will even know what it is. The people in the group of onlookers the OP mentioned more than likely had absolutely no idea what he ws talking about and will have had him pinned as some random nutter, which he is.

Just because some of us are convinced that everybody in the universe is out to get us doesn't make it true. Most people aren't interested in anybody except themselves - I've walked past extremely famous people in the street before and not noticed until somebody else has pointed it out and I don't believe for a second that somebody who had just skimmed over my ads a couple of times would immediately pinpoint me walking past the bus stop.

 

This person is obviously mentally unbalanced, you don't want to engage with a lunatic. Block and ignore.