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Rosenrot

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Re: Punter walks out after cumming claiming it’s awkward
« Reply #30 on: 30 July 2019, 01:10:20 am »
So, would to be a better solution sitting there in complete total painful silence? He had zero intention to talk, to cuddle or watch tv with me. Anything that would help pass the time comfortably. Claimed he wants a second pop, so I grafted on and on only to see his cock being now completely unresponsive. I’ve tried many things before eventually suggesting to cut it shorter.

Glad that’s over. Ugh.

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Re: Punter walks out after cumming claiming it’s awkward
« Reply #31 on: 30 July 2019, 01:16:40 am »
So, would to be a better solution sitting there in complete total painful silence? He had zero intention to talk, to cuddle or watch tv with me. Anything that would help pass the time comfortably. Claimed he wants a second pop, so I grafted on and on only to see his cock being now completely unresponsive. I’ve tried many things before eventually suggesting to cut it shorter.

Glad that’s over. Ugh.

Nope, I hear ya. I know just the type of situation you describe and you did exactly what I would of done.

As I explained earlier in the thread, others just deal with things differently and have different priorities.

I would be retired by now if my sole priority was the money and sometimes I wish I could be like that but I’m not and I never have been, it makes me grossly unpopular 😆🙈

My number one priority is feeling comfortable with the person and the situation.
« Last Edit: 30 July 2019, 01:19:49 am by Sophia x »

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Re: Punter walks out after cumming claiming it’s awkward
« Reply #32 on: 30 July 2019, 05:52:04 pm »
Nobody wants loss of income, we’re not here to lose income. We’re here to make money.

But she clearly felt that uncomfortable that she couldn’t stand another minute of it and was willing to lose the income.

And it should be a given that we want to be with someone we get on with but as I previously said, some people maybe have other priorities and are excellent at focusing solely on the money.

If a client is asked to leave and been given money back, there’s a reason for it.

We’re here to make money, it’s not in our best interests to turn their business away  so when I do personally, there’s good reason for it.

It’s clear you’d deal with a situation like that differently and hats off to you but I guess that’s what makes us all different.

Yes I find I can get on with a range of people, in my non-sex work life I'm trained to be comfortable with silences and be with people who can't or don't make eye contact.

I used to feel awkward now I try to understand it.

I also understand there are members here who like different types of booking, different types of client. Others here have influenced my thinking during booking types I used to find difficult  I'm a lot happier as a result.

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Re: Punter walks out after cumming claiming it’s awkward
« Reply #33 on: 30 July 2019, 06:27:03 pm »
So, would to be a better solution sitting there in complete total painful silence? He had zero intention to talk, to cuddle or watch tv with me. Anything that would help pass the time comfortably. Claimed he wants a second pop, so I grafted on and on only to see his cock being now completely unresponsive. I’ve tried many things before eventually suggesting to cut it shorter.

At £2+ per minute, I'd happily sit in silence although I wouldn't see anybody like that again. I wouldn't put a TV on so I'd just listen to my playlist until finish time :).

Glad that’s over. Ugh.

Exactly. I've had civvy jobs where I loathed the people I had to spend time with and I had to go home knowing I'd have to do it all again the next day. It's just a bad match and nobody can be all things to all punters - everybody here must have had some excruciating bookings over the years, but thankfully the good ones cancel out the bad. And it never hurts to be reminded that feedback is completely meaningless, so it served some useful purpose if nothing else :D.

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Re: Punter walks out after cumming claiming it’s awkward
« Reply #34 on: 30 July 2019, 07:37:49 pm »
Girl if I was you I would of been buzzing it happend that quick and would of just watched tv with him lmao , hes not just paying for sex hes paying for your time and if he wants to use that time watching tv I'll happily start munching away and watch love island with him haha ;D
Watching Love Island is punishment enough! ;D