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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: luciefate on 17 October 2014, 12:14:07 am

Title: PSE and GFE
Post by: luciefate on 17 October 2014, 12:14:07 am
Technically, what are the differences between the two?

Because I offer anal, a client said it was a PSE I was offering and I said I was more of a GFE as I kiss, touch etc. He wasn't being unkind, just commenting that he thought anal was PSE. He's delighted! He's my first client tomorrow morning and I'm just curious what the main differences are.

Blimey, maybe I'm PSE and I don't know it  ;D
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: Kay on 17 October 2014, 12:49:40 am
There's another recent thread that touches on this, and we agreed that PSE was difficult to define!

My own take is...

GFE = a lot of kissing, stroking, cuddling and 'normal' sex (probably not anal), i.e. vanilla and with the idea of being friendly, warm and intimate
PSE = anal, deepthroat, CIM, facials, ATM etc. and generally rougher, more no holes barred type of thing
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: xw5 on 17 October 2014, 01:13:07 am
Both are just marketing crap. As long as you're clear what you are offering, who (worth seeing) cares about which three letter acronym is used?

Anyone expecting that A2M will be available at anyone describing themselves as offering PSE is setting themselves up for disappointment...
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: xCara on 18 October 2014, 12:54:20 am
My take on it

PSE is fucking
GFE is making love
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: Luscious Leah on 18 October 2014, 01:01:07 am

Making love? With a client?
 ???
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: xCara on 18 October 2014, 01:30:13 am
I mean does the client wanna fuck it make love, all the same to me
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: Lady_Lust_XXX on 18 October 2014, 02:33:37 am
I've always looked on GFE as tender seductive shagging with kissing and caressing.  PSE IMO is more going at it hammer and tong for the duration of the booking  :FF
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: luciefate on 18 October 2014, 09:49:14 am
Yes, LL, I agree, which is why I didn't enjoy the client. He wanted constant rough shagging and I stopped him several times!!

He was also a boundary pusher (I've written about this is another thread) and I was knackered afterwards so needless to say I'm delighted he lives in London and I won't be seeing him again!! It's just NOT my thing plus it bloody hurts. My fanny felt botoxed afterwards!!! Rofl x
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: Diva_Gina on 18 October 2014, 12:58:27 pm
I am borderline, but I class myself as a filthy GFE!  no way I would do A2M, but I do offer anal (at discretion - I refused one guy last week but let another), I will do OWO and CIM (again at discretion).  I do like quite raunchy fucking but not for the whole appt, I only want the tender stuff with my husband.
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: TheLittleMatchGirl on 18 October 2014, 12:59:38 pm
I wouldn't say pse = rough, no one (unless that's what you want to do) needs to take that shit to fulfill a certain style of booking.
Title: Re: PSE and GFE
Post by: TheLittleMatchGirl on 18 October 2014, 01:02:21 pm

Anyone expecting that A2M will be available at anyone describing themselves as offering PSE is setting themselves up for disappointment...

Totally agree with this, look how differently we all define PSE & GFE, clients will have their own too, best to communicate properly, sod the acronyms that are just wide open to misinterpretation