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Title: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss Molly on 02 March 2015, 12:20:30 pm
I offer Gfe as basic ... I also offer pse but charge extra for this as I feel it more draining now question is I also offer anal and at the moment charge extra for Anal but should anal be included in pse anyway? Should I be charging extra for it when they book pse? I do offer a combination of pse and anal discounted ontop of hourly rate though. Same as Gfe if they wanted Anal they'd have to pay extra for it but Gfe isn't as demanding as pse which is why I charge more for pse experience regardless of anal.... Hope you understand what I mean I guess I'm just wondering if I'm asking too much to pay extra for pse as I'd say 99% of my clients want it and it's bloody hard work  :-\
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: xw5 on 02 March 2015, 12:31:53 pm
As with GFE, PSE is an almost meaningless marketing acronym.

Whether anal is available, and if it is, whether or not you charge more for it, is entirely up to you.

If what you offer as 'PSE' is "bloody hard work", it sounds like you want to charge rather more for it than the other bookings.

No matter how much you charge, too many "bloody hard work" bookings usually leads to problems one way or another.
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss Molly on 02 March 2015, 12:46:04 pm
Pse Definatly takes more of a performance and I used to offer it for the same price as Gfe but then as bookings after booking went on I started to think that it's too draining to do this all the time with no extra compensation ... I am still mostly doing pse I'd say 99% but last week was quiet and I'm now worried they expect pse for same rate as Gfe regardless of the extra charge for anal  :-\  I charge ?130 for an hour Gfe ... Pse is extra ?30 anal extra ?30 but both combined for ?40 making it ?170 for pse with anal... Gfe with anal is ?160....  is this too expensive?? I know it's what I value me at but still. I know no one can tell me what to charge just want opinions. Thanks
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Lady_Lust_XXX on 02 March 2015, 12:50:21 pm
As the saying goes ~ Good Golly! Miss Molly!

Explaining all that you have put in your posts would mentally drain me.  Working out how much each booking costs would too.

Im a Keep It Simple Stupid or KISS person. 
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss Molly on 02 March 2015, 12:56:07 pm
Lol lady lust that's my problem I overthink too much .... I don't want to be too cheap offering the pse for same price as Gfe just bc it is more work my clients that want pse do want proper pse not a watered down version of it which I don't mind but don't want to out price myself either .... I think I will see how next few weeks go now we are into March
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Kay on 02 March 2015, 01:21:21 pm
Could you not just charge a higher flat rate but with everything included?
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: ParisB on 02 March 2015, 01:25:16 pm
 what counts as PSE is it exclusively having anal

Or is it Cim /owo

What makes something GFE

Genuinely interested as I do everything apart from anal/Watersports and always say its GFE

 

Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: xw5 on 02 March 2015, 01:38:16 pm
As with GFE, PSE is an almost meaningless marketing acronym.

 ;D
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Aqua Allegoria on 02 March 2015, 01:59:51 pm
Pse Definatly takes more of a performance and I used to offer it for the same price as Gfe but then as bookings after booking went on I started to think that it's too draining to do this all the time with no extra compensation ... I am still mostly doing pse I'd say 99% but last week was quiet and I'm now worried they expect pse for same rate as Gfe regardless of the extra charge for anal  :-\  I charge ?130 for an hour Gfe ... Pse is extra ?30 anal extra ?30 but both combined for ?40 making it ?170 for pse with anal... Gfe with anal is ?160....  is this too expensive?? I know it's what I value me at but still. I know no one can tell me what to charge just want opinions. Thanks

I might be post grad but I don't get a word of what you're saying:))))
My point is so when you're taking a booking on the phone do you have to go through all the options and tick the boxes and then give the client the "total"??? A+B+C=xxx Must be a bit weird...
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss Molly on 02 March 2015, 02:03:46 pm
I could charge higher flat rate i suppose but then I get very little Gfe anyway just don't want charge so much I bite my own nose of to spite my face lol it's hard to know really what pse is it varies from person to person but it's definatly different from Gfe which clients have described to me as more sensual not kinky stroking touching plenty of kissing etc suppose anal could b thrown into Gfe if it a sensual spooning n stroking scenerio lol gawd.... Pse they always want it harder filthier me talking dirty them calling me a dirty bitch loads dirty eye contact if that makes sense lol water sports etc and cim I don't offer but then plenty porn stars don't offer anal and they still porn stars .... Rambling now lol I'll shut up ... I think I'll see what week brings at charges I have at moment  :-X
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss Molly on 02 March 2015, 02:11:08 pm
Sorry yes confusing Lol Gfe is ?130 for the hour if they want anal with that it's an extra ?40 so would cost ?170
   
If they wanted pse i charge ?40 for pse so adding that to ?130 hourly rate is ?170

However if they want pse with anal instead of me adding the ?80 to ?130 I offer them both together for ?60 so I add that to ?130 and it equals ?190

I used to charge ?130 Gfe and pse with extra ?20 for anal and with how much harder work the pse and anal is I thought ?150 just not enough if rather do Gfe for ?20 less but then most my clients want pse so if u decided no to offer pse I'd have next to no clients :/
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss K xXx on 02 March 2015, 02:17:01 pm
Pse Definatly takes more of a performance and I used to offer it for the same price as Gfe but then as bookings after booking went on I started to think that it's too draining to do this all the time with no extra compensation ... I am still mostly doing pse I'd say 99% but last week was quiet and I'm now worried they expect pse for same rate as Gfe regardless of the extra charge for anal  :-\  I charge ?130 for an hour Gfe ... Pse is extra ?30 anal extra ?30 but both combined for ?40 making it ?170 for pse with anal... Gfe with anal is ?160....  is this too expensive?? I know it's what I value me at but still. I know no one can tell me what to charge just want opinions. Thanks

It's not really for us to say what is too expensive and what isn't as it's completely up to you however, I will say.......clients HATE extra charges, they just wanna see 1 price all inclusive of what you advertise.

If you want to have 1 price for GFE and another for PSE, fine but I wouldn't have those 2 separate prices PLUS extra charges. It becomes a clusterfuck.

If you have GFE and PSE completely separate, then why include Anal in GFE? I would have thought that would have been a PSE thing?

xx
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Aqua Allegoria on 02 March 2015, 02:18:04 pm
Sorry yes confusing Lol Gfe is ?130 for the hour if they want anal with that it's an extra ?40 so would cost ?170
   
If they wanted pse i charge ?40 for pse so adding that to ?130 hourly rate is ?170

However if they want pse with anal instead of me adding the ?80 to ?130 I offer them both together for ?60 so I add that to ?130 and it equals ?190

I used to charge ?130 Gfe and pse with extra ?20 for anal and with how much harder work the pse and anal is I thought ?150 just not enough if rather do Gfe for ?20 less but then most my clients want pse so if u decided no to offer pse I'd have next to no clients :/

So you upgrade from GFE to PSE and then add anal on the top of it all?

I find it way too confusing but it's not important. As long as your clients understand the way you charge it's all that matters.
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss K xXx on 02 March 2015, 02:31:19 pm
Yeah that's the way I read it.

In my opinion, if your going to have 2 separate prices then that's generally confusing enough.....we're taking about horny men here and even we're struggling to make head nor tail of your pricing structure but if your upgrading from GFE to PSE then there should be no added extras.

Most ladies advertise a list of services and come up with a price, some charge a bit extra for anal and I think most guys expect that to be the case as anal takes a lot of preparation but with you having 2 sets of prices PLUS extras.....it just seems a bit much and will put a lot of guys off.

It's like anything in life, you wanna buy something......you just want a price, no fannying about.

xx
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss Molly on 02 March 2015, 02:44:55 pm
Thanks opinions greatly thanks all opinions greatly appreciated reading back I think it's too complicated it mean I get it but for a guy just wanting to get laid too much fannying about lol I'll have a think n put a set price up n just charge extra for anal then x makes more sense
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: mature helen on 02 March 2015, 02:59:12 pm
To solve this I wouldn't offer anal with the GFE and for that I'd charge ?130
If the client wants anal it would then becomes a PSE and I'd charge him ?170
Flat fee for both services with no extras.
Adding extras confuses them IMO.
Two services with two clear prices.
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: chloinnyc on 04 March 2015, 01:01:27 am
I'm in the US so it may be different, but all the girls I know charge extra for anal on top of whatever their normal fee is.  And GFE/PSE typically charges the same rate (unless it's an actual porn star, then they charge absolutely insane rates haha).  I do GFE and not PSE just b/c, like you said, PSE is incredibly demanding and just too rough for me, but I charge the same rates as the girls who offer PSE.  Then anal is an extra $50, and most girls I know charge an extra $100 but I actually enjoy anal and love when a client wants it so charging a bit less is kind of an incentive :-) 

Do you feel like you have to offer PSE to remain competitive?  It sounds like you dread it and so many guys love the intimacy aspect of GFE.  Maybe you don't have to have a PSE option?  There are so many gray areas with these acronyms, too.  You could be GFE but still include certain PSE aspects that you're comfortable with as a nice surprise without advertising them and feeling like you have to do full PSE.
Title: Re: Pse and anal as extra ????
Post by: Miss Molly on 04 March 2015, 07:39:44 pm
I actually prefer the pse to be honest so no I don't dread it ... It's just when it's constant pse after pse I kinda think I'd love a few nice wee "easy" Gfe ones. That's why I thought charge extra cos it's harder on me them wanting it harder etc. However when I sat and actually thought it through it's just as hard to be all girlfriendly with some bloke I don't even remotely fancy so have decided I do actual prefer the pse bookings and have just changed the price one flat rate for them both and extra for anal obviously :) think I was over complicating things... Thanks all :)