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Title: Oral with or without condom [was: Protection]
Post by: Jess4000 on 06 March 2025, 07:35:54 am
Hi I've been working as an independent escort for about a year. I don't ever get to meet/chat to other escorts unfortunately. I'm curious about what other escorts do regarding protection/no protection for oral sex? Has anyone found that it is harder to get clients if they are offering oral sex with protection only? Thanks in advance for any input x


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Title: Re: Oral with or without condom [was: Protection]
Post by: amy on 06 March 2025, 09:58:45 am
No, I don't offer any unprotected services and have no trouble getting work. Plenty don't want OWO and are a bit squeamish about people who do it with others, and the majority don't really care one way or the other if they want to see you - they're still getting a blowjob after all :)
Title: Re: Oral with or without condom [was: Protection]
Post by: Dani The Masseuse on 06 March 2025, 02:52:14 pm
Hi I've been working as an independent escort for about a year. I don't ever get to meet/chat to other escorts unfortunately. I'm curious about what other escorts do regarding protection/no protection for oral sex? Has anyone found that it is harder to get clients if they are offering oral sex with protection only? Thanks in advance for any input x


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I never used to. I was strict about it too.  Now I don't mind. If they want the condom on , they'll let you know.
Title: Re: Oral with or without condom [was: Protection]
Post by: SiberianFox on 07 March 2025, 01:36:41 pm
With owo there are different type of clients:
Type 1- owo is a dealbreaker for him, has very specific service requirement's- they won’t see you if you don’t offer  x y and z
Type 2- keen on owo but not a dealbreaker, will still see you because you are his type, and the service you provide is an afterthought
Type 3- will see you BECAUSE you don’t offer owo, often doesn’t want kissing either, there for a sexual release in a clinical setting

I don’t deal with type1 at all, i don’t offer owo and I feel like my clients are there for me, not my service which is my preferred way of working
Title: Re: Oral with or without condom [was: Protection]
Post by: Dani The Masseuse on 07 March 2025, 04:19:11 pm
With owo there are different type of clients:
Type 1- owo is a dealbreaker for him, has very specific service requirement's- they won’t see you if you don’t offer  x y and z
Type 2- keen on owo but not a dealbreaker, will still see you because you are his type, and the service you provide is an afterthought
Type 3- will see you BECAUSE you don’t offer owo, often doesn’t want kissing either, there for a sexual release in a clinical setting

I don’t deal with type1 at all, i don’t offer owo and I feel like my clients are there for me, not my service which is my preferred way of working
We all work the way we want to. I would never do anal. In fact, I rarely have sex. But we all do what we're comfortable with and men see everybody, despite their protestations to the contrary. 
Title: Re: Oral with or without condom [was: Protection]
Post by: Jess4000 on 07 March 2025, 07:46:16 pm
Thanks everyone for the input. Much appreciated 🙏
Title: Re: Oral with or without condom [was: Protection]
Post by: amy on 07 March 2025, 08:32:15 pm
We all work the way we want to. I would never do anal. In fact, I rarely have sex. But we all do what we're comfortable with and men see everybody, despite their protestations to the contrary.

Exactly - I do anal, but I don't do RO or OWO. Provided your ads are crystal clear about what's on offer and what isn't then punters can make their own minds up.

And neither my flat nor my service is in any way 'clinical' 🤣