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Prostitution in the digital world
« on: 27 March 2024, 03:16:56 pm »
Hi

This may well have been covered before but with there being more bank branch closures and a move to things becoming more digital, how do you feel about where this leaves the future of our line of work?

I know some girls already do digital transactions but I hate the growing reliance on technology for other aspects of life as it is.

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« Reply #1 on: 29 March 2024, 06:00:48 pm »
I'd be quite happy to take online payments or bank transfers if there was a fully bombproof way to do it, so proper anonymity for both parties if preferred, no chargebacks and no twattery from banks. Having to traipse to the bank most days is a pain in the arse, cash is a target for robbers and I only really use it for grocery shopping.

Until things change though, cash it is.

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« Reply #2 on: 30 March 2024, 09:35:50 pm »
In response to what you are saying, I was actually thinking of offering cryptocurrency payments for deposits mainly as that might me more secure/ anonymous as opposed to bank transfers. Wondering if anyone here is already doing that?

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« Reply #3 on: 30 March 2024, 10:57:46 pm »
To add to the above, I've had to go to three banks (in three different parts of London) today just to find one with a working ATM so I could bank my cash; it could have been six but three of the branches I previously used are shut.

It's a Bank Holiday weekend and also the end of the month, so I need my money in as my bills go out on the first and I have to pay my salary. Absolute pain in the arse.

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Re: Prostitution in the digital world
« Reply #4 on: 31 March 2024, 05:54:34 am »
I am sure we wil adapt.

I can't envisiage how escorting worked before the internet, street corners aren't for me and Newspaper add, how effective were they?

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Re: Prostitution in the digital world
« Reply #5 on: 31 March 2024, 07:40:33 am »
Hi

This may well have been covered before but with there being more bank branch closures and a move to things becoming more digital, how do you feel about where this leaves the future of our line of work?

I know some girls already do digital transactions but I hate the growing reliance on technology for other aspects of life as it is.

Same I try to pay cash wherever  if a place doesn’t take cash I will generally walk away
And surprisingly a lot of hotels take still cash
My last 3 hotels stays  happily  took  cash
And on my 3 week tour in Jan 3 out of 5 hotels took cash

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Re: Prostitution in the digital world
« Reply #6 on: 31 March 2024, 07:41:58 am »
I'd be quite happy to take online payments or bank transfers if there was a fully bombproof way to do it, so proper anonymity for both parties if preferred, no chargebacks and no twattery from banks. Having to traipse to the bank most days is a pain in the arse, cash is a target for robbers and I only really use it for grocery shopping.

Until things change though, cash it is.

Wish hush & wishlist don’t allow chargeback and if it’s only small deposits then the fee is 50p or £1 on a 20 transaction

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Re: Prostitution in the digital world
« Reply #7 on: 31 March 2024, 01:10:26 pm »
Wish hush & wishlist don’t allow chargeback and if it’s only small deposits then the fee is 50p or £1 on a 20 transaction

I have a wishlist page already, although I've never used it. I'd rather have the money straight into my bank account than faff with some third party site, but I ought to give it a go - I don't take deposits so we're talking about full fees here.

I ordered my new glasses yesterday (£300 for varifocals) and in the opticians they asked if I wanted to pay cash or card which was unusual but made a nice change. I assume they ask everybody because I'd come straight from decorating and definitely didn't look like I would have it on me ;D

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« Reply #8 on: 31 March 2024, 02:03:23 pm »
The problem with online is it can be reversed. If that started happening all the time the bank would surely not be happy.

I had a problem with a fast payment a client had raised a form and tried to get the money back. He told the bank he sent it by mistake as he works for an agency of some kind. I told the bank I was a masseause and he has had the service and luckily I got to keep it. But can only imagine if this was done regularly would probably loose my business account.

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« Reply #9 on: 31 March 2024, 06:56:20 pm »
Wishlist apparently have announced today the loss of their payment processor (stripe).

I do identify with the issues, when branches close they remove the cash machine. There are less and less within travelling distance for me, and cash flow becomes a problem I need it in the bank. I often schedule in a bank visit around outcalls if I can, or combine with a trip to do other things. Last year went to a famous arts festival, told the person who I went with "I have to get to a bank before we do anything else". The teller did actually point out my ISA needed adjusting to a better one, I don't think they tell you these things in apps.

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« Reply #10 on: 01 April 2024, 07:54:36 am »

It’s always cash for me. Sometimes I accept PayPal which has worked fine, especially if I ask for a deposit. Paying cash for groceries isn’t a problem but obviously hotels and rent is a no no.

A friend to me about an app called CashApp. I haven’t had time to try it yet.

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« Reply #11 on: 01 April 2024, 12:03:43 pm »
It’s always cash for me. Sometimes I accept PayPal which has worked fine, especially if I ask for a deposit. Paying cash for groceries isn’t a problem but obviously hotels and rent is a no no.

A friend to me about an app called CashApp. I haven’t had time to try it yet.

Cashapp brought in very low limits for UK users last year, it's pretty much unusable now in the UK unless something has changed.

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« Reply #12 on: 01 April 2024, 01:59:23 pm »
Cashapp brought in very low limits for UK users last year, it's pretty much unusable now in the UK unless something has changed.

Thanks for letting me know. I won’t waste my time with that then x

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« Reply #13 on: 01 April 2024, 02:26:26 pm »
Thanks for letting me know. I won’t waste my time with that then x

I'd avoid PayPal in future too, even if you've been lucky so far. They hate us (most US banks are similar, because prostitution is illegal there) and they'll freeze your account and take all the money back if they catch you out.

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Re: Prostitution in the digital world
« Reply #14 on: 01 April 2024, 03:17:15 pm »
Thanks for letting me know. I won’t waste my time with that then x

Some seem to still use it, but the limits are;

Per month
£200 in
£200 out

Max £500 account balance at any time

I used it for a month or so, worked well but then had to wait a month to get £10 remaining from a £210 balance.

I also noticed clients will randomly send money by whatever method they've used previously, without checking so I would be concerned you could easily exceed the balance or receive more than you can cash out.

And if being used to pay for a real life booking the in/out limit is only a 1 hour, or 90 minutes booking, perhaps 2 or 3 half hours and that's your lot.