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HappyFlower

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How do you kill time during long bookings?
« on: 30 September 2023, 07:17:29 pm »
Hi everyone. I'm currently finding it dead boring to do long bookings. I usually have a bit of chat with the clients to kill some time but it doesn't always work. I do foreplay for at least 15minutes straight and tease them a little to stall sex for as long as possible. Any suggestions? Anything else you do to kill time? Any recommendations on chat topics with clients other than personal topics? Thanks xx

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #1 on: 01 October 2023, 05:17:50 pm »
I suppose it depends on how long the bookings are ???

Have refreshments, tea coffee etc. Listen to music. Watch a video. Read magazines ?

Give each other massage ?

Or don't do long bookings !

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #2 on: 01 October 2023, 05:40:42 pm »
I save the chat for after, find that most guys just want to get into it. I'd be aiming for at least 25 minutes of foreplay though, if not half hour plus. Then about 10 minutes of shagging. Then I ask what they're up to for the rest of the day, usually gives something to riff off.

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #3 on: 01 October 2023, 08:02:04 pm »
How long is a long booking to you though? 3 hours plus do you mean or only a hour?

I prefer long bookings as more money less clients to see but usually i do chats about anything and see how friendly they are to what we chat about and do massages on them and try to get them to massage me. Also have a snack and snack if it's 2 hours plus.

It always surprises me when so many women say they love this job and seeing all different types of men but hate doing anything more than 30 mins in a booking. I thought if they were really comfortable doing it and liking the sex they would be cool doing longer but maybe it's the act a lot cannot keep up and the whole experience takes it out of them mentally and physically.

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #4 on: 01 October 2023, 08:21:26 pm »
How long is a long booking to you though? 3 hours plus do you mean or only a hour?

A long booking to me is anything over an hour, but I agree that everybody is different - the OP could be talking about overmights for all we know.

I thought if they were really comfortable doing it and liking the sex they would be cool doing longer

Well every day's a school day, isn't it? :)

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #5 on: 01 October 2023, 11:10:42 pm »
I can usually chat about anything, you just have to find the right subject with some people.

Also i have one client I’ve been seeing for quite awhile and we never talk apart from a few words. It’s an unspoken rule.

Everyone is different, and to be honest i do prefer longer bookings and seeing less people.

English Green

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #6 on: 02 October 2023, 12:32:43 pm »
I can usually chat about anything, you just have to find the right subject with some people.

Also i have one client I’ve been seeing for quite awhile and we never talk apart from a few words. It’s an unspoken rule.

Everyone is different, and to be honest i do prefer longer bookings and seeing less people.

Me too i find if the client is putting out he is friendly and out going i can talk about anything and relax more. The problem is everyone is different and some clients are moody in the booking and barely say anything and to me that is a awful booking. Seeing less people for longer bookings i would prefer all the time. Less clients equals less risk for me and more money.

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #7 on: 02 October 2023, 01:13:28 pm »
Maybe it's just me but I don't feel like guys are paying 100's of £  just to chat for ages.
I no longer do long bookings because I found them mentally draining, maybe because I felt obliged to keep the action going for the majority of the time for the reason above.
Like Amy, I don't really like bookings of longer than an hour, that's about as long as I can feign interest in them.

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #8 on: 02 October 2023, 07:16:29 pm »
I offer a range of bookings and have discovered I do seem to do well with longer bookings with clients who like to talk.

Like fallen angel I used to think "Hang on this guy is paying a lot of money to just chat", but they told me that is what they want - sometimes they physically could not have sex for a long time, and/or wanted the intimacy, cuddling, kissing, talking. I am not going to argue with this and have some really nice bookings. I also find one hour bookings seem really short and to some extent easier because I have the stamina built from 2, 3, 4, 6, 16 hour bookings. When I say stamina I mean ability to be with the person, be with them, pay them attention.

I need to keep footfall down, almost always been that way the longer bookings are often well away from my base location with clients who are from other parts of the country so it's much better discretion-wise. Also stayed in some really nice hotels, some I would return to for personal reasons. Given I live in the sticks I try to fit in visits or use of facilities I wouldn't usually be able to access at home.

I do however appreciate shorter bookings too and can understand why they are a preference for others.

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Re: How do you kill time during long bookings?
« Reply #9 on: 03 October 2023, 12:44:33 pm »
I prefer to do three quarters of an hour maximum because I get bored otherwise. I think if I were to do an hours booking, or longer, I'd give a full body massage (15 mins) and foreplay for twenty minutes, then shag for 5-10, then chat a bit while stroking their chests lol. I find once they have offloaded, big brain takes over and they wanna leave anyway.