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Mirror

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #15 on: 24 January 2018, 10:23:27 am »
I've had my location described well enough to really narrow it down.

When I started incalls again discretion is one reason I really limit who I see, and also ask that any reviews are non-specific. By all means say it's a tip, or unsafe, or whatever if that's how you feel but please don't describe the colour of the front door, distinctive fixtures and fittings or the directions from the main road!

little-minx

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #16 on: 24 January 2018, 10:51:08 am »
Oh I'm sorry to hear this.  What is wrong with some of them.  If the shoe were on the other foot we'd have our names slagged off to the max for being indiscreet.  I had one write exactly what I was doing after I retire on the same forum.  If any of my family or friends had any idea I was doing this, that would literally be the nail in the coffin to confirm it.  I'm still convinced many of these men really don't think of us as human beings with lives and families outside of this.  As others have said would be worth dropping the admin a message and asking them to remove that part, good luck. 

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #17 on: 24 January 2018, 11:05:26 am »
I?m startung to think I should write a warning for this guy for being so bloody indiscreet. Doubt admin will remove it as I?ve previously been banned off there for sticking up for myself (god forbid)

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #18 on: 24 January 2018, 11:06:48 am »
If some other sps in my area knew what I knew about them, according to gobby clients, they would be horrified.  I sat in the introduction chat with one man last year and he obviously wanted to boast how well he knew a couple of other escorts and gave me such personal details about them and their private lives. Why?! I let him waffle on because to be honest I knew I didn't like him and as his one hour booking included the chat he was determined to have, I just thought that is less time in the bedroom.

One of the sps he was gossiping about was about to retire and marry after having money problems and this man was obviously trusted and the 2 things I thought while listening to it all was, did he say anything indiscreet about me and how many others was he telling about that other woman.

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #19 on: 24 January 2018, 11:21:06 am »
If some other sps in my area knew what I knew about them, according to gobby clients, they would be horrified.  I sat in the introduction chat with one man last year and he obviously wanted to boast how well he knew a couple of other escorts and gave me such personal details about them and their private lives. Why?! I let him waffle on because to be honest I knew I didn't like him and as his one hour booking included the chat he was determined to have, I just thought that is less time in the bedroom.

One of the sps he was gossiping about was about to retire and marry after having money problems and this man was obviously trusted and the 2 things I thought while listening to it all was, did he say anything indiscreet about me and how many others was he telling about that other woman.

I?ve had them do this with me too. The amount of Sps real names I know through clients is ridiculous

little-minx

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #20 on: 24 January 2018, 12:02:04 pm »
I?ve had them do this with me too. The amount of Sps real names I know through clients is ridiculous

I had one guy I used to see telling another girl what my "real" name was.  I've never even told him my real name and is was completely wrong.   WHY?! ::) ;D
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sammy s

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #21 on: 24 January 2018, 12:11:21 pm »
I?ve had this too. Clients telling me the life stories of their regulars, where they live etc. One was really bad for it and I ended up just having to tell him to shut up. I tell my clients (even my best regulars) compete bullshit about my real life for this very reason as I don?t trust them to not talk about me ever. I have a fake ?real name? and I tell them that my real job is something completely different to what it is.

MelissaS

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #22 on: 24 January 2018, 01:21:28 pm »
I left a client a neutral feedback on AW for going into way too much detail about my appearance on my feedback and in a field report. I said that he was clean and polite enough but didn't take my discretion very seriously so I wouldn't be seeing him again.

I sent him an email politely pointing out that he'd left some potentially revealing information about me which I'd had to request Adultwork to alter for me and he point blank ignored my email, which just lead me to believe he did it on purpose and that's why I left neutral feedback.

Unfortunately for him I was the only person who has left him feedback so far. Luckily for me though, AW altered my feedback almost immediately.

JustAnotherHooker

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Re: Indiscreet Clients
« Reply #23 on: 24 January 2018, 10:40:45 pm »
I left a client a neutral feedback on AW for going into way too much detail about my appearance on my feedback and in a field report. I said that he was clean and polite enough but didn't take my discretion very seriously so I wouldn't be seeing him again.

I sent him an email politely pointing out that he'd left some potentially revealing information about me which I'd had to request Adultwork to alter for me and he point blank ignored my email, which just lead me to believe he did it on purpose and that's why I left neutral feedback.

Unfortunately for him I was the only person who has left him feedback so far. Luckily for me though, AW altered my feedback almost immediately.
You were far to kind giving him a neutral, he deserved a negative IMO.