Author Topic: Pounding (Read 9862 times)

victoryrose · « **Reply #15 on:** 05 July 2015, 12:07:51 am »

Quote from: Miss_Fukalot on 04 July 2015, 07:50:58 pm

So far I've just taken it without complaint for fear of getting a bad review but I cried last week after an appointment. A guy with the build of a wrestler absolutely smashed me. Just couldn't go through that again.

I resonate with this so, so much.

Ultimately like everyone here says, you have to tell them to stop. I've had a couple of neutral/negative reviews and business has been the exact same, with a few actually mentioning that they were attracted to me because the reviews made it clear I am what I say (young, vanilla, etc.). Please don't put your health at risk to appease a bunch of strangers, as long as you offer the services you advertise and have a polite attitude about it all, a negative review won't impact business. (Plus anyone that puts it as a negative that you asked them to stop because you were hurting them will immediately be identified as a grade A asshole).

MollyG · « **Reply #16 on:** 05 July 2015, 12:22:28 am »

No client will give you a bad review. What can they write, I pounded her so hard she cried? I had clients threatening to write bad reviews about me and they never did. Jerks

There's no techniques because you shouldn't be putting up with it in the first place. Imagine if you passed out what they can do to you. This line of work is not for girls who say yes to everything. You will get hurt or worse have problems so messed up they affect you for the rest of your life. Don't see this client again and in the future say you offer a gentle GFE and you like to be treated gently. The gentle GFE clients will find and book you and you will make money without getting hurt

MsDee · « **Reply #17 on:** 05 July 2015, 09:05:21 am »

Unfortunately there are clients out there whose ultimate goal as they put it is to "ruin you". $:-\$ And they will brag about it.

BlaqHarlot · « **Reply #18 on:** 05 July 2015, 01:18:06 pm »

Yep. I've had this.
I'm very tight and I have to mention this so many times to guys who want to shove four fingers inside me or destroy my cervix, it's so painful and the next day it's even worse. Many times I've just grit my teeth to get through it but now I tell them it's hurting, there are some guys who couldn't give a shit about your wellbeing but be stern with them, and if they then don't stop, wriggle yourself out of whatever position you are in and just stop altogether, they will soon learn then x

Terri · « **Reply #19 on:** 05 July 2015, 01:32:33 pm »

Guys who have tried this ova the years stop as soon as I give the balls a pinch or a squeeze....soon get the message.....dip sticks the lot of them.

Kay · « **Reply #20 on:** 05 July 2015, 02:16:02 pm »

I enjoy a pounding, but not if they're so long they hit my cervix - I would definitely suggest changing position if that happened.

Kimberly-x · « **Reply #21 on:** 05 July 2015, 02:24:30 pm »

i always put my legs between theres and i still fanny fart its so embarrassing any tips on that

Sassy Slapper · « **Reply #22 on:** 05 July 2015, 06:31:58 pm »

Just lean forward so their cock pops out, turn around and tell them that they are doing it too hard. If they ignore you then withdraw from that position, you can lean forwards so you are on your tummy then twist around. If a guy has a firm grip on your hips and is pounding and you cannot get away reach between your legs and get a grip on his scrotum and he will soon stop because if he doesnt he is going to yank his own ballsack

To be honest if a guy gets to the point where I have to grab his bollocks the only move left for me is to tell them they are aggressive, get dressed and to leave.

At the end of the day you dont even have to do anything wrong to get bad review nowadays so health and safety is your priority. You are not a chunk of meat

MollyG · « **Reply #23 on:** 05 July 2015, 06:33:25 pm »

Kimberly, clients laugh at my fanny farts i laugh with them

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #24 on:** 06 July 2015, 02:51:57 pm »

They don't even need to have a long willy to catch your cervix some guys just don't get that they are meant to slide past it rather than bang into it.I can sort of adjust my own position by lowering my bum for instance but if they are determined to thrust in hard and keep doing it,I tell them straight.

chloinnyc · « **Reply #25 on:** 08 July 2015, 04:55:35 pm »

You never, ever have to do anything that hurts or makes you uncomfortable! I get that we put up with a lot of things we don't exactly love because the money is good, but something that hurts crosses a line and is not worth it. I have found that even the clients who get off on being rough/seem like the kind of guys who think hardcore porn is how you should fuck a woman stop immediately if I tell them something hurts. Its kind of shocking, and made me realize a lot of them just don't know that they're hurting you. I usually try to tell them in a way that will boost their ego, like "Oh you're just so big, we'll have to try a different position" or "omg I was so turned on that I got a little too sensitive" haha.

I actually love doggy b/c it almost always makes them come faster and often will use it as the last position to finish them off. What I can't stand is missionary when they put my legs up over their shoulders (or try to bend my legs back so my feet are near my head- WTF I'm not a pretzel!). That horrible have-to-pee sensation is the worst and that position always leaves me raw. So I let them know I love other positions and no one has ever had a problem with it!

Mirror · « **Reply #26 on:** 08 July 2015, 07:00:16 pm »

Quote from: amber_c on 04 July 2015, 11:30:28 pm

clients don't want to hurt us so we need to let them know our physical limits and tell them when to slow down/suggest a change in position. I don't see the younger guys because of this to be honest, find the middle aged men don't tend to want "hard and fast" as much.

and talk on my profile lots about my gentle GFE

when you ask them to slow down or change from doggy let them know it's because of their big cock or they might think you're just not enjoying the sex or disinterested.

if they want to keep going after you've said it's hurting you then it's time to end the booking! you are not getting paid to be treated like a rag doll and there are plenty of clients who will respect your body and rules. let them write whatever they want online, most who read those know to take it all with a pinch of salt

Absolutely. If you don't want to offer a 'pounding' service be clear upfront, most clients would be mortified if they thought they were causing harm or discomfort but they are not mind readers.

Some do want something harder, and I direct those of to women who do want to offer that sort of thing. Very occasionally one will slip through my screening, and if they won't accept my limits, then I don't see them again(and I tell them why so they know to move on).

Midsstudent · « **Reply #27 on:** 08 July 2015, 07:06:13 pm »

I never suggest doggy because I hate the repeated pulling out and sticking it straight back in creating a big amount of air up me, it starts to hurt! Luckily I do the whole GFE thing so pounding and doggy are rare

victoryrose · « **Reply #28 on:** 08 July 2015, 10:12:13 pm »

Doggy is rare in GFE??? I swear I have it with almost every client? It's actually one of the more enjoyable positions for me though and hurts less, but if they start pulling it out like that I will explain to them how that isn't going to result in anything very attractive.

Midsstudent · « **Reply #29 on:** 08 July 2015, 11:31:34 pm »

Maybe that's why you get more of it then... because it's something you encourage? I don't mention it, ever. I only do it if it's explicitly asked for.

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