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Ana66

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Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« on: 17 May 2022, 01:55:18 pm »
Hi everyone,

I've had a potential client contacting me asking if I've got recent negative STDs test results. I was about to reply to him that I do get checked regularly so I'm good on that side and that if he is scared then he shouldn't see escorts but I thought it would be worth asking for your opinion on here.

This also makes me think that this guy could be a barebacker/have STDs himself or just the usual timewaster.

Let me know what you all think

Thanks  :)
« Last Edit: 17 May 2022, 02:01:51 pm by Ana66 »
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amy

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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #1 on: 17 May 2022, 01:59:13 pm »
You're actually going to reply to some bellend who thinks it's appropriate to ask a stranger (or anybody else) for sensitive personal information about their health when cake exists? That one would have hit my bin so fast I'd have forgotten about it before I had time to make a post

Block and move on. They don't magically get any better once they're in the same room as you.
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Miffy

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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #2 on: 17 May 2022, 02:00:45 pm »
While I appreciate it might be innocent, this would be a red flag for me. Unlike you, who thinks he might be a barebacker or have STDs, I would see him as a potential stealther - a man who removes the condom when opportunity presents itself/deliberately rips the condom.

Whatever he is, I just would not entertain meeting him. I would either ignore his message or reply that I am unavailable.
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Miffy

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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #3 on: 17 May 2022, 02:01:33 pm »
Also, and as ever, what Amy says!!
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Ana66

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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #4 on: 17 May 2022, 02:03:41 pm »
Yes you right, really sound like this guy could be a stealther. All of this is very suspicious. Thanks very much for your advice  :)
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amy

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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #5 on: 17 May 2022, 02:07:19 pm »
I wouldn't have given it even enough thought to come up with a snappy bit of jargon for him.

Anybody who thinks somebody's medical history should be public property is not welcome in my company (this approach came in particularly useful during covid when I blocked anyone and everyone who even mentioned it :)).
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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #6 on: 17 May 2022, 03:30:58 pm »
If a client is worried about STD then just pay for a wank would be my answer or only see women that offer everything protected. If somebody asks somebody that offers unprotected services then i find it ridiculous and that reply does need to be binned and blocked really.
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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #7 on: 17 May 2022, 04:11:30 pm »
This says to me he has very little knowledge of sexual health, or he's potentially going to ask for bareback.

I usually educate on inaccuracy, and invalidity of STI certificates. I've has some very difficult moments with punters who act as if I'm being unreasonable when I won't let them touch my labia or clitoris with their bare penis, won't let them ejaculate over my bare genitals. They offer to show me their test results, stored on their mobile phone. Makes no difference, I will not engage in those activities.
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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #8 on: 18 May 2022, 01:35:04 am »
The thing is, it's a pointless question. Any sensible SP is going to be tested every 3–6 months. Anyone who isn't bothered would just lie, wouldn't they? I usually keep my last text message from the clinic, but there's no other proof, and it's pretty much invalid as you could have shagged half the town in between going to the clinic and getting the results.
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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #9 on: 18 May 2022, 06:59:10 am »
As Kay indicated, tests are invalid the moment you fuck someone else, they a only accurate from when you were tested until when you have sexual activity next. For some of us that's matter of hours or a day or 2. I find the question (punters asking about my sexual health) extremely invasive and intrusive into my personal life and as Amy says, why should that information be seen as public property? I see them as potential stealthers. One of these days I'm going to screw with their minds when I get asked and tell them I'm waiting for results after a broken condom....
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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #10 on: 18 May 2022, 02:32:42 pm »
I'd have blocked him.
He's a timewaster.
He'd never have booked you.
« Last Edit: 18 May 2022, 10:38:16 pm by KBP »
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Re: Potential client asking for negative STDs results
« Reply #11 on: 18 May 2022, 03:07:36 pm »
To be fair i have had a couple of clients in bookings that have asked me do i regularly get checked for STD's and roughly how often. One of the clients had hand job and the other Oral with a condom and breast relief.

 I don't mind them asking as conversation in the booking but i just find it weird if they ask if they not met me and they actually want and seek unprotected services because if you are that bothered about your health use a condom for everything or just have hand relief.
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