I can honestly say hand on heart i have never been in a bad situation with regards to work and punters
Im not sure if its because i am of the mind of anyone who is fucking me about initially is going to be worse when i meet so i simply don't see them or because maybe i come across as slightly "Don't fuck with me " in the sense that i sort of take control of the appointment from the start or i simply look like a woman that would put up a good fight but I've never been in the situation where i have felt scared or vulnerable
To be honest i think its a lot sometimes to do with your own confidence - bullies and potential attackers like to chose easy prey or people that they think or believe to be easy targets which is why so many street girls seem to get attacked as apposed to indoor workers.
So if you come across as a victim or weak or even the appearance of being vulnerable you might find your more prone to attracting such people
I have a friend and she is forever having problems with punters not in a bad way like being attacked but numerous silly things and them taking the piss with her However its often punters that i have seen and had no trouble with them and they are often repeat clients for me. So to some extent i honestly believe that she its the way she works that allows these guys to mess her about They know that they can so they do With me they know that they cant, so they don't
It come with experience though and unfortunately you have to go through a lot of idiots and timewasters to be able to smell the bullshit down the phone and in texts
But then again in Strawberry case none of above apply
so I'm probably just talking crap