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May West

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Poppers
« on: 11 November 2024, 04:39:31 pm »
Ladies, what are your thoughts about clients who want to use poppers?

Any negatives here?

amy

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Re: Poppers
« Reply #1 on: 11 November 2024, 08:07:42 pm »
Ladies, what are your thoughts about clients who want to use poppers?

Any negatives here?

Well my thoughts are that they can book somebody else rather than stinking my flat out with their rank chems, and that I can earn a good living without worrying about the potential consequences of a punter using/combining drugs without having any idea of the side effects.

Do you have a reason for asking? It's not clear from your post and people can be more helpful if they know; if a punter is trying to convince you that this is a popular thing that everybody does, then in my (considerable) experience nothing could be further from the truth?

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Re: Poppers
« Reply #2 on: 11 November 2024, 11:00:12 pm »
I have some clients who like to use them when I'm doing Strap on. I tell them fine but they need to cap the bottle in between sniffs and not to get it anywhere near me as I'll end up with a raging headache.

Edited to add - I've never had a client get in a bad way with them, but I know one girl whose client did far too much and was taken poorly during the booking, so it can be a worry.
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Re: Poppers
« Reply #3 on: 12 November 2024, 03:34:38 am »
Be careful they don't spill any on you cos it will burn your skin. I don't really like them doing it standing up with me on the ground. I don't like taking it myself as it gives me a headache and I always tell them to keep the bottle shut when they are not inhaling. And have a window open during and after. I have had some go overboard with it and see their lips go blue. I mean it is legal and they are adults but I don't want them passing out or dying. I tell them not to drive too soon. .....TBH after reading all that it's probably best to just tell them they can't do it. Depends how much you need their business really. In an ideal world we would never have to see anyone we don't like or do anything we don't want to. But sometimes you have to compromise and just try and control the situation as much as you can.

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Re: Poppers
« Reply #4 on: 12 November 2024, 06:50:52 am »
I have some clients who like to use them when I'm doing Strap on. I tell them fine but they need to cap the bottle in between sniffs and not to get it anywhere near me as I'll end up with a raging headache.

Edited to add - I've never had a client get in a bad way with them, but I know one girl whose client did far too much and was taken poorly during the booking, so it can be a worry.

I was give a technique by a BDSM mentor to improve safety, removes danger of open bottles. My experience of poppers was 20+ years ago on the rare scene, I don't want any exposure to them and they could damage furniture. I have strict rules and will never provide them, the client must have their own and must stick to the rules. A couple of BDSM clients have their own inhalant systems.

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Re: Poppers
« Reply #5 on: 12 November 2024, 11:41:26 am »
It’s a guy who I’ve seen before who’s just asked if he can use them.

He says that using poppers at the same time as receiving a prostate massage gives him the ultimate orgasm. Apparently.

Not seen them in years and just wondered what others thought.

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Re: Poppers
« Reply #6 on: 12 November 2024, 04:19:30 pm »
It’s a guy who I’ve seen before who’s just asked if he can use them.

He says that using poppers at the same time as receiving a prostate massage gives him the ultimate orgasm. Apparently.

Not seen them in years and just wondered what others thought.

You need to decide your own policy, for me I want to know if they are experienced, will they use them in a responsible way which does not involve open bottles that could spill, expose me to the fumes or damage my belongings. Some people are sloppy users, or just aren't aware of the damage they can cause give it zero thought.

If it's one client, who you have only seen once or twice, and you aren't involved in BDSM (and even then there are many who won't allow this), then do not be afraid to just say no.