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emilana

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Planning to start "normal career", but worried..
« on: 05 June 2014, 12:09:20 am »
Hi, I was wondering if any of you girls had been through same - I want to start normal job, even found one but not sure I am able to stop with escorting ..

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xTightYoungTeen

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Re: Planning to start ,,normal carrier,, but worried ..
« Reply #1 on: 05 June 2014, 12:38:23 am »
Hi, I was wondering if any of you girls had been through same - I want to start normal job, even found one but not sure I am able to stop with escorting ..
I had a normal job last year as I wanted to take a break from escorting so got a job in Retail
I lasted 6 months and realised it wasn't for me! Nor was the poor wage so got back into escorting.
I think the money is what brings you back more than anything, not many ways of making this much money so quickly!
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kinkyboots

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Re: Planning to start ,,normal carrier,, but worried ..
« Reply #2 on: 05 June 2014, 01:14:54 am »

Could you escort part-time until you decided whether you enjoyed the new job and wanted to stick at it? Providing your schedule would permit it of course, i'm in no way suggesting you run yourself ragged  :) Do you have long standing regulars? I know of a girl who has essentially stopped and doesn't advertise any more but still see some of her more favorable regulars to top up her income now and then.

If you're planning to stop escorting because it's having a negative impact on you and you're not enjoying it at all anymore then by all means dismiss all of my above paragraph

The financial aspect of what we do is without a doubt the biggest intensive for me, so i'd feel conflicted about moving on too. It is possible to lead a normal life after being an escort though, plenty have, it'll just take some time to get used to the change. We did have normal lives once so it is possible, even if it doesn't seem like an easy transition to make.

Good luck hun x

Feltipen

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Re: Planning to start "normal career", but worried..
« Reply #3 on: 05 June 2014, 01:11:00 pm »
I've done escorting "full time" (which was essentially part time compared to a 9-5 job) and it was great to have all the free time to take bookings and not have to turn people down, more time for incalls etc. but it was lonely and I found myself only needing to work 8 days a month to cover all my bills and have extra so I had a lot of free time. With friends and family all at work or uni etc I was pretty lonely and lazy.

I've also done a full time 9-5(ish) job and escorted part time. Now this i really enjoyed, I love being busy and rushing about which I was constantly doing trying to fit in bookings on the evening. But there's less time for incalls as I'd need a whole day so it was mostly outcalls. My 9-5 wage would be enough for the basics then escorting topped it up and let me do all the things I wanted so I wasn't struggling or short every month, plus it was nice to socialise at work and have something to talk to friends and family about.

Now it's a part time "normal" job and part time escorting. A perfect combination. Good cover job, socialising in the day and enough free time for extra curricular and escorting where I'm not squeezing bookings into my free time.

That's just me though, I hate 9-5 full time jobs. I want to spend my life enjoying it not working whilst the suns out. It can be done. Even when I stopped advertising I still had regulars contact me and want to see me for longer bookings/overnights etc. As said above working part time and escorting part time is what worked for me but it's also (as said by another) a good way to decide which way you want to go and if it works for you.

SophieX25

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Re: Planning to start "normal career", but worried..
« Reply #4 on: 05 June 2014, 09:47:51 pm »
i have always had a part time or full time job while escorting. just dont do to much of both as you will tire yourself out.

roseanna

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Re: Planning to start ,,normal carrier,, but worried ..
« Reply #5 on: 06 June 2014, 06:06:22 am »

Do you have long standing regulars? I know of a girl who has essentially stopped and doesn't advertise any more but still see some of her more favorable regulars to top up her income now and then.

It's quite possible to keep long term regulars and do other work at the same time. I have more than a dozen who visit at least once a month and some  have been around for years.


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Re: Planning to start "normal career", but worried..
« Reply #6 on: 06 June 2014, 07:24:23 am »
i only see regulars. i use to tour alot so i know i can go some where and see some one i know. i rarely see new people.

ClaireJayne

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Re: Planning to start "normal career", but worried..
« Reply #7 on: 06 June 2014, 07:51:15 am »
i have always had a part time or full time job while escorting. just dont do to much of both as you will tire yourself out.

Sage advice ... which I should follow.  I run a full time business and see 12 + clients a week.  It kills me most of the time.