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cuteclarice20

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working after pregnancy/ c section
« on: 08 January 2014, 01:34:44 am »
Hello girls good to be back , after having my little girl nearly 6 weeks ago I'm hoping to go back to work but I had a c section and not feeling so attractive anymore trying to tone up etc any tips on how to start working again ? And wouldit be possible to wear a bbaby doll lingerie while working ? Afraid clients might be turned off over scar and weight

emmagfe

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Re: working after pregnancy/ c section
« Reply #1 on: 08 January 2014, 10:29:09 am »
I went back to work 6-8 weeks after a natural birth.
I have stretch marks and I never gained any pregnancy weight but I have a little squishy belly. It's never bothered a client.

To begin with the sex was a little uncomfortable but bearable.
My body still isn't the same. It does take a while. My child is almost 1.

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Re: working after pregnancy/ c section
« Reply #2 on: 08 January 2014, 10:29:52 am »
Tbh I prefer working now than before I had a child. Clients have a lot more respect for you and take you ,ore seriously - in my opinion!

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Re: working after pregnancy/ c section
« Reply #3 on: 08 January 2014, 02:33:20 pm »
if you have  a scar across the stomach above the pelvic bone  then buy a suspender belt  like this one  its deep /wide so will hide any scars  ( cut out the knicker as they are built in  ;D) they are fab  last for ages and the clips are detachable they are around ?10

http://www.amazon.co.uk/White-Embroidered-Suspender-Attached-Thong/dp/B007X24QW6/ref=sr_1_9?s=clothing&ie=UTF8&qid=1389191523&sr=1-9&keywords=suspender+belts


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Re: working after pregnancy/ c section
« Reply #4 on: 08 January 2014, 09:54:48 pm »
My sister has had two children and has been left with (in her opinion) very noticeable c-section scars.

She wasn't an escort but she was a 'webcam model' and there are some really beautiful girls I've seen offer webcam on Adultwork. She still got plenty of business and perhaps her personality meant a lot more than whether her body was free from scars. I think the same could possibly be said for escorting? Personality counts a lot.

I don't know if clients will want/expect you to get 'fully naked', perhaps some would prefer it but it's pretty obvious some ladies are going to be mothers and some of those mothers will have had caesarean sections so I wouldn't worry.

Confidence is very sexy and being a nice person and offering a good time goes a long way. I don't think a man would prefer a Barbie lookalike who is boring, demeaning and crap in bed, over a fun and welcoming lady who's had a child.

Those suspenders Paris linked to look good! Maybe you could keep them on throughout if you don't feel comfortable enough? I had one client who wanted me to keep my suspenders and stockings on the whole way through our bookings. (He didn't tell me this at first though so I stupidly put the suspenders over my knickers! Wiser now...)

I've noticed a couple of ladies on Adultwork who clearly have visible C-section scars and/or stretch marks on some pictures and on others they wear suspender belts/corsets etc.

If you are really worried about what clients will think about such things then I think the best thing you can do is to make sure your pictures are a genuine reflection of how you will look when you meet and concentrate on your best features.

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Re: working after pregnancy/ c section
« Reply #5 on: 09 January 2014, 01:33:19 am »
I have a great big wobbly,  stretch mark scarred and c section scared belly.  I wear big suspender belts like the one Paris mentioned.  The only comments I've had from guys about my body is when they tell me they like it.  Personally I think that's crazy,  I hate it,  but hey ho,  that's life!

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Re: working after pregnancy/ c section
« Reply #6 on: 09 January 2014, 07:16:09 am »
You don't have to take your stockings / suspenders off when having sex , I rarely do and only when I'm asked  not because of any scars but out of habit I don't wear knickers or I just wear a thing over the top so it's easy to slip that off 

Buy the ones I showed you cut out the knicker bit. And buy some nice stockings from marks and sparks  also don't throw away the straps they are removable  I tend to keep the strap as Spain's for new ones as its sod law when I'm touring a strap or clip will break

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Re: working after pregnancy/ c section
« Reply #7 on: 09 January 2014, 11:55:11 am »
I'm with Paris,  the stockings stay on 99.9% of the time,  mostly because it's just easier,  also because I feel sexy wearing them.