I find true submissives are rare, many want to top from the bottom, have high level of contact, send multiple long emails chopping and changing session content. Others totally messing around then pleading 'Sorry Mistress I won't do it again' rinse and repeat.
I do specialise in Domme as well as GFE, am part of the BDSM community but it certainly isn't easy, and despite clear adverts saying I'm pro (professional arrangement only)there are many who don't realise my time has to be paid for either cash or in services.