Hello

I recently had a new client. I was on top and trying to guide him in and although his penis was erect, it felt slightly soft to me and was also bent and twisted a little to one side so I really struggled to get him in.

He then asked me "are you alright sweetheart, would you be more comfortable lying down?" I then felt awkward and like the issue was with me when I don't feel it was. Although it did turned out that it was easier with him being on top...

He did have a good time overall so  I guess it wasn't really a problem to him but still, I felt like a bit of a let down.

Does anyone have any advice/experience of this?

Thank you xx

If the guy is a bit soft I find it difficult to get him in if I am on top but in missionary you can hold and guide him in better maybe the guy knew he had a problem and was just trying to get the best experience he could

Thumbing in a softie is always easier in missionary, I find.

I hate when they try to get it in when it's not completely hard, I often find they hurt me because they hold it in their fingers and push it far too hard than is necessary. Then if it does go in they bang their knuckles against me with no consideration. TBH if it's not completely hard then they'll have to wait or do something else.

I had the knuckle thing happen to me the other week and he was trying to ram it in so hard too, sheer agony.

I know, it's horrible and selfish I think. If it's hard it should be fine even if they are a bit enthusiastic. But to fuck about trying to get it in when it won't go, pushing & pressing awkwardly then to slam it in with their fingers still round the base? No. Just no. Any hint it's not ready then I won't let them try!