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bella92

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Re: Just started working - Not enjoying it.
« Reply #15 on: 19 August 2018, 04:40:04 pm »
I feel like if you hate it at the beginning then you will always hate it?! It's not going to become different the more men that are touching you, day in, day out..?

Personally at the beginning I loved it and it was only a while later that little things and factors grew to bother me so I'd try something else if I was in your position.

espressocappuccino

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Re: Just started working - Not enjoying it.
« Reply #16 on: 19 August 2018, 05:42:06 pm »
How can you “love” dozens of strange men touching, writing creepy reviews on forums you etc.?  :o
Each to their own I guess.

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Re: Just started working - Not enjoying it.
« Reply #17 on: 19 August 2018, 06:29:43 pm »
How can you “love” dozens of strange men touching, writing creepy reviews on forums you etc.?  :o
Each to their own I guess.

I enjoy the sexual aspect of most of my bookings! It helps...
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VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Just started working - Not enjoying it.
« Reply #18 on: 19 August 2018, 06:48:48 pm »
How can you “love” dozens of strange men touching, writing creepy reviews on forums you etc.?  :o
Each to their own I guess.

I'd rather be paid a very good amount of money to be touched by a stranger than be working in retail or hospitality where male customers will often think grabbing your arse or boobs is "fair game" and management's attitude is basically "Yeah get used to it."
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mlmcardiff

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Re: Just started working - Not enjoying it.
« Reply #19 on: 19 August 2018, 06:52:59 pm »
I'd rather be paid a very good amount of money to be touched by a stranger than be working in retail or hospitality where male customers will often think grabbing your arse or boobs is "fair game" and management's attitude is basically "Yeah get used to it."

I guess that isn't the same as loving it, but making a choice among not so amazing choices. I can understand why some love it, but I can also understand that those who just 'put up with it' can't understand the enthusiasm.

Wee blondie

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Re: Just started working - Not enjoying it.
« Reply #20 on: 19 August 2018, 08:46:37 pm »
How can you “love” dozens of strange men touching, writing creepy reviews on forums you etc.?  :o
Each to their own I guess.

For me I love meeting new and different people that I would probably never meet or converse with "in the real world", hearing about their lives, being paid lots of money whilst having my ego stroked, deciding to F off on holiday if and when I feel like it, choosing my own days and hours, making people leave my company happy...just to name a few.
I'm lucky enough to have some fantastic regulars and an all-round decent client base really, so of course that helps too.

When I went back to escorting, I was dealing with some shitty life issues outside of it, and really, tbh just wanted some fast cash to go on holiday, but I found it such a great way to take myself out of myself and look after/think about the needs of others, rather than my own.

Of course you get arseholes, but as previously mentioned, you will always get arseholes in any line of work, and for me the positives far outweigh the negatives.

So I guess I fall into that category too- I still 'love' it- it's not about loving being touched by strangers or loving the reviews, in fact I probably love the fact that these strangers don't know anything about me, so I can be whoever I want to be while I'm with them, if that makes sense  ???

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