Hi guys,

I just wanted a little bit of help and wanted to know if anybody had any inforamation to share.

I am 28 and have worked in the sex industry for 10 years, I am married and I am a home owner. I used to escort and hubby is not botherd but for the past 4 years i have been working as a NURU an tantric therapist from home, I also do webcam. My hours a pretty normal and I dont lead a crazy life, we prefer the slow lane and are pretty family orientated.

We have had a few miscarriages and have tried over 8 years trying to get preg, its just not happening. The doc cant do much, its just one of those things. We really would like a family of my own but I am scared about adoption. My tax reccords state online model as they have done for 10 years i never thought to update. I darnt apply, I worry that they will start snooping and asking things, Iv heard of surrogacy and adopting abraud but can these things even be done?

I have no plans to give up my job, my husband has a safe solid job that pays all the bills etc but my job allows us to live pretty well. I love how my job empowers me, but im worried that by taking my clothes off and rubbing abit of oil over somebody will mean i can never have a propper family.

Help!!

I could be wrong but I am pretty sure that an adoption agency can't legally see your tax returns.

All they might need to see is proof of income to show that you would be able to support a child, so bank statements, your yearly tax statement or similar should suffice.

And depending on your husband's salary they might only need to see his.

But your job isn't on your bank statement.

You would probably have to stop doing the massages from home but apart from that I don't see anything wrong.

Remember your not doing anything illegal, although as I said they would probably be wary of you working from home.

Don't give up before even trying though, the worst that can happen is that they say no.

Be aware also that friends, family etc will be asked to provide character and relationship references for you so your stories will need to add up. Albeit a long time ago, my parents adopted me and their lives were meticulously examined. I'd suggest looking to see if there are any sites or forums that can advise you exactly what you'll be faced with and it'll allow you to prepare as best you both can.

Good luck! X