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StawberryFields

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Re: Phone phobic - what to say on the phone
« Reply #15 on: 08 August 2014, 03:49:46 pm »
I'm pretty phone phobic (Strawberry Fields will know I'm always ignoring my personal phone) so I try to keep them really short, just a few minutes. It helps if you say at the start "I need to dash off soon so this will have to be short". I answer with "Hello, you've reached BlueDomme, would you like to book a session?" and that starts the conversation off on a professional, business a focused note.

Pretty phone phobic is an understatement! I'm one of her closest friends and she still barely picks my calls up >_< but if she can still manage it I guess anyone can. I'd imagine it has something to do with putting on that "persona". I know when I answer my phone as work me it's different from personal me... I mean we're the same person, but the way I act will change when taking a booking...

Bluetits

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Re: Phone phobic - what to say on the phone
« Reply #16 on: 08 August 2014, 04:02:12 pm »
The problem I sometimes have with it is if someone asks to make an appointment and I say yes I have time then during the call I think he's a creep and change my mind. Can be a bit awkward but I say something like oh actually I have someone booked shortly after so it might be a bit too close, or that I'm out, hoping they don't then say ok a bit later then.

Wife4rent

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Re: Phone phobic - what to say on the phone
« Reply #17 on: 08 August 2014, 04:58:05 pm »
I agree with Melissa, I have to speak to my potential clients, I don't take bookings via email or respond to texts.
I would recommend being friendly but still keep an air of business.
If a client asks "what do you offer?" I ask him "what are you looking for?" if its something I do we then go on to arrange a time for a booking.
I tell them the area I'm in and give them the post code and to call me on arrival.
Don't be afraid to relax and be friendly.

Here's a little tip.... after giving him your post code and some general directions ask him to repeat back to you your postcode, if they can't they didn't write it down so they will be a TW.
Simples x

Good advice, I also refer them back to my AW profile if they start to ask too many questions.

Sarah x x x

AnnaBBW

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Re: Phone phobic - what to say on the phone
« Reply #18 on: 08 August 2014, 08:36:24 pm »
God yes, this describes me perfectly!

I only talk to my mum and one friend on the phone and when it comes to work I really have to gear myself up for it.

Lots of wonderful advice here so I think I'm going to go with the list method and get over my fear :)

TheChemist

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Re: Phone phobic - what to say on the phone
« Reply #19 on: 08 August 2014, 09:21:42 pm »
Thank goodness it's not just me! I don't even like speaking with my mum.

I'm going to write a list and face my fears!