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cheeky2701

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people offering to assist me via a.w
« on: 23 December 2008, 05:34:53 am »
ive had two guys offering to be my driver - and 2 ladies - the first saying shes over run with clients would i like to take some off her hands - at a small cost of 20 pounds per bookings- also another lady offering an apartment in leeds city centre to work from 20 per hr

the first guy who offered is a guy who ive spoken over the phone with as a client - 4 3hrs ,non sexual ,the 2nd guy was wanting initially to team up on webcam - then offered his services as a driver - would i be completely stupid to even consider the 1st guys offer - regarding the fact hes a potential punter  and may want freebies - the second guy im most uncomfortable with as i cant get around the idea of his that we funk and split ? both ways -no way i say - im just so desparate for a driver - i did give the 2nd guy my work moby - and from the day he made the proposition hes been wanting to meet up everyday to discuss and has been ringing off my phone continunally every day since - which ive not answered - as i felt under pressure and his continuous calling has raised my own alarm bells - has anybody ever got a guy from a.w to become a driver - or would it just be completely braindead of me to even consider- as i type im thinking im answering my own questions ....as for the ladies contacting me - is that normal acceptable behaviour -genuine support or just from how i read it - a form of pimping dressed up as offering a hand of favour . ????????

brandy@saafe

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Re: people offering to assist me via a.w
« Reply #1 on: 23 December 2008, 08:56:15 pm »
ive had two guys offering to be my driver - and 2 ladies - the first saying shes over run with clients would i like to take some off her hands - at a small cost of 20 pounds per bookings- also another lady offering an apartment in leeds city centre to work from 20 per hr.

I've never heard of a woman selling her customers to another escort, which in effect, is what she's doing. I guess it's just another way of making money. Leave it to adultwork.
Thing is, how would you know that the customers she passes on to you are real? Does she ask for the money upfront, before you see them, or afterwards? Personally, I think that's just strange, but I've never been a fan of adultwork. I assume she's only targeting you because you're new to the industry. It's less of an altruistic gesture and more to do with making money off you.

the first guy who offered is a guy who ive spoken over the phone with as a client - 4 3hrs ,non sexual ,the 2nd guy was wanting initially to team up on webcam - then offered his services as a driver - would i be completely stupid to even consider the 1st guys offer - regarding the fact hes a potential punter  and may want freebies - the second guy im most uncomfortable with as i cant get around the idea of his that we funk and split ? both ways -no way i say - im just so desparate for a driver - i did give the 2nd guy my work moby - and from the day he made the proposition hes been wanting to meet up everyday to discuss and has been ringing off my phone continunally every day since - which ive not answered - as i felt under pressure and his continuous calling has raised my own alarm bells - has anybody ever got a guy from a.w to become a driver - or would it just be completely braindead of me to even consider- as i type im thinking im answering my own questions ....as for the ladies contacting me - is that normal acceptable behaviour -genuine support or just from how i read it - a form of pimping dressed up as offering a hand of favour . ????????

As for these two guys, I'd say follow your instincts. Tell the guy that's ringing you incessantly that if he doesn't stop you'll report him. You can even leave his name and number on our warnings forum if you like, if you want to re-register. Obviously not the full details but enough for him to realise who you're talking about. Other new ladies joining adultwork need to be made aware of him.

I've heard of guys on AW who've offered services in one form or another. When one venture doesn't work, they then turn to something else. Either because they think we make lots of money and they in turn want to make some, or as you say, they want free sex.

I would personally give all of them a wide berth.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: people offering to assist me via a.w
« Reply #2 on: 24 December 2008, 12:43:25 am »
I assume she's only targeting you because you're new to the industry. It's less of an altruistic gesture and more to do with making money off you.

some escorts are just plain evil. Period. I never accept an offer from someone offering to 'introduce me to clients'. Its a load of bullshit. I had someone say to me when I first signed onto the main websites, 'I could introduce you to some clients of mine'....never did, and never got back with me either.

Some of them like to pump and prime you for information and therefore try to lure you with false promises. Nah. You will do fine all by yourself. Thats what the websites are for.

chloe2701

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Re: people offering to assist me via a.w
« Reply #3 on: 24 December 2008, 12:54:34 am »
thankyou so much for taking time out to message me back - i was thinking i was invisable lol - yeah i completely agree with you with regards to your posts - answering my threads and youve both comfirmed what i already sub consiously know - thanks wishing you all a merry xmas - and properous new year - chloex