From what I've read (and been told) pay pigs and findom is more hassle than what it's worth, so it not something of interest and even if a regular client asked for this service, I would decline outright.

It might be worth reading these two related threads just as an eye-opener as what you could be letting yourself in for -

https://saafe.info/main/warnings-wasters/078320156**-potential-dangerous-manipulative-rich-claiming-guy-of-muslim-origin/

https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/urgent-please-help-bank-account-suspended-client-reversing-deposits!/

What I would say is that if you do agree to go ahead with this client, get everything in writing and maybe even ask for a video of him agreeing to this service as a precaution should things go pear-shaped and he does a chargeback.

Also, have you considered asking for a reference from another escort he has seen for this service? This might far more useful than asking him questions at the outset.

Those threads posted above by Millie are a good example with what can go wrong in these types of scenarios. I would personally 1) Stick to a written statement/contract (to protect yourself) and 2) Deal with cash only. Any money taken from his card/account to YOUR account can have your card/account frozen by the bank if a client regrets the session, cries "fraud" or goes to the police. Some women have even been arrested for fraud and later released once they showed the emails to the police. You really don't need that on your "background".  The things that can potentially go wrong in these scenarios are huge.

From what I understand with my client it's more a case of small payments but often rather than full blown rinsing which is why I'm happy to entertain it.

This would make me more suspicious tbh as smaller amounts would be easier for him to claim charge backs on.

If something seems too good to be true and easy money, it is decidedly likely that this will not be the case.

Should you go for it, hope all goes well - good luck!

If you must engage id request a similar lump sum today to prove he's genuine.

If you do it I'm curious to see how it goes!

Yes, on both counts!

Ask for a deposit before you will engage further. Deposits are great levellers and you'll quickly see if he's genuine.

Understood pink. I think most of us have had these offers. Suck it and see! You could accept, without further free ping pong email text or chat. I think thats quite important. Ghost him till he pays in terms you choose then do the service. Virtual, face to face whateer

I don't mind doing 10-15 minute jobs for smaller fees as it works great for me.
So find out what works for you.

I didn't think about an e-gift card! That's a really good idea. We discussed the idea of a coffee interview very briefly and we've exchanged maybe 5 messages each. I told him to contact me when he's serious about setting up said coffee, time will be compensated and we can discuss regular cash payments going forward at that time.

But should he message me again and I get a TW vibe then I could always use amazon vouchers! Thank you for the advice

I didn't think about an e-gift card! That's a really good idea. We discussed the idea of a coffee interview very briefly and we've exchanged maybe 5 messages each. I told him to contact me when he's serious about setting up said coffee, time will be compensated and we can discuss regular cash payments going forward at that time.

But should he message me again and I get a TW vibe then I could always use amazon vouchers! Thank you for the advice

I could definitely consider this a time waster. I like to tie things up, get the booking confirmed and deposit in the bag within 3 messages at the most. Those I find are all about the preliminary messages never come through with a deposit or have any intention to meet.

But, we all do things differently, and this situation is very different to the type of client/booking I deal with.

Do report back if he does get back in touch/if all this actually comes through