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Savanna

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Re: advice for an escort to be
« Reply #15 on: 20 July 2007, 08:55:13 am »
To Louise, Richard, Anika Mae, and SW5,

Thanks to each of you for taking an interest and providing me with some very important advice.

I am going to try and set up a site for myself over the next week or so, or however long it takes and then start off with incalls but only on eves and w/ends.

Dependent on what happens and how much success or lack of it I have then, well who knows.

It might sound silly to you all, but it may be something you may have felt at the outset.........my worst worry is that no one will get in touch, and i won't find any clients.......

My husband thinks that's highly unlikely and frequently explains, as best he can, how men work. He believes a friendly face, open personality and just a suggestion of something, naughty, erotic, but potentialy wild sexualy will beat even the most beautiful girl in the world who can't engage with another person and is distant and cold. His words.

I think he's right but i am also wise enough to know life doesn't follow any rules or guidelines......

I will be looking for a buddy if all goes well, so let me know if you are interested, i live in the oxford area so someone not too far would be best i suppose......just a thought..... does any of you girls want a "work experience" trainee?

Not sure if that last thought was a joke or a genuinely good idea, whatever let me know ;)

xxxx
Savanna


Louise

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Re: advice for an escort to be
« Reply #16 on: 20 July 2007, 12:31:06 pm »
im not too far away ..I will buddy you ...if you like ?
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anne

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Re: advice for an escort to be
« Reply #17 on: 22 July 2007, 11:54:21 pm »
I am fairly new to this but I have got lots of guys using adultwork. People slag it off but I think it is a great web-site. It is totally free and you can easily remove yourself  for a few days if u want too. Plus some guys have profiles on there so you get to know a bit about them.

Richard

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Re: advice for an escort to be
« Reply #18 on: 23 July 2007, 01:12:35 pm »
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I have got lots of guys using adultwork. People slag it off but I think it is a great web-site.

Ah, I was right. It doesn't matter if it generates lots of work, if it's work you hate doing. (Or rather it does matter, but in a bad way.)

If you are to continue, you can think 'what sort of clients do I want?' Then think 'where would they look for me?' It's probably not AW.

AW has a number of problems, but if I were an abuser, I'd certainly use it. That's one of the problems, of course, how easy it makes it to find vulnerable workers. There's also a definite encouragement to be as down-market as possible. I have a profile on there, but it's written to be as off-putting to the sort of client I don't want as I can make it.

Louise

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Re: advice for an escort to be
« Reply #19 on: 23 July 2007, 07:18:37 pm »
hmmmm aw is not the best of websites (the bareback option is one reason i dont like it)

it may be free but it has (for me in the past) generated so many idiots and timewasters and potentually lost me money
you can allways set a free website (if you are going to continue)and put it on some sites get some good pics done ( no open wide shots as that can generate the wrong type of bussiness)
they dont have to be professional

Anika Mae

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Re: advice for an escort to be
« Reply #20 on: 24 July 2007, 06:56:44 pm »
Adultwork is good for getting you attention when you're new, but you should be quite sure about what you're doing and how before you go there. A bit of a catch 22 I suppose, but you can get around it by talking to people with more experience. I don't get much contact from adultwork because of my rates (I used to offer an hour without full service quite cheaply and heard from loads of idiots then), but I've had some really good clients who found me through there. Some like it because of the extensive search facilities, for some it's just the first site they find.

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Re: advice for an escort to be
« Reply #21 on: 27 July 2008, 12:49:49 am »
Hi
ive got to say i agree with Anika regarding AW , as it has also got me a lot of business ( yes a lot of timewasters too but ive worded my profile to deter them as best as i can without sounding too regimented and scaring off all my potentials!!) . I think in a lot of mens cases its just the first thing they find when searching for escorts online. I advertise in a few other places but i do ask my guys where they seen the ad and its adultwork 99% of the time !! X-work could be good as its free to advertise and has a no - bareback advert rule , as well as letting you keep a higher % of your credits if you wanted to cam ect, but just doesnt pull in the traffic !! Rare escorts is something else i set up for free , but ive not had much from this ( you can use your rare escort site to advertise on some punting forums ect though - a lot wont accept adultwork profiles!) , apart from that ive got a small ad on a local punters site which brings in a bit of business , but ive got to say most of my business is generated by AW. Most of the idiots and timewasters are filtered out at the phone/email stage and most guys are good clients despite AWs bad rep !!
To sum up , a lot of websites ( free ones anyway!!) just dont have the pulling power of AW , and it has got a lot of good features for both client and providers , if it didnt sit on the wrong side of the "tackniess" fence it would be so much better , but at the end of the day you do have full control over your ad/profile , so its up to you how to portray yourself !!
Good luck in your escort venture !!
Cleo XXX

Ps = To Savvana == yes theres lots of work for ladies 14/16 , im that size and dont have a prob getting bookings at all !! I also think its very true what your hubby said about guys wanting someone warm , freindly , understanding and sexual instead of a real model type who puts on an act and is in it for the money !!
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