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Yes. I'm used to wealthy men who would never underpay/not pay a working girl. So it's already embarrassing that I have to ask for the money upfront and I'm not counting it like they're buying sweets and alcohol from Carters. If it's the only way you're used to working, I'm sure it feels normal. I'll rather lose a few quid, as I expect my men to have class and manners. The most I'll do is peek inside an envelope to make sure it's cash and not Tesco vouchers,  apologising all the time.  I'm very seldom underpaid.  But an uncouth yob might make his way through my screening. He won't see me again though.

I was deceived by a wealthy Indian client who picked me up in his brand new £80,000 BMW;  that dirtbag gave me an envelope full of cut up white paper instead of my fee because I got lulled into a sense of security blinded by his "wealth".

20 odd years of being in this business
And I don’t care  if i have seen the client once ot 100 times
I’m counting that money in front of them

Don’t care if it’s 60 quid or 600 ever not gets counted out in front of the client with a smile on my face 

I also put in all my texts
Xxx amount
Cash only
No bank  transfers

Always get your money upfront. Then you shouldn't have any problems.

People who want to pay 'afterwards' are trying to control you. They want you to be wondering throughout the whole meeting if he's going to pay you the full amount.
This way they want you to try harder to please them.
Seeing an escort is like going to the cinema, concert or another show. First you pay, then you see.

Another dirty tactic clients use especially with new escorts is "I'll pay at the end and if you give a good service I'll tip or extend" Thinking you fall for I'll get extra if take money at end.

This scammers usually have booking then say oh your service was shit etc not paying etc.

Don't fall for any of this. No money upfront, no honey first rule of whoring!

OP the beauty of sex work being legal in the UK is that it's fine to ask for the money without worrying that you're being trapped by an undercover police officer. I usually say "So it was half an hour GFE right? So thats £xxx" then when I count it I make a comment like "oh these silly new plastic notes, people have accidentally given me extra so many times, let me make sure you haven't overpaid" - and I have in fact handed guys back an extra note several times, half of whom have told me to keep it as a bonus for bring honest 😂

I would rather secure a long term client who values my honesty and make thousands of pounds worth of future bookings, than make an extra £10 or £20 once.

OP the beauty of sex work being legal in the UK is that it's fine to ask for the money without worrying that you're being trapped by an undercover police officer. I usually say "So it was half an hour GFE right? So thats £xxx" then when I count it I make a comment like "oh these silly new plastic notes, people have accidentally given me extra so many times, let me make sure you haven't overpaid" - and I have in fact handed guys back an extra note several times, half of whom have told me to keep it as a bonus for bring honest 😂

I would rather secure a long term client who values my honesty and make thousands of pounds worth of future bookings, than make an extra £10 or £20 once.

1000% this, I read this but could have written it, I do and say exactly the same with the same results and reaction 👍